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TwitchyMagee wrote: »
AgreeCoffeeNstilettos wrote: »TwitchyMagee wrote: »
Ok, But I’m going to need to meet herCoffeeNstilettos wrote: »" We are not together anymore but my baby mama still lives here until she finds a place"
The only way this would be acceptable for me is if he let's me meet her.
You guys are very understanding- cuz from the opposite side - chick living with baby daddy would be a hard pass - unless I was drunk but sober hard pass1 -
*kitten*’s expensive & coparenting is a thing. I don’t know that it would be an ideal situation but as long as nobody’s lyingTwitchyMagee wrote: »
AgreeCoffeeNstilettos wrote: »TwitchyMagee wrote: »
Ok, But I’m going to need to meet herCoffeeNstilettos wrote: »" We are not together anymore but my baby mama still lives here until she finds a place"
The only way this would be acceptable for me is if he let's me meet her.
You guys are very understanding- cuz from the opposite side - chick living with baby daddy would be a hard pass - unless I was drunk but sober hard pass
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And also does she cook and clean cuz…..👸🏻 It could work out well.TwitchyMagee wrote: »
*kitten*’s expensive & coparenting is a thing. I don’t know that it would be an ideal situation but as long as nobody’s lyingTwitchyMagee wrote: »
AgreeCoffeeNstilettos wrote: »TwitchyMagee wrote: »
Ok, But I’m going to need to meet herCoffeeNstilettos wrote: »" We are not together anymore but my baby mama still lives here until she finds a place"
The only way this would be acceptable for me is if he let's me meet her.
You guys are very understanding- cuz from the opposite side - chick living with baby daddy would be a hard pass - unless I was drunk but sober hard pass
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TwitchyMagee wrote: »
*kitten*’s expensive & coparenting is a thing. I don’t know that it would be an ideal situation but as long as nobody’s lyingTwitchyMagee wrote: »
AgreeCoffeeNstilettos wrote: »TwitchyMagee wrote: »
Ok, But I’m going to need to meet herCoffeeNstilettos wrote: »" We are not together anymore but my baby mama still lives here until she finds a place"
The only way this would be acceptable for me is if he let's me meet her.
You guys are very understanding- cuz from the opposite side - chick living with baby daddy would be a hard pass - unless I was drunk but sober hard pass
I get it. I have to Co parent - I just couldn’t do it - maybe an insecurity thing 🤷♂️1 -
I can understand that. Everyone’s entitled to their boundaries. I think for me it would be a red flag but not a dealbreaker.TwitchyMagee wrote: »
*kitten*’s expensive & coparenting is a thing. I don’t know that it would be an ideal situation but as long as nobody’s lyingTwitchyMagee wrote: »
AgreeCoffeeNstilettos wrote: »TwitchyMagee wrote: »
Ok, But I’m going to need to meet herCoffeeNstilettos wrote: »" We are not together anymore but my baby mama still lives here until she finds a place"
The only way this would be acceptable for me is if he let's me meet her.
You guys are very understanding- cuz from the opposite side - chick living with baby daddy would be a hard pass - unless I was drunk but sober hard pass
I get it. I have to Co parent - I just couldn’t do it - maybe an insecurity thing 🤷♂️
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TwitchyMagee wrote: »
Oh no! *kitten*OpheliaCooter wrote: »Canceling datesOpheliaCooter wrote: »Canceling dates
Yeah that sucksReckoner67_again wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »Canceling dates
Yeah that sucks
I got a bat with his name on it*
*it just says “chad” but I wrote lightly cause I didn’t actually know his name.ermengarde22 wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »Canceling dates
okay we all hate him now
🤣😂🤣😂 I didn’t know yall got my back like that. Dude I think this is the third time he’s canceled. He seems remorseful??? Didn’t give me a good reason just that after I told him today that I was annoyed by him that he told me that he felt like *kitten* last night and now he feels more like *kitten*. Idk man like….. I feel like maybe he only likes me at work. Maybe this is what love bombing is… like I’ve made myself available, I’ve communicated, I’m the one having to ask if we’re still doing something bc idk if he'd ever bring it up….
