If the person avobe send you a FR, what would you do?

Minion_training_program wrote: »

try_harderG wrote: »

Why wouldn't you accept

Well, their could be numerous reasons why someone on MFP wouldn't accept a friend request, do you want me to list down my favourite

I love that you not only have a top 10... but its your favourite top 10!!!
I am all ears!!

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@try_harderG

For some reason i missed your message yesterday, but here goes...

PS i think MFP is a community to support people into getting a healthy lifestyle, and have people around you who are already on the right path, so you can learn from them.

• Number 10: A friend request without any short message. In my experience, these people hardly talk to you once you accepted the request, and you end up deleting this person later anyway
• Number 9: When you get a request from someone who has over 200 friends on their friendslist. I call these people "collectors". They tend to invite everyone, but having so many on your list, i find it hard to believe you can interact and be supportive with all of them on a weekly, let alone, daily basis
• Number 8:People who only friend request of the opposite sex. Like a woman who only has male friends, or a male who has only female friends on their list
• Number 7:People who friend request only people who look like they come straight out of a fitness magazine and have sixpack abs. Not that these people would actually send me personally a request, because i do not fit their profile. But why would you support only people looking like that?
• Number 6:A friend request with a sexual approach is a no go. I am a married guy, and i am not here for sexual things
• Number 5:A friend request from someone you have not even interacted slightly with on the forums. Feels like a stalker alert to me. And most of the time without a message as well. I mean, if you want to be friends with me, fine, but at least make sure you interact somewhat on forums before you send a request. In the past you could send out a private message to anyone on MFP, so that way you could interact before you would friend someone. But since a few years, that is not possible anymore. The so-called MFP glitch. Now you would need to let someone of forum know that you have send him/her a message, this person doesn't see it in his/her inbox, but when he/she would send a message to you, then you can interact with eachother. It's too much work now really, and maybe that's why some people just send a friend request instead, but unless i have interacted with you, it's a 100% no
• Number 4A friend request with a profile that has nothing filled in, as to why someone is here. If you send a request without a message, i would still like to know a little about you, that's what your profile is there for. But a empty profile...Nope, sorry
• Number 3A request from someone you got a warning from, from one of your friends already. There are some creepy people on MFP, who would request you, just to stalk a friend on your list
• Number 2The repeatively request. If i say no the first time, you are not likely to get a yes a day later buddy... I have had those so many in the past. Like i post on a thread a positive reaction to someone. For example the Hug/kiss/date thread. And i post let's say "date", they immediatly send you a friend request. To me, and to most people, those thread are fun and games, and are not to be taken seriously. But perhaps some do take it seriously...MFP is not a dating site, for that, please go use Tinder...
• Number 1The scammer request/bots. Lately there are a lot of requests again from people who seem to have had their profile hacked. I mean, pictures of woman, half naked, while in their profile it says male. My latest request of these was a woman with second picture giving a full view bl0wj0b...I find it strange these profiles do not get deleted, while people i know post a picture of them wearing a dress or something, showing maybe a little skin, and they get deleted instantly...Some MFP mods are real *kitten*, but that's what you get when MFP mods are volunteers, instead of hired staff.

slimgirljo15 wrote: »

Minion_training_program wrote: »

@try_harderG

For some reason i missed your message yesterday, but here goes...

PS i think MFP is a community to support people into getting a healthy lifestyle, and have people around you who are already on the right path, so you can learn from them.

• Number 10: A friend request without any short message. In my experience, these people hardly talk to you once you accepted the request, and you end up deleting this person later anyway
• Number 9: When you get a request from someone who has over 200 friends on their friendslist. I call these people "collectors". They tend to invite everyone, but having so many on your list, i find it hard to believe you can interact and be supportive with all of them on a weekly, let alone, daily basis
• Number 8:People who only friend request of the opposite sex. Like a woman who only has male friends, or a male who has only female friends on their list
• Number 7:People who friend request only people who look like they come straight out of a fitness magazine and have sixpack abs. Not that these people would actually send me personally a request, because i do not fit their profile. But why would you support only people looking like that?
• Number 6:A friend request with a sexual approach is a no go. I am a married guy, and i am not here for sexual things
• Number 5:A friend request from someone you have not even interacted slightly with on the forums. Feels like a stalker alert to me. And most of the time without a message as well. I mean, if you want to be friends with me, fine, but at least make sure you interact somewhat on forums before you send a request. In the past you could send out a private message to anyone on MFP, so that way you could interact before you would friend someone. But since a few years, that is not possible anymore. The so-called MFP glitch. Now you would need to let someone of forum know that you have send him/her a message, this person doesn't see it in his/her inbox, but when he/she would send a message to you, then you can interact with eachother. It's too much work now really, and maybe that's why some people just send a friend request instead, but unless i have interacted with you, it's a 100% no
• Number 4A friend request with a profile that has nothing filled in, as to why someone is here. If you send a request without a message, i would still like to know a little about you, that's what your profile is there for. But a empty profile...Nope, sorry
• Number 3A request from someone you got a warning from, from one of your friends already. There are some creepy people on MFP, who would request you, just to stalk a friend on your list
• Number 2The repeatively request. If i say no the first time, you are not likely to get a yes a day later buddy... I have had those so many in the past. Like i post on a thread a positive reaction to someone. For example the Hug/kiss/date thread. And i post let's say "date", they immediatly send you a friend request. To me, and to most people, those thread are fun and games, and are not to be taken seriously. But perhaps some do take it seriously...MFP is not a dating site, for that, please go use Tinder...
• Number 1The scammer request/bots. Lately there are a lot of requests again from people who seem to have had their profile hacked. I mean, pictures of woman, half naked, while in their profile it says male. My latest request of these was a woman with second picture giving a full view bl0wj0b...I find it strange these profiles do not get deleted, while people i know post a picture of them wearing a dress or something, showing maybe a little skin, and they get deleted instantly...Some MFP mods are real *kitten*, but that's what you get when MFP mods are volunteers, instead of hired staff.

