LESS Alcohol ~ AUGUST 2023 ~ One Day at A Time
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12 - AF
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16- AF
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14 - AF
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Heading back to work tomorrow so I hope the stress of it all doesn't derail me.1 -
AF - 17
A - 2
Visited some nice local wineries yesterday with my wife and our 2 friends. This was the ultimate test and I didn't have a drop! I got this!!!!!!!!!9 -
Freaking weekends...still hitting my goal by day but the # on the weekends needs to go down.
13 A/7 NA so far.5 -
Sun 8/20: Drinks (2) - We had a great time with our friends who were visiting over the weekend. I had more discipline with food and drink than I usually do when we're all together. The weather was great so we hung out on the beach both Friday and Saturday. On Sunday, DH and I spent all day driving (over 14 hours) from VA to FL. Other than the Whopper Jr. and fries, we mostly ate healthy food that I had packed (boiled eggs, leftover meatloaf, Hippeas, popcorn, bananas, berries, chips and hummus). I had a couple glasses of wine at 1 a.m. Monday morning.
Mon 8/21: Home again, home again, jiggity-jig! We're in Florida! Roof work has begun (BANG, BANG, BANG! … all day). Poor Sport, the kitty, has been hiding all day. We will be taking her to kitty day care the rest of this week. Drinks planned Thursday and Saturday this week.
Rolling Total: 5 AF Days out of 21
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@2timesacharmmfp Ha! I agree with you about ... "freaking weekends!"5
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@ahoy_m8 Thinking of you missing your mom. I'm so sorry and can empathize with your pain. I lost my mom in October 2020 but it still feels more recent. And today would have been my MIL's 94th birthday. She died mid-June. She had four boys and considered me a daughter. I've known her since I was 17. She absolutely was my other mother.6
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3 AF, 3 LA, the rest A. I'm feeling better even if my head still isn't in the best place. I'll get there.
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AF - 19
A - 2
I have a family wedding this Saturday. I plan to not drink at this event because I don't want to poison my body...
The pressure will be applied to conform to the drinking community alcohol addiction but what they don't know is I'm strong willed and don't give a rat's *kitten* what other people think of me not drinking...
I will drink when I want not when others want me to.
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Mon 8/21: Drinks (2)
Tue 8/22: Yesterday was nerve-racking with all the loud banging on the roof. We took our fur baby to kitty day care this morning and will for the rest of the week (we need it too, ha!). Last night I had a beer before dinner and a glass of wine with dinner. The plan was zero. Why am I not sticking to plan (UGH!)?!? I need to regroup.
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xbowhunter wrote: »AF - 19
A - 2
I have a family wedding this Saturday. I plan to not drink at this event because I don't want to poison my body...
The pressure will be applied to conform to the drinking community alcohol addiction but what they don't know is I'm strong willed and don't give a rat's *kitten* what other people think of me not drinking...
I will drink when I want not when others want me to.
Cheers
@xbowhunter - Great post!3 -
RockinRobyn672 wrote: »@ahoy_m8 Thinking of you missing your mom. I'm so sorry and can empathize with your pain. I lost my mom in October 2020 but it still feels more recent. And today would have been my MIL's 94th birthday. She died mid-June. She had four boys and considered me a daughter. I've known her since I was 17. She absolutely was my other mother.
Aww. Very sweet reflections on your MIL and many thanks for the kind thoughts. We honored her in several ways I think she would have liked, so that is a comfort. Honestly, the heat (over 105F day after day after day) is a beat down. I think it's a version of SAD people in northern latitudes can get. August has always been kind of tough, long before mom died. I have several home repair projects going badly, and that is also a beat down. Grateful to have a partner in crime. Sometimes we just look at each other and laugh at it all. It's good to have a laugh.
I'm not doing great with any of my goals in any category, including food & bev. I'm eating at maintenance calories, my weight has crept up toward the higher end of maintenance range, and I'm ok with that. Don't have the energy to course correct. As usual, I've been doing ok with Su/M-Th AF but veer towards IDGAF on weekends. Also as usual I'm doing ok with cardio but blow off strength training. Trying to take it one day at a time.5 -
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Yesterday, I put away a ridiculous amount of mezcal. Today was AF. I think that makes it 4 AF, 3 LA, 15 A. I'm managing to keep my weight under 180, which is nice. I have a freezer full of healthy dishes ready to go into the sous vide, and a couple more in the works. Today, I started some tandoori chicken marinating, I'll pack them up so I can start them in the sous vide and finish them in the air fryer or on the grill. Tomorrow or so, I'm going to try to throw together a batch of saag aloo.
I still haven't gotten around to the things I had planned to do last week, which is slightly annoying. I need to try and get on top of that so I can get to it on a day off and see how it goes. I've done more reading on the subject, and I'm curious to see if it's as helpful for me as it has been for others.
Chilling out alone in the dark now with a hop water and some shoegaze before I wrap up for the night.
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AF - 20
A - 2
Stay strong! Live long!4 -
Quick check in.
I am having a busy couple of months and haven't been taking the time to log on to the thread and read posts.
I hope that everyone is doing well.
As for me, 12AF, 10A for the month so far. Confident that I will hit my 16-20AF9 -
17 AF
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Had a beer tonight, call it less alcohol. 4 AF, 4 LA, 15 A. I finally got around to a microdose; I didn't process the whole batch, but chopped up a little stem, about .08g or so. ChatGPT says compounds are more or less evenly distributed so it should give me a bit of a baseline to gauge future doses by. I was a little hesitant to do something like that late in the evening, but my understanding is it doesn't keep you wide awake like a full portion. I usually take a gummy and some herbal supplements before bed anyway. Worst case scenario, I'm tired tomorrow.
