How rude...
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Your loss causes others to need to self-evaluate and that can be uncomfortable.0
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So a friend of mine who never really has been supportive of my weight loss (I have lost 35lbs before jong here and I have gone from being the fat one too the thinner one - I am thinner than her) said to me I need to stop exercising so hard because I will never lose my belly!
Now how unssupportive is that! I mean of course I can lose my belly its just fat its not like I want to change my bone shape.
Why would someone say that
When people are visually jealous of you that means its time to GO HARDER!! Keep doing what your doing.0 -
You should have said to her DONT HATE ME CUZ YOU AINT ME! LOL......JEALOUS! ABSOLUTELY! We cant fix stupid! Move up and onwards!0
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That is not a real friend. Real friends don't say things out of jealousy to hurt you.0
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I think it is because of jealousy. Some people can be like that - they don't want to see others succeed at something. It's sad but true0
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Need a new friend and definitely JEALOUS!0
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Because she's a heinous cow?0
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a few years ago when i first reached my goal weight i was amazed at how many people said negative things to me. i realize now that it was just jealousy! turn it into positive energy and use it as motivation!0
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that is horrible, this person sounds like they may have been use to being the thinner one and let the green monster out. Not nice at all0
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everyone on here is on point0
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She is a hater cause you are doing "big thangs" by losing weight and living a healthier lifestyle. Don't worry about her cause the better you look & feel, the more she will hate. Do you and continue to do it well:)0
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shes just jealous cuz you look better and probably turn more heads and she is wrong with certain core and ab exercises you can lose the belly and turn i into a pac. just don't liisten to people trying to get you down. some people enjoy others being down for them to feel good.0
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I have been lucky enough to have tons of supporters, but my sister has been blowing me off when I mention exercise or anything health wise. She has never came right out and said anything rude to me, but she hasn't yet said one motivational or supportive word to me so it still bothers me. I think its just jealousy that you are getting off your *kitten* and getting it done. They know you look or will look better than them and you are getting attention by people telling you how great you look and are doing. If they say mean things like that just turn the other cheek You are doing it for yourself!0
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Maybe she can see just how good you look.. Keep it up!! You will and can do it..
I think you need some different friends xx0
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