What’s a red flag for you?

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  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    honey_honey_12 wrote: »
    If I know how to do more “man stuff”
    than he does.

    “Man stuff” = change car tires, fix fences, fix things around the house,
    lift heavy stuff, start the hot water heater, etc.

    ngl it is very attractive when a guy can fix a garbage disposal 😍
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,074 Member
    If she responds to my opener with "Dude, have you ever spoken to a woman before?"
  • OpheliaCooter
    OpheliaCooter Posts: 1,635 Member
    happimess01 wrote: »
    If she responds to my opener with "Dude, have you ever spoken to a woman before?"

    This one could be me. I’m sure I’ve said this exact sentence a time or two.
  • Butt_Snorkeler
    Butt_Snorkeler Posts: 167 Member
    My username is a red flag to most.
  • OpheliaCooter
    OpheliaCooter Posts: 1,635 Member
    Butt_Snorkeler wrote: »
    My username is a red flag to most.

    Obvious green flag
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    tigrig wrote: »
    If every time I try to open up about something I'm going through, they come back with why they're going through something worse. And then complain cause I don't open up to them anymore

    Yes, this. 😔
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Hasn't worked in a while.
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,170 Member
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    Hasn't worked in a while.

    It’s a tough job market out there sheesh
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    edited October 2022
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    Hasn't worked in a while.

    It’s a tough job market out there sheesh

    I should have said loooong while. I actually had in mind a guy (43) I know who hasn't worked in over 10 years for no reason other than he said he lives pretty good on government payments 😐
    Someone who wants to work but hasn't found one yet is a different kettle of fish..

    I got a job for you 😏😈😂 the pay isn't great but the benefits aren't bad 🤣😂
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,170 Member
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    Hasn't worked in a while.

    It’s a tough job market out there sheesh

    I should have said loooong while. I actually had in mind a guy (43) I know who hasn't worked in over 10 years for no reason other than he said he lives pretty good on government payments 😐
    Someone who wants to work but hasn't found one yet is a different kettle of fish..

    I got a job for you 😏😈😂 the pay isn't great but the benefits aren't bad 🤣😂

    🤔…. I’ll take it!!
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,859 Member
    lots of jewelry,
    drives a convertible,
    3-4 buttons open,
    😬
  • Butt_Snorkeler
    Butt_Snorkeler Posts: 167 Member
    honey_honey_12 wrote: »
    drives a convertible,
    😬

    Mmmm, I do enjoy a nice roadster. The sound of the crisp exhaust in the open air right behind me, the sound of my surrounding environment, being able to look up in the city at night.
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,669 Member
    ermengarde22 wrote: »
    honey_honey_12 wrote: »
    If I know how to do more “man stuff”
    than he does.

    “Man stuff” = change car tires, fix fences, fix things around the house,
    lift heavy stuff, start the hot water heater, etc.

    ngl it is very attractive when a guy can fix a garbage disposal 😍

    How about a lady who can fix garbage disposal and replace piping in the sink🙋‍♀️
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,074 Member
    OpheliaCooter wrote: »
    happimess01 wrote: »
    If she responds to my opener with "Dude, have you ever spoken to a woman before?"

    This one could be me. I’m sure I’ve said this exact sentence a time or two.

    but not on mfp I hope lol
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,859 Member
    Butt_Snorkeler wrote: »
    honey_honey_12 wrote: »
    drives a convertible,
    😬

    Mmmm, I do enjoy a nice roadster. The sound of the crisp exhaust in the open air right behind me, the sound of my surrounding environment, being able to look up in the city at night.

    And I bet you look good doin’ it 😉
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,859 Member
    Predictable 🙄
  • itsjustme1984
    itsjustme1984 Posts: 413 Member
    When she’s rude to servers for the food not being just perfect
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,859 Member
    itsjustme1984 wrote: »
    When she’s rude to servers for the food not being just perfect

    I hate that! 🤨
  • itsjustme1984
    itsjustme1984 Posts: 413 Member
    honey_honey_12 wrote: »
    itsjustme1984 wrote: »
    When she’s rude to servers for the food not being just perfect

    I hate that! 🤨

    It drives me insane, and says all I need to know about a person
  • tigrig
    tigrig Posts: 663 Member
    When she doesn't want me, but doesn't want anyone else to have me either. Like when I'm dating someone she constantly tells me how much she needs me and wishes we were together but when we do date, pushes me away and says we're not right for each other. Repeat cylcle
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    tigrig wrote: »
    When she doesn't want me, but doesn't want anyone else to have me either. Like when I'm dating someone she constantly tells me how much she needs me and wishes we were together but when we do date, pushes me away and says we're not right for each other. Repeat cylcle

    that is toxic af
  • tigrig
    tigrig Posts: 663 Member
    edited October 2022
    ermengarde22 wrote: »
    tigrig wrote: »
    When she doesn't want me, but doesn't want anyone else to have me either. Like when I'm dating someone she constantly tells me how much she needs me and wishes we were together but when we do date, pushes me away and says we're not right for each other. Repeat cylcle

    that is toxic af

    Yeah, I shouldn't have let it happened as much as it did. Young and dumb is all I can say
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    someone who cant go as heavy as me
  • Butt_Snorkeler
    Butt_Snorkeler Posts: 167 Member
    Usually red flags just turn me on. I like crazy and spicy. Keeps life more entertaining
  • tigrig
    tigrig Posts: 663 Member
    ermengarde22 wrote: »
    someone who cant go as heavy as me

    I'm really trying my best to get stronger
  • CoffeeNstilettos
    CoffeeNstilettos Posts: 2,593 Member
    If the interior of their vehicle is dirty with garbage everywhere. It's Nasty

  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    someone who cant go as heavy as me
    tigrig wrote: »
    ermengarde22 wrote: »
    someone who cant go as heavy as me

    I'm really trying my best to get stronger

    thats what they all say
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,074 Member
    if she refers to me as "my elderly boyfriend" in social situations
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,859 Member
    When they are scared of me,
    which apparently happens more than I realized.
    wtf

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