WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR DECEMBER 2024

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  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,143 Member
    Morning all
    Rained all night last night ,but sunny and in the 50s today.
    Im not feeling so hot today..tired and a bit achy..have to take Sean to Dr tomorrow morning,then take Doris grocery shopping.
    Have to stop at the garage and have them figure out the tire pressure on my car.
  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,885 Member
    Morning my chicks,

    The afghans I made have been received, and many heart emojis from all directions, so that's one project finished. I'm on hold on Corey's workshop apron, as the hardware I was using was insufficient, as I found out last night when I tried it on him. More coming in later in the week, but I can put that to the side for the moment.

    Doodling with yarn in the evenings, crocheting squares out of the remains left over from the afghans. I'll put those together for another afghan, possibly one for Egg. She gets Egg all over every one that I make anyway. 😹

    I've got another bag in mind, practically got it built in my mind, just need to get it going, but I'm backing and filling for some reason that is not yet clear. My only deadlines are self-imposed. I will grok in the fullness of time, I'm sure. :smiley:

    But at the moment, it's time for breakfast!
    Later y'all,
    Love,
    Lisa in AR

    Ok you you lost me and fascinated me with the sentence, "I doodle with yarn". You are such a creative soul! Hugs!
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa
  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,655 Member
    Michele ~ How tall are your ceramic figurines? Miss Piggy is cute! I would think it takes steady hands and a lot of patience to paint them.

    Margaret ~ Hope you can find a smaller painting group that allows you more time.

    Barbie ~ Thanks for letting me know about Bessie!

    Kylia ~ Hope your SnL's stepfather doesn't start a brawl.

    Carol in GA
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,249 Member
    :)Allie you said that at your 55+ condo only one person has to be over 55. Does that mean that Miles and Delia and Carmine could come live with you?
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,143 Member
    Barbie ,no they could come visit not live.. but older people can have one person move in with them.. Im still putting lines out in the water to see if I can get him to find a rent.
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,249 Member
    Barbie ,no they could come visit not live.. but older people can have one person move in with them.. Im still putting lines out in the water to see if I can get him to find a rent.

    :) I understand. In my 55+ community the rules are specific that the younger person be a spouse, domestic partner, or caregiver.
  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,553 Member
    Well, got just about everything wrapped.

    Carol – most of my ceramics are at least 9” tall, some larger. I think I do have a few that are only 7” and Eyore and Piglet (which I haven’t done yet) are probably smaller. Trust me, a steady hand I do not have. I go by the 5 foot rule...if it looks good from 5 feet away, it’s good enough

    Margaret I hear ya about groups getting bigger. When we joined Newcomers, there were less than 100 members. To me, it was so nice and intimate, we had activities in people’s homes. Then it grew to over 300 members. To me, it lost a lot of the closeness. That’s one of the reasons we quit. I’m so glad that the ceramics is on the smaller side. There are usually 12-15 people at ceramics, occasionally less and sometimes more. But I really like the closeness. You really get to know people well. Besides, it’s really not fun painting with a big crowd. So I hear ya

    Lisa – you are so talented!

    Michele NC
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,249 Member
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    :) I off to the dentist by myself
  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,885 Member
    Up to 20 Christmas cards back from friends and family! I send like 65 cards out, so hopefully receiving 50% back by the New Year is good enough for me! I only have 27 flowered clips anyways!😂💖🎄
    Hugs friends!
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa
  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,251 Member
    Debbie - Sorry your sales weren’t better. I found it hit and miss this year.


    Debbie - I agree about spending too much, it always makes me nervous.
    I was told yesterday to go to a 3 day one that is about 3 hours from here. She said it cost her $800 to participate including hotel, but the return was well worth it, that would be a lot of money for me and I have to be willing to lose when I pay for the tables. That’s how I figure out if I want to do a show or not.

    I went to the pharmacy today after work to see if the pharmacist had a suggestion on help with an issue I’m having. She was quite disappointed that my doctor didn’t listen closer to me, I asked her if it would be good to see another doctor at the walk in attached to the pharmacy, she agreed and even went and spoke to the physician assistant and got me an appointment for 11am tomorrow. I’ll use that as my lunch time.
    I was so impressed with her determination to help me.

    I figured out the rest of my Christmas presents to buy, I just need to go do it now. 😂. Well except Rodger. 😕

    I spent 2 hours in the craft room tonight and managed to get 3 more layouts done in Kaitlyn’s album. I have 8 more to go, but have some ideas so hopefully they’ll go fast.

    I’m so thankful she is coming to help me wrap on Saturday!

    Well it is past 10 and I try to be in bed by then, so good night all.

    Tracey in Edmonton

    $800 is a LOT of money when you don't know if you will even break even. I would never spend what the guys do to do the shows. I would rather not have as many sales but not the worry of just breaking even instead of the way they do. Plus, for us, the big shows, we have more competition for pretty much the same type of things- yes, his are different and he does seem to focus on them when I don't go and help.
    His items are higher priced for the one of a kind ones.

    I got the boxes of treats dropped off at the PO after going to MIL's and helping dh with her. He is still in a very angry, bitter mood. He is home now taking a shower then we will go shopping for her before he goes back. Got home and he started cleaning the catio litter box-the only one I don't clean- he came in all mad because I didn't put the cat food in the cannister- said we(son and I) lived here, the least we could do was do that- No acknowledgement of all the stuff I did do. I told him- I did everything else, that was the one thing I didn't do then I walked out.
    Hopefully he can get some sleep and not stay over there again tonight- he doesn't need to.
    She is better- taking her off the meds that caused her to hallucinate is wearing off.

