Women 200lb+, Let's Hold Onto That Feeling this February!!!

๐Ÿ’—Happy February, ladies!๐Ÿ’—

๐Ÿ’•We've made it through the first month of 2025 and now we've got to hold onto that feeling of focus and accomplishment that we set for ourselves last month!

๐Ÿ’•How did January treat you and how have you been treating yourself? Are there any new resolutions you've added to the list or any that you've set aside because they just weren't working?

๐Ÿ’•What are the things you'll be specifically focused on in February? And what's one way you've already made yourself proud in 2025?



๐Ÿ’—If you've never been here before, please know you are welcome to join at any point in the month. All you have to do is post something, and then BAM! you're one of us.

๐Ÿ’— In this group, we post our weekly and monthly goals and provide support and motivation to each other as we share our triumphs and our struggles. This group is all about accountability.

๐Ÿ’—All are welcome and, if you think you belong here, you do! No matter how much you currently weigh or how you measure (or don't measure) your weight, we'd love to hear from you!

๐Ÿ’—Victories, both scale and non-scale, are great to hear about, but, conversely, we know that weight loss isn't all sunshine and roses. If you're going through a rough patch, please feel free to be honest and vent your heart out. The struggle is real and we're all here to support each other!


๐Ÿ’•In February, let's hold onto that feeling of focus, determination, and drive!๐Ÿ’•

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  • rorymason
    rorymason Posts: 183 Member
    SW: 225
    CW: 216.2
    GW: 170' s
    December weight loss: 6 pounds
    January weight loss: 2.8 pounds
    Total weight loss so far: 8.8 pounds

    The good: Im tracking. Stayed within my calorie goal all days but 1, but I did drink alcohol and eat more carbs and sugars than usual and despite being within my calories, I think it slowed my weight loss. I also increased my daily calorie goal due to exercise.

    Answers to questions....

    January treated me okay. I could have been more mindful of my nutrients.

    I did not make any resolutions, but I did have an epiphany of sorts.

    I AM TIRED OF BEING FAT!

    I am sick, sick, sick of it.

    I am tired of having difficulty getting in and out of my kyack, tired of feeling disgust when I see a picture of myself, tired of how I look in my clothes, tired of my knee hurting. I could go on and on.

    Its like an albatross around my neck 24/7 and I think I am finally done with it.

    I am surprisingly happy. I am happy that I am tired of being fat. Happy that I am finally recognizing that it is keeping me from being the person I want to be. Dont get me wrong, I am not trying to be someone else, but I do not feel that outwardly, I am presenting how I
    truly am. Like Im stuck and cant be my true self.
    Its complicated. ๐Ÿค”

    What will I be working on in February? I will be tracking and walking and hopefully making better choices so that weight loss continues, with the hope that I will finally make a significant impact in my weight loss.

    Wishing you all a happy and healthy February.

  • nebslp
    nebslp Posts: 1,681 Member

    Dec.3- 236.3 (ave. 236.2)
    Jan. 1- 233.4 (ave. 234)
    Feb. 1 - 231.0 (ave. 230.6)
    Feb. goal - 226
    2025 goal - 199

    Hi! and Happy February!! I'm so glad to be here, and I want to thank @RavenStCloud for getting this up and running again. I'm feeling very focused and am excited about all the good things that could happen this month.

    January treated me with a major roller-coaster ride. I'm so glad to be off of that craziness. Jan. started with me at 233.4. My goal was 229 for the month but with all the goodies that made it into our house at New Year's my body did a sugar revolt and in 10 days I had gone all the way up to 240.4 with ankles and feet twice their normal size. Detox took about a week and once all the sugar was out, I ended up losing a pound or two many days until I leveled off to hang around 230/231. In reality, after all that I only lost a few pounds for January but I had to work daily to get that extra sugar w(eight#) off.

    My focus is on macros. I usually don't even know how many calories I've eaten until the end of the day, but I have made sure my macros are in sync. Surprisingly, my calories are always less than I expected because I'm never really hungry. So that's how I can explain the weight loss. It's been a real game changer, for sure.

    I don't declare any resolutions, but have some habits I'm working on establishing and will continue with those this month. I will continue to track my food intake, and use my spreadsheet (that I love) to track steps and weight every day. It's encouraging when the numbers improve, and a kick in the rear when they're going the wrong direction. I can see that I need to increase my steps. I have a measly goal of 4200 steps a day but haven't even been managing that very well. My feet complain with much more than that. I have been working on using my Fitbit to monitor my active hours during the day. I'm shooting for 8/12 hours. Last month I was only good for 26% so that will be easy to increase. I'm feeling less resistance to getting up from the computer or sewing machine when I'm busy working to get some activity in. I'm eating far more fruits and vegetables and fewer chips and my sugar intake has plummeted. I'm struggling to reach my protein goal. I'll continue on that route and watch the pounds evaporate (hopefully if my body agrees with my mind).

