really need help.

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  • SexSeaCow
    SexSeaCow Posts: 21 Member
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    I have nagged my husband, asked him nicely, pointed out that I want him to be alive for as long as possible, tried to incentivize him, guilt him, make it into a fun outing, etc...doesn't work. I did notice though, that when I get too heavy or when I start getting in good shape he magically starts lifting weights, swimming, and talking about doing cardio.
    So, I think for me at least the key is to just do it for you, do it for yourself, get in shape and he'll pick up on how good you feel about yourself and what you're doing. The "lead by example" recommendation is what I'd recommend as well.
  • divainme
    divainme Posts: 69 Member
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    Just do it for you with a friend if possible and from example he may just decide that its worth it...... Don't talk about it or nag just do it..... My kids and I do lots without my husband because he's too distracted by hobbies and projects, if we waited for him we'd never do anything.

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