How do I STOP eating!!
bds23
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Hey guys, I am rather new to this site. My beautiful mother and I are trying to to this together but I am really struggling How do I stop myself from eating so much?? I find that when i have dinner especially, I overindulge, i think just because its there and it tastes so good I have a hard time stopping myself. I also eat really fast (runs in the family) and Im having a hard time slowing down. I just really really want to lose weight and feel pretty again but it seems like when food gets in the picture, I just want to EAT!!! Any help, tips, tricks or new friends are much appreciated :flowerforyou:
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Eat some fiber foods they help keep you feeling full longer. drink lots of water, chew some gum these things have helped me during the days that i just wanted to eat. hope this helps.0
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Welcome! It's great that you and your mother are doing this together and and able to help each other!
I've read that starting dinner with a salad or broth-type soup will help to satisfy (as well as add nutrients) so that it's easier to watch your portion on the main course. I don't do the soup thing so much before a meal, but the salad does work.
Also - put your fork down between bites and really enjoy what you are eating. Drink water with your meal.
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YES-- chewing gum really helps. Also, try eating a handful of peanuts or almonds about 30 minutes before your meal.0
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Put your knife and fork down and have a mouthful of water between each mouthful. Will slow you right down.
Don't eat in front of the TV.0 -
I am queen of 2nd and 3rd helpings because I know I'm a good cook (at least that's what my husband and my taste buds tell me!!!).
The way that I have solved this problem is that first I meal plan. I decide what I'm going to eat and how many calories and I figure out the measurements beforehand.
Secondly, I measure up my food and dish it up in the kitchen. I actually do this with my husband's and kids' foods too. If he or they want extra we go back into the kitchen and add it to their plates.
Third, I DO NOT put food on the table to dish it up even for everyone else!!! I'm too tempted.
Fourth, I either before dinner or immediately after enter in my food into MFP so that I'm less likely to cheat.
Fifth, drink lots of liquids. I'm not a huge water drinker but sometimes just at dinner I can go through 2--16 oz glasses of Crystal light.
I sympathize. I'm a fast eater and my husband's even faster but I also am learning to only eat what's on my plate and not to add extra to it. It's not easy but I'm learning to make foods that are lower in calories but give a good volume and are healthy/filling. YOU CAN DO IT!!! You just have to take control and don't put yourself in a position to eat more.0 -
Take your plate of food, especially when you eat out, divide it in half, put half in a container and put the container away before you start eating. The food in the container is tomorrows meal!0
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You could maybe try bulking out your dinners with half veg or salad, still gives you a nice full plate but is really good for you0
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Chewing sugar free gum and drinking LOTS and LOTS of water!! And when your eating... eat all the veggies/salad first. Thats what I do at least.0
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You definitely should try to eat more slowly. Lots of tricks for that:
- Take a sip of water between each bite.
- Put your fork down after each bite, and don't pick it back up again until you've swallowed.
- Chew each bite 20 times. Those bites should also be smaller than your usual bite size.
- Talk during your meal! And no talking with your mouth full. If you're having a conversation, you're less likely to take bites one right after the other, because you'll be pausing to talk.
Also, instead of bringing all the food to the table, serve up a plate at the counter, buffet-style, with small servings of everything. If you have to get up to get seconds, you're less likely to go for them.
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IF you eat fast, your body's not going to recognize you're full until you're TOO full. Try starting to put the fork down between bites, until after you swallow. It'll slow you down a bit and get you into realizing how much you're eating and not over indulging simply because it's there. Don't fill your plate with food, every meal is not Thanksgiving. Also, before going for seconds, wait a few minutes to pass and see how you feel before you go ahead.0
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Drink lots of water, and always put your plate in the sink and leave the table after you first serving, helps so you dont take seconds.0
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I am sooo with you there. Maybe we can help each other!! Everything I like to do is associated with food. I always feel so deprived when I am not eating. LOL So...water and gum and putting down our forks I guess!!! :-)0
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When making dinner don't make so much. If there isn't any left for seconds you won't over induldge. If your feeding 4 people make 4 portions. Make sure your meals are 1/4 healthy options. You can over indudgle in vegetables or fruit all you want. Make sure you carbs are high in fiber so they help fill you up faster. And a big one is water. Drink a glass before you eat and than set down your fork and take a sip after each bite. This will help to fill you up faster and will ensure you get your 8 glasses a day. Make sure you don't keep your food at the table too. If you have to get up to go get seconds you'll be less likely to do it.0
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I have the same problem, my discipline is lacking in this area to say the least. I think my next step is not to have the food on the table. Our family meals are served from the table so it is easier, I find that after serving myself a "human size serving", (a term we use around here meaning a serving that would feed one person, not three like I sometimes do), I like to have just a little more etc. So removing the temptation, making you get up and go to the stove or counter to get more might help me, so I thought I would share that.0
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I used to have the same problem
Using smaller plates has helped me to eat less because there is less space! I take my lunch to work in small plastic containers, enough to hold 5oz of tuna and 2 hardboiled eggs.