I’m not putting any more effort into it. Especially when we both had Wednesday off and he didn’t feel like meeting up then either. What I liked about him is that he was so direct and upfront. Now it’s him not communicating and being whiny. Idk about this one. Plus he’s like 19 years older than me nbd and I could be besties with his kids bc were the same age. 🥴
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OpheliaCooter wrote: »TwitchyMagee wrote: »
Oh no! *kitten*OpheliaCooter wrote: »Canceling datesOpheliaCooter wrote: »Canceling dates
Yeah that sucksReckoner67_again wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »Canceling dates
Yeah that sucks
I got a bat with his name on it*
*it just says “chad” but I wrote lightly cause I didn’t actually know his name.ermengarde22 wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »Canceling dates
okay we all hate him now
🤣😂🤣😂 I didn’t know yall got my back like that. Dude I think this is the third time he’s canceled. He seems remorseful??? Didn’t give me a good reason just that after I told him today that I was annoyed by him that he told me that he felt like *kitten* last night and now he feels more like *kitten*. Idk man like….. I feel like maybe he only likes me at work. Maybe this is what love bombing is… like I’ve made myself available, I’ve communicated, I’m the one having to ask if we’re still doing something bc idk if he'd ever bring it up….
I’m not putting any more effort into it. Especially when we both had Wednesday off and he didn’t feel like meeting up then either. What I liked about him is that he was so direct and upfront. Now it’s him not communicating and being whiny. Idk about this one. Plus he’s like 19 years older than me nbd and I could be besties with his kids bc were the same age. 🥴And more importantly I’m pretty sure I’m engaged to @melg7777.
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When I tell her it’ll kill me but she puts cyanide into her pisrs snyeats2
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Reckoner67_again wrote: »When I tell her it’ll kill me but she puts cyanide into her pisrs snyeats
i said what i said2 -
@MelG7777 oh yeah, I’m engaged 😬
What an intricate web we weave2 -
OpheliaCooter wrote: »@MelG7777 oh yeah, I’m engaged 😬
What an intricate web we weave
Yeah, I thought about it after. We WERE engaged on Insta so now I don’t even know if Insta-Engaged crosses over into MFP Land or not.🥺Someone needs to set some guidelines up here. This is getting crazy.0 -
OpheliaCooter wrote: »@MelG7777 oh yeah, I’m engaged 😬
What an intricate web we weave
Yeah, I thought about it after. We WERE engaged on Insta so now I don’t even know if Insta-Engaged crosses over into MFP Land or not.🥺Someone needs to set some guidelines up here. This is getting crazy.
Well it states in the chitchat rulebook that everyone here is single. Definitely not married. But we’re just engaged so not exclusive. 💍
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OpheliaCooter wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »@MelG7777 oh yeah, I’m engaged 😬
What an intricate web we weave
Yeah, I thought about it after. We WERE engaged on Insta so now I don’t even know if Insta-Engaged crosses over into MFP Land or not.🥺Someone needs to set some guidelines up here. This is getting crazy.
Well it states in the chitchat rulebook that everyone here is single. Definitely not married. But we’re just engaged so not exclusive. 💍
This can’t be right.
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Reckoner67_again wrote: »OpheliaCooter wrote: »Canceling dates
…he didn’t!?!
Agreed. Oh hell, no!
(I should have kept reading but still!)0 -
If she eats her steak well done2
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ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
Well... done with that relationship.4 -
ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »piggy_smalls wrote: »ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
Well... done with that relationship.
No don't say that! We don't do burgers here like you Americans do - they're always well done
I eat my burgers well most of the time - you’re all good 👍
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ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »piggy_smalls wrote: »ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
Well... done with that relationship.
No don't say that! We don't do burgers here like you Americans do - they're always well done
I like all my meat pink and juicy. 😁3 -
piggy_smalls wrote: »ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »piggy_smalls wrote: »ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
Well... done with that relationship.
No don't say that! We don't do burgers here like you Americans do - they're always well done
I like all my meat pink and juicy. 😁
I have a feeling you're not talking about burgers anymore 😆2 -
ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »piggy_smalls wrote: »ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »piggy_smalls wrote: »ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
Well... done with that relationship.
No don't say that! We don't do burgers here like you Americans do - they're always well done
I like all my meat pink and juicy. 😁
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