What’s a red flag for you?

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  • iggy93
    iggy93 Posts: 90 Member
    -Secretive with phone
    -High body count
    -Bad relationship with parents
    -Gossips about other people behind their back
    -History of short relationships
    -Treats waiter/waitress like crap
    -Is unable to be alone and has to be jumping from relationship to relationship
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    Suspicious & accusatory
    Inexperienced
    Poor boundaries with family
    Never speaks ill of anyone
    Never dated but only has deep relationships
    Has never worked a service job
    Dislikes cats
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    Car boys
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,135 Member
    Sorry - I like mustard 🤷‍♂️
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    Puts ketchup on their corn dog.
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,760 Member
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    Puts ketchup on their corn dog.

    I agree 💯
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    Puts ketchup on their corn dog.
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    Puts ketchup on their corn dog.

    I agree 💯

    But tomato sauce on a pluto pup is ok right? Asking for a friend 😂
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    Puts ketchup on their corn dog.

    My God.... what kind of monsters do you associate with ?
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,760 Member
    I can’t take man drama.
    They are soooo not good at it. 😂
  • keskan
    keskan Posts: 3 Member
    Lack of ability for intrinsic happiness.
  • Reckoner67_again
    Reckoner67_again Posts: 184 Member
    When I remind her that I’m hilarious and she assures me that I’m not
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    when he is too sleepy deprived to read
  • tigrig
    tigrig Posts: 663 Member
    Being love bombed 💣
  • Reckoner67_again
    Reckoner67_again Posts: 184 Member
    when he is too sleepy deprived to read

    Zzzzzzzzz
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    keskan wrote: »
    Lack of ability for intrinsic happiness.

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  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,760 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    keskan wrote: »
    Lack of ability for intrinsic happiness.

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  • R3d_butt3rfly_
    R3d_butt3rfly_ Posts: 1,587 Member
    When they start to change their toxic ways overnight.

    When they see the value of something when its gone, not when they have it.

    When they tell you deep down they are caring and gentle but they get triggered easily by the most trivial things.
  • ExpressoLove11
    ExpressoLove11 Posts: 337 Member
    Not respecting my time, eg being continuously late, changing plans at the last second, not making plans til the last minute, not showing up, broken promises etc... obviously there is some degree for flexibility, things happen and life throws curveballs but overall there should be a degree of prioritisation and an understanding that time is our most precious commodity
  • tigrig
    tigrig Posts: 663 Member
    I may be a walking red flag, but you must admit the material is exquisite
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    Steak well done
  • tigrig
    tigrig Posts: 663 Member
    Steak well done

    I second this, may as well be eating beef jerky at that point
  • glassyo
    glassyo Posts: 7,740 Member
    I don't eat meat all that often but I need to make sure it's dead.
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    glassyo wrote: »
    I don't eat meat all that often but I need to make sure it's dead.

    😂 I was just thinking about some delicious Argentinian beef that I had. I don’t know if it had a name and I don’t know how it was prepared but it was definitely well done and frikken delicious.

    I do like a medium rare steak though
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    If his name starts with a 'J'
    Double red flag if it's 'Jake'
    Triple red flag if he's wearing khakis
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    glassyo wrote: »
    I don't eat meat all that often but I need to make sure it's dead.

    😂 I was just thinking about some delicious Argentinian beef that I had. I don’t know if it had a name and I don’t know how it was prepared but it was definitely well done and frikken delicious.

    I do like a medium rare steak though

    Now I want steak
  • tigrig
    tigrig Posts: 663 Member
    I'm a savage and take mine rare, blue if it's a high grade of beef

    Also what if this Jake works at state farm
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    tigrig wrote: »
    I'm a savage and take mine rare, blue if it's a high grade of beef

    Also what if this Jake works at state farm

    Then we'll move this to the deal breaker thread.

    That steak better be hot tho
  • glassyo
    glassyo Posts: 7,740 Member
    Great. Now I'm having Jake from State Farm cooking me a steak fantasies. :)
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
    glassyo wrote: »
    Great. Now I'm having Jake from State Farm cooking me a steak fantasies. :)

    You're welcome 🤗