How do you spice up your marriage?

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Awesome!

I'm not married but see lots of good ideas here. Such as: a movie you would necessarily like but he does, flirting, picture messages, going on dates as often as you can...

Outside of the bedroom, we accomadate each other's wants. Some nights he wants to just play Fallout, so I curl up with a book for a bit. Other nights, we play mario party together, or snuggle up for a movie.
I think the most important thing is to realize that just because you have been married for however many years doesn't mean you don't get to act like newlyweds. Be silly, have fun. Currently, we have a stuff animal horse that we hide from each other all over the house. Silly, but fun.

On a more "inside the bedroom" note, again, have fun! We have sex between 4 to 8 times a week, and that's with him working and going to school full time, two kids, and 6 years of marriage. I don't view sex as an obligation, although I'll admit that about half of the time, it's just for him. I love him enough that I'm going to have fun with it, regardless of whether or not I get mine in the end. Communicate your needs and your wants, and be willing to try new things.
One of my favorite things is actually going out to bars with him every now and then, but splitting up when we get there. Somehow flirting with other people makes us both better appreciate each other. It never goes further then a conversation with a stranger, but it feels so risque lols.
Try to remember why you choose this person to spend your life with, and find those qualities within each other again.

Sometimes she's the Principal and I'm the naughty schoolgirl.

strange!

My husband and I are butchering a moose together this week - haha.

Let's see, in the past we have:

Designed our dream home - we still have it in a file along with photos of a lot of dream furnishings.
Coached Boys and Girls Club basketball together.
Hiked seriously challenging mountains.
Gone on mini-vacations, just a weekend is enough sometimes.
Gone on dates - movies, bowling, driving, ice skating, sometimes just for ice cream or a doughnut.
Definitely flirt.
Leave random notes in unexpected places - shower, lunch box, inside a shirt, on a pillow. And they don't have to be sexy notes, just an I love you or Thank you for your hard work, whatever.

Writing I LOVE YOU on the mirror so she can see it when the steam from the shower is going. Don't think is ever freakin works but I still do it just in case.

I still have a red loveheart notepad I bought for our 10 year anniversary when I was making things for that so I will just randomly write a note and leave it somewhere for her to stumble on.

Spontaneous back rubs.

And I think I might go buy her something online so it gets delivered to her on Friday... bye!

Sometimes she's the Principal and I'm the naughty schoolgirl.

Quite possibly post of the year.

Definately .. a common interest. Something recreational that you can do as a couple. This opens up opportunites for conversation and sharing on a whole different level. Friends do it .. to bond .. so should couples. Remember, your partner IS your friend .. It's good to do 'friend' stuff too.

My husband bought a cruiser motorcycle last summer. We take scenic rides to rustic towns with fancy little restaurants for dinner. When we do this, I like to pretend he is a leather clad man come to whisk me away from my domesticated life. That has spiced things up..especially when we took a long overnight bike trip.