Also, like nikkizmom1962 said, eat foods that make you stay full longer and only eat when your stomach says you are hungry (we oft times eat when our mind tells us "hmm, I should eat" just because its around a certain time or just because we're bored)
I've found that eating less carbs and more healthy fats has curbed my appetite a lot! Salmon, eggs cooked in coconut oil, vegetables with olive oil, avocados, they all have helped me with the issue that you are facing.
Most importantly, keep the faith! If you stay positive, no matter the roadblocks, you will achieve your goals.
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You don't have to stop eating. Just watch portion size and eat the right foods and you will never be hungry. Look for healthy recipe sites that will give you ideas. Log food before you eat it and if its too high for your goals switch it to something that will fit better into your day. I bought a food scale and educated myself on portion size. I learned how to substitue in recipes. Educate yourself and you will never be hungry. I have made my health and healthy eating my hobby. I have lost all the weight I wanted without exercise and never go hungry. :flowerforyou:0
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YES-- chewing gum really helps. Also, try eating a handful of peanuts or almonds about 30 minutes before your meal.
Almonds absolutely!0 -
Chewing sugar free gum and drinking LOTS and LOTS of water!! And when your eating... eat all the veggies/salad first. Thats what I do at least.
I agree I do that too....all that chewing makes you feel like you've been eating for ages...Lol0 -
Chewing sugar free gum and drinking LOTS and LOTS of water!! And when your eating... eat all the veggies/salad first. Thats what I do at least.
I agree I do that too....all that chewing makes you feel like you've been eating for ages...Lol
The bit about the veggie and salads and lots of water. Chewing gum makes me hungry...guess I'm odd like that0 -
Welcome! I also have a problem with not eating too much...What I do now is fill my plate with veggies first and try to fill it at least half way. Then I help myself to a bit of whatever else I've cooked for dinner. I also try to drink lots of water during the meal to make me feel fuller faster. Also, I plan my dinners a week in advance, and then I know that dinner (my biggest meal) will be each day. In the mornings I'll calculate that night's dinner, and then go from there! Good luck, you'll do great!0
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Some people have had success with using smaller plates (7" instead of typical 12"), chewing a mouthful competely even counting 20 times before swallowing, always eating at the dinner table and never while doing something else (i.e., mindless eating), put your fork down between bites, drink a glass of water before eating a meal, be sure to include foods that are filling to your body--this means choices that are higher in fat and protein than carbohydrates. These are things that have worked for people ... one of these or something else will work for you. Be patient ... you didn't get to the place where you decided to lose weight overnight, and results won't happen overnight or without your committment to your health.0
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Weight and pre-log your meals. This along other suggestions from others really helps.
When splitting meals before head tell yourself that you can have the second half if you are really hungry. You will find out that after the first half you will be satisfied.
Also remember that hunger is cumulative over hours and over days also so if you let your hunger levels get too crazy you will binge afterwards. In other words if you eat too little for too many days, or too little in the morning and lunch then your hunger will tell you, in your mind, that you can eat a horse or a whole pizza, or extra nuggets, etc. So having a snacking strategy can also help.
e.g.
Breakfast = 300-400 calories
AM Snack = 200 calories
Lunch = 400-500 calories
PM Snack = 200 calories
Dinner = 500 calories
Total of 1500-1800 calories
If you exercise and burn 200-300 calories you should be able to lose some weight,
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My secret is to use a smaller plate, and then load it with steamed veggies! I don't feel deprived because I am looking at a full plate of food. And I always have a big salad with dinner, changing up the ingredients almost every night. I even created a Salad section on my food diary. High fiber and protein choices through day, help too. Drink lots of water during the day, and your tummy will just not be able to hold as much, come dinner time.0
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Get smaller plates, even if its just your plate. Your plate will look full and the illusion will help you stop when it's empty. Eat in the dining room, or breakfast bar with NO TV on. It distracts you and you don't realize how much you eat. and I agree with the previous post, lots of fluids, water, unsweet tea, crystal light. Last but no least, start with a salad, eat the whole salad before you start eating your meal. The first time you push your plate away before its empty and say I'm full you will be so proud!!!0
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I've read where it takes 20 minutes for the neurotransmitters to reach our brain to let us know we're full. If you eat slower start by chewing your food 100 times or some number a lot higher than what you are now. The other thing is measure out your food put it on your plate and that's it...when you've finished that you don't get anymore until your next meal.
Don't know if this will help you but it certainly does me.
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Last year during my annual physical I told my doctor how I was trying to lose weight but always felt hungry. He sent my to an endocrinologits for that and my diabetes. I've been on a good combo of meds that has my sugar down, cholestrol under control, and the most important thing is I no longer feel hungry all the time. Talk to your doctor, it might surprise you how they can help you with your issues.0
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i use mfp b4 my meal to know my measurements and then i put it all on a smaller plate.. helps me0
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Hi all and thanks for the question, I was looking for help with hunger pains. The responses to over eating were helpful. From now on I will drink at least one eight oz. glass of water before a meal and one after the meal. Also I will use soup as an premeal suppliment, because I noticed some time ago when I was not dieting or changing my eating style that when I ate soup before a meal my desire to eat decreased.0
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I have found that putting the serving dishes in another room is the best way to go for me. If I have to go to another room to get seconds, I am more likely to think about it before I load up my plate again.0
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