    One thing that I would like to emphasize is that if you haven't taken pictures, I highly recommend it. I took some of myself in the softball shirt I need to fit into comfortably by the end of March. At my highest (Jan. 10) I was shocked and panicked that someone might see the photos on my phone. Then I had to laugh at myself because it's not like they're not seeing me look like that in person! DUH!!LOL! Last time I took pics was a few days ago at around 230 and I couldn't believe the difference 10 pounds made. So little losses make for big gains. We need to document our progress whether it's on paper or on the screen. So that's just my little opinion that no one asked for but I had to share anyway:)

    I've been reading everyone's posts and will write a little more another time. So many of you had good successes. Little or big, they all add up. It's a process, and we only go as fast as our bodies allow. We're here and trying so we're all successful in that way.
  • lisakatz2
    lisakatz2 Posts: 640 Member
    nebslp I can relate to the ravages of sugar and also fell off the wagon around the holidays. Glad to hear that you are building good habits, sounds like things are going well for you. I admire your positive mindset!
  • CupcakeCrusoe
    CupcakeCrusoe Posts: 1,458 Member
    Good morning everyone!

    Thank you as always @RavenStCloud for setting up the thread again this month!

    January has been...frankly awful, and February's not looking much better, which means if it's going to happen anyway, it might as well happen while I'm losing weight. That would be something to help a little bit, if I can lose weight while everything is awful.

    So, starting stats!
    Saturday weigh in days
    Christina
    36 years old
    5'4"

    SW: 220ish
    Re-SW (Feb 2022): 200.4
    UGW: 150
    2025 goal weight: 160
    SW 2025: 179.7

    ๐Ÿ’• February Goals: ๐Ÿ’•
    ๐Ÿ’• Goal weight (average): 174

    ๐Ÿ’— 2/1: 178.2 (average)

    I did manage to lose .2 lbs average last month, despite the terrible, so there's that, haha!

    We're going for slow, sustainable weight loss this month, back to basics:
    ๐Ÿ’— Logging everything in grams
    ๐Ÿ’— Getting at least 8k steps every day
    ๐Ÿ’— Prioritizing going to sleep on days I don't go to the gym
    ๐Ÿ’— Gym at least 2x a week, with at least 2 home workouts. Home workouts can be replaced with gym workouts, but only in emergencies can gym workouts be replaced with home workouts.
    ๐Ÿ’— At least 64 oz of water every day
    ๐Ÿ’— No doom scrolling for more than half an hour. Doom scrolling should only be for the purpose of finding what I need to do today to make the world a better place. Further than that is just hurting myself.

    So! With all that said!
    I'm stuck at home with the baby today, she had norovirus all Saturday and yesterday she barely had any energy, poor thing. So I'm going to fill up my tumbler with water, put something on the TV, and use the crap out of that walking pad I got. That'll check off steps and water for today. I'm going to the gym later tonight, so that'll happen.

    I've got my breakfasts packed for this week, so even though I'm not going in, I'm going to be able to stick to my breakfast plan. The hard thing for today will be not snacking, since I'm at home. My planned lunch is at work already, so I need to figure out what I'm eating and then eat that. I'm thinking big salad. Then dinner will be KFC bowls, one of my favorite low cal high protein meals, with mashed cauliflower and breaded chicken chunks from Costco. I had stocked up before the strike so I didn't cross any picket lines, but it looks like they might have reached an agreement so they don't have to strike after all.

    This week I'm going to the gym three times, so I only have to worry about one other home workout. Gonna be splits practice, I really need splits practice.

    Time to do tags, since I have the time this morning!
    @rorymason I totally get this feeling. You feel a disconnect with how your body is and how your mind is set. Now it's just the simple (not easy, but simple) matter of lining them up. You've got this.

    @lisakatz2 I hope you and hubby feel better soonest! Everyone is sick with something right now.

    @nebslp this is such good advice. Pictures don't lie. And LOL about people seeing your pictures :lol: I take my pictures in a sports bra and underwear most of the time, so it's a legitimate concern for me :)

    Have a great day, everyone, stay safe and healthy!
  • KeriA
    KeriA Posts: 3,358 Member
    edited February 3
    Thank you @RavenStCloud!