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AF - 21
A - 2
So my spouse doesn't think I can sustain my AF lifestyle. What she doesn't know is those words have now motivated me to prove her wrong... lol10 -
Mon 8/21: Drinks (2)
Tue 8/22: AF
Wed 8/23: AF
Thu 8/24: We got in a 30-mile bike ride yesterday at a favorite wildlife preserve. With dinner I had a Becks NA and thought that it wasn't bad at all. August has been a bust with my goals, but I've made it AF two days in a row now and my weight Is down. It inspires me to keep it up. I have a small stash of non-alcoholic Becks and Guinness. There are less craft breweries close-by in Florida than there are in Virginia, so that's helpful. Interior repairs on our house (from hurricane Ian damage) are starting next week. I'll be glad when it's all over.
Rolling Total: 7 AF Days out of 24
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OK so I'm tired today, I don't think I slept well, but that doesn't necessarily have anything to do with anything. I sleep poorly often, and always have, hence the gummies and supplements. That said, I don't think I'll do that in the evening again, I mainly wanted to keep that first sample a somewhat private experience. I know there are a few established protocols, every three days, two days on, one day off, and Fadiman being the most documented. I'm thinking between the limited portion that I have on hand and the fact that this is new to me, I'll start with every three days and see how it goes. Today, although I'm tired, my mindset seems better than it has been in recent weeks, like I'm not just dwelling on everything that's been piling up on me for years. It isn't that it's all gone away, and it isn't that it doesn't bother me, it just isn't....dominating my every thought and feeling, maybe. This aligns with the research, so that's good.
My weight is down this morning, even with the extra calories from a bottle of quadrupel and a late snack. The tandoori chicken and saag aloo were awesome, I tossed a piece of naan on the grill and we split that, and it made for a satisfying dinner. The potatoes were slightly undercooked, but that's because I intentionally left them that way so they'll hold up and not cook to mush in the sous vide.
The bike ride at a nature preserve sounds like a great time. I miss having a bike to ride, I had a Haro BMX for a few years until it was stolen. I bought another inexpensive bike at Academy, stripped all the unnecessary bits off of it and rode it back & forth to work for a while...(brakes? meh...) I eventually gave it to a neighbor kid who had no bike. He was most confused by the lack of brakes. Anyway, I dunno if I want to ride around here. Between the weather and the number of bicyclists killed in traffic, it just doesn't really seem like a great idea, and I have nowhere to secure a bike right now anyway.
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@mfowler883 Brakes would be a good thing to have on a bike! It's too bad you don't feel comfortable riding there. Most bike shops have organized rides including those where they leave no one behind. It's a good way to learn new routes. Once you know a route, you can decide whether you like and want to continue riding with the group and/or on your own. We do that when we're traveling. It goes without saying that it's great for mental health. The ride in the wildlife preserve was so beautiful and peaceful. We started late, around 5:30, and were there until dusk. We watched a cute little armadillo as it traipsed along the road and under the roots of a tree, spotted a couple alligators in the water, and then a watch a white heron searching for fish among the lily pads.5
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LOL yeah I've been riding brakeless since I was in my teens. There are tricks, and once you get used to it it's awkward going back. It sounds like the wildlife preserve was a wonderful outing. I really enjoy walking in places like that.
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@mfowler83...okay, grudgingly agree with the " too much effort" on the paneer experiment. The best part was watching Catpuccino standing [ without any hooman permission ] on the edge of the sink, twirling the cheesecloth bag of curds , wondering what fresh Hell he could get into before retreating under "Mo's Mom's recliner" as an escape. His hooman decided that Trader Joe's or Tasty Bite was a better option. And, yes, many online recipies are easy and I'm using them.2
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Hello my LA friends! I just returned from 10 days in Germany. It was the trip of a lifetime. We saw a lot of sights off the beaten path, but most importantly to connect with my great uncle’s side of the family. My mom became estranged from her mother and this side of the family. It was so meaningful to heal the wounds from 40 years ago. I now have a new family and all is right with the world. I am so full of love.
I was also full of more food and drinks than you could possibly imagine! I didn’t even bother counting. Liqueur before a meal, 1-2 wines or beers during the meal, and late nights sampling untold amounts of homemade schnapps. I will say that schnapps truly does help with digesting a big meal (hence why they drink it). However…..
… back to reality now. For some reason I had a lot of edema on this trip (never had it before). It’s nice to see my ankles again! Haha!
As for weight, surprisingly I’m where I was when I left as of this morning. So that’s good news. 6 pounds to my goal weight!
Last night I tried the KC Illuminate. It was a little sweeter than I normally like, but it was nice to drink an entire glass and not feel the alcohol. I was sorely tempted to have a second glass, (half alcohol means I can have two, right??) but went to bed instead.
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Hello, no I did not fall off the side of the earth
Lol
Once our trip to Maui got canceled because of the wildfires, my work place gave me extra hours to "keep my mind off losing my vacation". So I have been super freaking outstraight. I was able to change our vaca plans to another destination in October. We will get to the Hawaiian islands maybe next year or the year after. Right now they need to desperately regroup, recover and heal from the crisis.
Welcome if I had not mentioned it before to our new participants. And great to see you again @mfowler883. I like you have another bud that has joined our group.
Will be off the airwaves until Tuesday Aug 29.
Accountability;
Hahaha lost count, but it is all good and the worst I had was two 2.5% watermelon mint canned drinks back to back. And one giant frozen margarita at a new place that I pushed over to my husband to finish because I was getting a brain freeze.
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