Euhmm.. you do know that people can't see messages within fr requests these days right Gus.? 🤪

Seriously?... Lol i did not know that...but still my comment is valid for the time that was still a thing. Even back then you got requests without messages

slimgirljo15 wrote: »

Minion_training_program wrote: »

slimgirljo15 wrote: »

Minion_training_program wrote: »

@try_harderG

For some reason i missed your message yesterday, but here goes...

PS i think MFP is a community to support people into getting a healthy lifestyle, and have people around you who are already on the right path, so you can learn from them.

• Number 10: A friend request without any short message. In my experience, these people hardly talk to you once you accepted the request, and you end up deleting this person later anyway
• Number 9: When you get a request from someone who has over 200 friends on their friendslist. I call these people "collectors". They tend to invite everyone, but having so many on your list, i find it hard to believe you can interact and be supportive with all of them on a weekly, let alone, daily basis
• Number 8:People who only friend request of the opposite sex. Like a woman who only has male friends, or a male who has only female friends on their list
• Number 7:People who friend request only people who look like they come straight out of a fitness magazine and have sixpack abs. Not that these people would actually send me personally a request, because i do not fit their profile. But why would you support only people looking like that?
• Number 6:A friend request with a sexual approach is a no go. I am a married guy, and i am not here for sexual things
• Number 5:A friend request from someone you have not even interacted slightly with on the forums. Feels like a stalker alert to me. And most of the time without a message as well. I mean, if you want to be friends with me, fine, but at least make sure you interact somewhat on forums before you send a request. In the past you could send out a private message to anyone on MFP, so that way you could interact before you would friend someone. But since a few years, that is not possible anymore. The so-called MFP glitch. Now you would need to let someone of forum know that you have send him/her a message, this person doesn't see it in his/her inbox, but when he/she would send a message to you, then you can interact with eachother. It's too much work now really, and maybe that's why some people just send a friend request instead, but unless i have interacted with you, it's a 100% no
• Number 4A friend request with a profile that has nothing filled in, as to why someone is here. If you send a request without a message, i would still like to know a little about you, that's what your profile is there for. But a empty profile...Nope, sorry
• Number 3A request from someone you got a warning from, from one of your friends already. There are some creepy people on MFP, who would request you, just to stalk a friend on your list
• Number 2The repeatively request. If i say no the first time, you are not likely to get a yes a day later buddy... I have had those so many in the past. Like i post on a thread a positive reaction to someone. For example the Hug/kiss/date thread. And i post let's say "date", they immediatly send you a friend request. To me, and to most people, those thread are fun and games, and are not to be taken seriously. But perhaps some do take it seriously...MFP is not a dating site, for that, please go use Tinder...
• Number 1The scammer request/bots. Lately there are a lot of requests again from people who seem to have had their profile hacked. I mean, pictures of woman, half naked, while in their profile it says male. My latest request of these was a woman with second picture giving a full view bl0wj0b...I find it strange these profiles do not get deleted, while people i know post a picture of them wearing a dress or something, showing maybe a little skin, and they get deleted instantly...Some MFP mods are real *kitten*, but that's what you get when MFP mods are volunteers, instead of hired staff.

Euhmm.. you do know that people can't see messages within fr requests these days right Gus.? 🤪

Seriously?... Lol i did not know that...but still my comment is valid for the time that was still a thing. Even back then you got requests without messages

Also you are the exception to the collector rule, since i know you for so long already

Yep, its a shame because people will be writing heart felt please accept messages or funny notes and the recipient won't see it.

You're never getting rid of me.. just saying 😁

Yeah...it's a missed oppertunity. Why has MFP not fixed it yet? I mean it worked in the past, and it still pops up when you send a request...
MFP is not what it used to be

Oh and i would never want to get rid of you Jo 😍🥰😍🥰😍🥰😘😘😘😘

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