    Keri
    71 years old
    Challenge Starting Weight: 260 (May 2024), Pre-retirement weight 262 before May.
    UGW: 167 (healthy weight for a senior woman my height)
    5'6" Tall
    I do check-ins when I lose:

    ๐Ÿ’•How did January treat you and how have you been treating yourself? Are there any new resolutions you've added to the list or any that you've set aside because they just weren't working?

    January was tough. It took a while to get back on track after the Holidays. Last week I finally did my goal of 6 days a week of exercise with a minimum of 30 minutes a day, a long walk each week and 1 aquafit. I also took most of the month to get off pounds gained in December. I even lost a few pounds.

    ๐Ÿ’•What are the things you'll be specifically focused on in February? And what's one way you've already made yourself proud in 2025?

    I decided after the holidays I needed to get my sugar intake back down but to do that I took another step in reducing my weekly sugar intake by nixing daily desserts after dinner. Instead I have one serving of dark chocolate with no refined sugar and no lead. My dessert was a Haggen Das dark chocolate ice cream bar. So it took me awhile to find a safe substitute for this chocolate in my diet. Dark chocolate is good for you but most regular brands have been found to have lead in them. Ghiradelli is lower. I found a chocolate bar sweetened with dates and tested to have no heavy metals. I am just trying to keep my calories on the lower side and planning/cooking/eating meals at home. I think I need to work on lunches next. Also maybe 1 more healthy breakfast option. I need more protein.

    12/5/2024: 246
    1/2/2025: 248
    1/26 244.8
    2/3/2025: 246.6

    After getting down below 245 I popped up again which is typical for me. I vary a lot. I weigh daily. So I am glad that I am back to 246.6 today. I would like to be in or close to the 230s this month I usually aim for 4 lbs a month loss but I feel that some of these pounds have already been lost and need to be kicked to the curb so I am aiming for a 5 lb. loss this month.

    I have gotten back to having 60 minute walks 1-2 times a week but I am still feeling too weak. I want to come up with some exercises to add to my walks besides the Aqua-exercise I do. I want to do sit to stands, and stairs and other exercises to keep me stable and strong. It maybe that I just feel weak after my long walks but I still donโ€™t like it.

    February Goals:
    โ€ข 30 minutes minimum of exercise 6 days a week. Have longer walks until I can walk around Greenlake (almost 5K). 1 day of aquafit. Add strength and stabilizing exercises 3 days a week or daily.
    โ€ขGW: Get into the 230s
    โ€ข Keep getting 7-8 hours of sleep
    โ€ข Meal plan and cook 3+ dinners a week
    โ€ข Keep my water intake up

    @rorymason I think I had the same epiphany last month looking at photos from visiting my Son, DIL and grandson around Thanksgiving. I feel that my weight is getting in the way of exercising the way I want. Exercise is the 1st thing to do for health even more than losing weight but I seem so limited in what exercise I can do. I am glad you are happy!
    @lisakatz2 Take care and feel better.
    @nebslp I have the same 2025 weight goal but have another 10 lbs to lose than you. I think @RavenStCloud had it spot on with February and focus because it took me until February to get that focus. I identify with your description of the sugar revolt. There were so many holidat=y treats left in January. I would like to hear more about your focus on macros. One thing I like about my spreadsheet is it is a way to acknowledge the exercise I do daily. I am glad you are seeing results in photos.
    @CupcakeCrusoe I agree about January but am reserving judgement on February. However Iif I look beyond my own personal life I am not very happy with things. My spreadsheet does average weekly weight. I was looking at that today and it was helpful in figuring out January. I am trying to find a balance too with keeping up with what is going on to stay positive and informed but not to be depressed. Hope your little one is better soon.
  • KeriA
    KeriA Posts: 3,358 Member
    Keri
    71 years old
    Challenge Starting Weight: 260 (May 2024), Pre-retirement weight 262 before May.
    UGW: 167 (healthy weight for a senior woman my height)
    5'6" Tall
    I do check-ins when I lose: A quick one today since I lost since I posted yesterday

    12/5/2024: 246
    1/2/2025: 248
    1/26 244.8
    2/3/2025: 246.6
    2/4: 245.8

    No walk yesterday due to snow etc.
  • CupcakeCrusoe
    CupcakeCrusoe Posts: 1,458 Member
    Good morning everyone!

    Weight down, pulling average back down this morning. Better than waking up to my weight being up.

    My order of skinny syrups came in yesterday, so I'm enjoying the toasted marshmallow flavor in my coffee this morning.

    I like to play little new york times style games in the morning, but not the NYT ones, so I play waffle, circuits, and murdle. I failed at all three this morning. I think I need more coffee. :lol:

    Didn't work out yesterday. Got to do that today, then I'm playing a cozy video game with a friend tonight after work.