    Need to hopefully do more decorating and then start on cards this evening.
    Hoping for a quiet, peaceful evening. Just lights on the tree, tv off and him back in his room and not ranting about his mother all the time.

    Debbie
    Napa Valley,CA

  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,785 Member
    edited December 17
    Lovely candle stands, Lisa.

    Carol - I looked at several recipes and picked the simplest, that reminded me of the previous one I couldn't find. I even simplified it some more. It still took me 45 minutes and lots of washing up. But I like things that can just be served up on the day with no hassle. The sea bass cooks in 2 minutes. I have bought mini naans that can heat up in the toaster. My brother may only have a spoonful, as he is bringing his own food. He has lost his sense of taste anyway. Can just about taste sweet or salt. :'(

    Tracey - they will stay at the school until they leave, probably to go to university. So it's 11-18. My husband and I don't believe in private education, so we have mixed feelings, but we are pleased for her, as she really wanted to go there. She is a little bit dyslexic in writing, and has been working really hard with a private tutor. This evening she gave us a recital of some Christmas music on her cello. She really isn't perfect at anything, but has an extraordinary ability to be humbly determined. I really admire her attitude. It's the same with her sports. Not being the best doesn't deter her, unlike her younger sister who is super competitive at everything and talented beyond her eight years.
    Max announced he would like to come over for a walk with John on Thursday. They will eat first at the café around the corner, then walk and talk along the seafront. The problem with private schools is that they have much longer holidays than state ones, so he has already stopped for Christmas. The girls are at school until Friday.

    I will have a quick hoover tomorrow and tidy, but my brother and his wife are good guests because they have such low standards in their own house. It is always a tip! Hair wash first thing for me. I have felt really tired today, which I assume is a combo of my cold, not sleeping last night, and the jab. I did have a nap, but was still dragging. Fell asleep watching TV this evening. I'm hoping tomorrow is a new day.

    Love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxxx
  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,251 Member
    Debbie - it could be the medication. That happened to my grandmother. She was seeing all kinds of weird things.
    But it could be a UTI. That's the most likely culprit. That happened to my mother. Hallucinating people indistinguishable from reality.
    A doctor or nurse would check that out from a urine test.



    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx

    Yes, we think it is the pain meds- she has been taking more often than before. Dh stopped that one and she isn't as bad today.
    Yes, she has had UTI's before and really messed her up. That is what started all this drama where dh says he has to be at her place twice a day every day. She got disoriented and hallucinating- fell on the stairs and broke bones in her hand and wrist. The next day fell again while dh was in the bathroom(he had told her to just stay in her chair while he went to the bathroom)that time broke 3 ribs. He stayed with her 24/7 for a month or more. Only taking breaks when I could be there. I stayed a few nights until I pretended to be asleep and I watched her get up, use her comode chair all by herself, no problem. She didn't need me there. Then she got mad telling dh to make sure I didnt come back because I didn't do anything anyways. I was too tired to get up one time- worked all day, up almost all night, got a total of 30 min of broken sleep and had to rush home to work again..
    This was 2 1/2 yrs ago.
    She no longer needs the help but thinks she deserves to be waited on

    She is better today so dh will come home at his usual time.

    We used to have cameras all over her house so he could keep an eye on her but she doesn't want to pay for internet service for it. Wants him to pay for it even though it is to help him make sure she is ok..
    Yesterday, she fell and laid on the floor for who knows how long because, she won't wear her LifeAlert which we are paying for every month- it sits inside a cabinet and she doesn't remember how to use her cell phone most of the time.
    With the cameras, he can look on his phone and see if she is sleeping, if she is ok, etc.
    He said he is going to put them back in and pay for the service then take the money for it out of her account without telling her. She has enough money to pay for it, not a problem but she doesn't want to.
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,354 Member
    Stats for the day-

    Walk W/kids
    Walk to gym
    Elliptical machine
    Walk gym to home

    Total cal 848c

    720720
  • dlfk202000
    dlfk202000 Posts: 3,251 Member
    Hello, my babies...



    Just about the minute he got off the phone, my gut started going sideways and hasn't really let up until just the last few minutes. Hate being nauseated - In my opinion, it's one of my top three least-favorite symptoms of this disease, coming in third only to diarrhea and vertigo. All that was said to note that I still haven't had breakfast, dang it! And here it is nearly noon...


    Love y'all,
    Lisa in AR

    have you tried ginger tea for the nausea?
    I have ginger tea and ginger candy(as well as fresh ginger for cooking) on hand all the time
    The ginger tea I get is granulated so mix in hot water or just take a spoonful of it and eat that.(great in cooking too because it is a bit sweet along with the kick of the ginger)
  • LisaInArkansas
    LisaInArkansas Posts: 2,948 Member
    Debbie, thanks for the thought, I'll try some. I have a lot that I dehydrated... Corey makes ginger beer using it.
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,143 Member
    Im going to try and get some sleep,between my brothers issues,Dan and the move.. and running Doris up to BK dropping her off tomorrow and grocery shopping and then picking her up.. you wonder why i try and relax and rest.Wow and did I say my SIL is jerk?
  • skuehn48
    skuehn48 Posts: 3,071 Member
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  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,655 Member
    (((Debbie and Lanette)))

    Carol in GA