Will you flirt with a complete stranger with no intentions ?

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  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    the real skill lies in flirting with someone you know or have known for YEARS...it's easy to flirt with a complete stranger :-)

    Agreed!!! My best friend and i flirt shamelessly with each other. My hubs and he girlfriend just roll their eyes at us! :wink:
  • IronmanPanda
    IronmanPanda Posts: 2,083 Member
    I always thought I was kinda shy, but apparently I'm a flirt.. who knew?
  • MassiveDelta
    MassiveDelta Posts: 3,271 Member
    I do...but its not on purpose Im just like that. Its kind of accidental I dont even realize Im doing it
  • NineInchGirl
    NineInchGirl Posts: 169
    Well there's a difference between telling someone they are pretty (complimenting them) and flirting!
    Nothing wrong with eyeballing...we all do it, don't deny it!
    That being said, I can't and don't flirt with other ppl if I'm in love with someone or if I got strong feelings for someone. :) it's just how it is for me :)
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
    I don't really know how to flirt and if I did with a stranger it would probably end with me being lead away by the police.

    Haha, same. Or get a topic started about me being the creepy guy at the gym.

    Oh, you're the one that topic was about...

    Blond mullet, camouflage cut offs? Yep.
  • lobster888
    lobster888 Posts: 861 Member
    What I think is friendly and outgoing is taken as flirting all the time.. so what I do naturally has no intentions what so ever but how someone takes it may. I am very happily married to the most wonderful man who loves me just the way I am.
  • ABetterBalance
    ABetterBalance Posts: 298
    I never really considered myself a flirt, but I have been told I am one. Apparently, smiling, making eye contact and engaging in small talk (good morning, how are you, etc...) count as flirting. Whether it is or not, I do make a point to be polite to/flirt with people around work- it's easier to get what my department wants and/or needs if I am on friendly terms with key players in other departments
  • angyi
    angyi Posts: 14 Member
    I make sure to do this everyday :)
  • Amysgetnfit
    Amysgetnfit Posts: 231
    Absolutely! and sometimes shamelessly! All in fun, its one of my few vices that isn't outlawed or unhealthy
  • AmberLiscous
    AmberLiscous Posts: 644 Member
    ABSO-FREAKIN-LUTELY!!!!!!
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    I don't consider smiling "flirting". I smile to people all the time. It's my way of saying "what-up!" without having to actually say it.

    I don't flirt anyway. I'm socially inept in that way. I don't even realize it when guys are flirting unless they are really obvious about it.
  • FitPhysique
    FitPhysique Posts: 284 Member
    I'm an unintentional flirt, it's just sort of in my brain.

    I probably flirt with everybody in an accidental non direct way.
    That's me exactly. I did not realize until a few months ago that making eye contact and smiling are flirtatious gestures. Based on that I flirt with young, old, men, women, gay straight etc. I am a friendly person and that is always misunderstood as flirting. Go figure.

    I've actually stop seeing someone because of that. He thinks I was too "inviting" as he put it. I should walk with my head down and not make eye contact. That to me I can not imagine.
  • FitPhysique
    FitPhysique Posts: 284 Member
    Nope! I am very outgoing, though, and because I smile at everyone I see and joke with people all the time, people sometimes think I'm flirting when I'm just being friendly or silly. Whoops!
    Me Too!
  • shawnscott5
    shawnscott5 Posts: 295 Member
    I love to give people compliments, I know it makes their day. I know it makes mine when I get them! And it doesn't matter if it is men or women, everybody deserves to feel good about themselves.
  • kstep88
    kstep88 Posts: 403 Member
    Nahhh. It's no fun anymore. I just flirt with my husband. Then I always get the prize. Haha
  • CraigG75
    CraigG75 Posts: 177 Member
    Yep, its fun to me
  • ShortayBaybay
    ShortayBaybay Posts: 138
    I try not too, but sometimes it just happens.

    I am happily married though, so I know it won't go anywhere, and the people that I do happen to "flirt" with knows this as well :)
  • rltolle
    rltolle Posts: 17
    I may smile at a stranger or give them a compliment but thats not flirting in my book. To me, real flirting always has intentions or its not flirting, its just being nice.
  • missymarea
    missymarea Posts: 51 Member
    Of Course!!! What's wrong with making someone elses day????
  • rileamoyer
    rileamoyer Posts: 2,412 Member
    Interesting, I don't flirt at work - being in HR that can be a problem :ohwell: However, every now and then when I get out with the girls - - - - - - -:wink:
  • FitPhysique
    FitPhysique Posts: 284 Member
    I may smile at a stranger or give them a compliment but thats not flirting in my book. To me, real flirting always has intentions or its not flirting, its just being nice.
    Totally agree!
  • flea2449
    flea2449 Posts: 499 Member
    Always!
  • saral89
    saral89 Posts: 108 Member
    I do.. I'm happily marries but there's nothign wrong with an extra friendly smile or gesture :P No harm done and it leaves a smile on your face knowing someone was looking back at you..
  • Justjoshin
    Justjoshin Posts: 999 Member
    This is a no brainer.

    Isn't it a necessity to do this? You know.. just to make sure you've still got "it"
  • kelceystevens73
    kelceystevens73 Posts: 36 Member
    Absolutely! nothing worng with a lil back and forth flirting and giving someone a genuine compliment.....
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    Yep. I dont always mean it to be flirty. im smile-er and if I like something about you - I say it.
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
    I'm an unintentional flirt, it's just sort of in my brain.

    I probably flirt with everybody in an accidental non direct way.
    That's me exactly. I did not realize until a few months ago that making eye contact and smiling are flirtatious gestures. Based on that I flirt with young, old, men, women, gay straight etc. I am a friendly person and that is always misunderstood as flirting. Go figure.

    I've actually stop seeing someone because of that. He thinks I was too "inviting" as he put it. I should walk with my head down and not make eye contact. That to me I can not imagine.

    I always get told "your eyes are going to get me in trouble"

    dude, I just said I want plasic.
  • sedric
    sedric Posts: 48 Member
    Yep:wink:
  • myofibril
    myofibril Posts: 4,500 Member
    All action is intentional unless you are suffering from automatism. Action is the causal transaction between the mind and the world.

    Nobody flirts unintentionally, bearing in mind the exception above, and people act in their enlightened self interest when doing so.

    If you are flirting it's because you want to do so. That's not necessarily a bad thing though.
  • skinnywithin
    skinnywithin Posts: 1,392 Member
    GUILTY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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