    Take care of yourselves, have a great day.
  • KeriA
    KeriA Posts: 3,358 Member
    Keri
    71 years old
    Challenge Starting Weight: 260 (May 2024), Pre-retirement weight 262 before May.
    UGW: 167 (healthy weight for a senior woman my height)
    5'6" Tall
    I do check-ins when I lose: A quick one today since I lost since I posted yesterday

    12/5/2024: 246
    1/2/2025: 248
    1/26 244.8
    2/3/2025: 246.6
    2/4: 245.8
    2/5: 245.4

    @CupcakeCrusoe I haven't I didn't work out yesterday either. It snowed again.
  • CupcakeCrusoe
    CupcakeCrusoe Posts: 1,458 Member
    Good morning everyone!

    No weigh in this morning because Whatsisface is sick, and so he's locked into the bedroom, I slept on the couch last night. It was... Fine. I got to sleep pretty easily, because I stayed up too late making a character sheet with a new D&D group last night, which was fun.

    What I didn't do was work out yesterday, beyond my walk at lunch that I do. Tonight is going to have to be that, if I'm still feeling well by then. Maybe I'll get lucky and won't get it. In any case, I need to make sure I'm not sick and N's not sick, since her allergy appointment is today. Next target for the kids not being sick is Saturday, since it's a big day in their theater group, and Julia has a birthday party to attend.

    Tonight's dinner is up in the air at the moment, I'll probably pick something pretty easy, since Whatsisface is not going to be eating with us. We'll see.

    @KeriA the snow does make it so hard!

    Have a great day everyone, stay safe!
  • kristinwoods919
    kristinwoods919 Posts: 83 Member
    Started February stuck for the second week in a row. But hoping to move off this little plateu by next Wednesday. I have noticed that in the last week I am less hungry. But the boredem somedays is where I suffer. I am going to not try to eat out of boredem this month. And not trying to over eat. I just stop when I am full. I have a tendency to over eat. Husband and I celebrated our anniversary Monday 18 years!!! I did not over eat! I over ordered but, just brought the left overs home.

    Feb 5 -230.6
  • CupcakeCrusoe
    CupcakeCrusoe Posts: 1,458 Member
    Good morning everyone!

    Still no weigh in today, Whatsisface is still sick. I'm still feeling fine at the moment.

    N's not allergic to anything the allergy doc suspected, which is wonderful. All my food could come back into the house, :lol: I'm so glad. It would have been a hard thing to deal with. Poor thing was so tired after the allergy appointment that she crashed on the couch more than an hour before her normal bedtime.

    Today! Friday pizza day, although I might just be diying my own pizza kasha, since I still have a lot of that left. I made a whole box, 8 cups cooked. Oops. It is good, I like it, just not all at once. :lol: And at work, I still have a lot of provolone and pepperoni, so pizza kasha sounds like it will be a thing.

    I meant to play video games last night, but one of my buddies got into an accident where his car slid on some ice into a pole, so I ended up just finishing up my D&D character for Sunday and watching Michelle McDaniel on YouTube. Got a new idea for lunches for next week.

    @kristinwoods919 happy anniversary!!! I love restaurant leftovers, they're different than home leftovers, haha.

    Have a good day everyone, stay safe out there.
  • jenbroussard71
    jenbroussard71 Posts: 298 Member
    Jennifer - 53 years
    Re-started 4/24/24 - 236.2
    CW: 201.4
    GW: 165 (may adjust when I get there)
    Loss since 4/24/24 - 35 Pounds
    5'3" Tall
    Changed weigh in to Friday

    2/1/25- 201.2
    2/7/25 - 201.4
    2/14/25 -
    2/21/25 -
    2/28/28 -

    I haven't set any goals for February. I will have to take it easy on all activity. I had an MRI on Wednesday which showed that I have two tears in my meniscus - one in the medial one in the lateral, an acute ACL sprain, a ruptured popliteal cyst (Baker's cyst) and Hoffa's fat pad impingement in my right knee. I must say I felt rather attacked when I read fat pad impingement - then I did some research and found out that we all have 4 fat pads in our knees. I'm in a brace for now and have an appointment with an orthopedic on the 19th. Also, a round of the dreaded z-pack / steroids. My brain feels like it's on fire.

    I've been in contact with my trainer to modify my workouts and we will be removing all lower body for now. My focus needs to be on tracking food and water, but I am not really focused right now. My eating is not the best, but I am not off the rails. I feel a little discouraged by this set back. But this is only an obstacle that I have to deal with and then push forward.

    I hope you are all doing great and have a wonderful weekend.