Do you consider your new lifestyle change a diet?

lkwalker71
lkwalker71 Posts: 131 Member
edited October 4 in Health and Weight Loss
Every since I have made this lifestyle change, joined my fitness pal and started losing weight I constantly have people asking "how is your diet going?" I don't consider this a diet and why do people immediately think if you are losing weight, making better choices and exercising/toning that you are on a diet? I have gotten to the point that I just say yes it is going good because if I say I am not on a diet and explain the changes I have made, the next time they see me they ask they ask how is your diet going.
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  • brandenocs
    brandenocs Posts: 146 Member
    Absolutely not. I consider it a change to better myself.
  • vanessaclarkgbr
    vanessaclarkgbr Posts: 731 Member
    Lol I'm the same, I prefer to not view this as a diet, because that implies to me that it will come to an end :-) I guess it's nice that they are asking!
  • Missjulesdid
    Missjulesdid Posts: 1,444 Member
    I consider WHAT I'm eating to be a lifestyle change but HOW MUCH I'm eating is a diet.
  • celticmuse
    celticmuse Posts: 492 Member
    I consider it a lifestyle change. I will never go back to mindless eating and no exercise....
  • mynameiscarrie
    mynameiscarrie Posts: 963 Member
    I think it stopped being a diet to people when I was still "dieting" 6 months later. I think a diet it something that involves stupidity and weird food over and over (to be simple about it). I just eat right and exercise like a person is supposed to. It's a "diet" now since eating right isn't the norm what eh...whatever...i'm healthy.
  • thirtyandthriving
    thirtyandthriving Posts: 613 Member
    I have changed my diet, I am not on a diet! ;)
  • bjfmade
    bjfmade Posts: 543 Member
    I consider this a lifestyle change. period. It is something I have decided to change in my life that I can continue doing and not feel like I have cut things out of my life that I will someday have to have. I eat so much better now and feel better. I also eat a lot more, or so it seems to me. A diet is something I consider is a quick fix and one that has to be repeated.
  • AloyMomNwife
    AloyMomNwife Posts: 146 Member
    I tell them: " No, I'm just eating less and exercising more." People can't conceive that you can loose weight by leading a healthy lifestyle and not depriving yourself from foods you like. It's nice, for a change, to be losing weight without a restricting diet. Keep up the good work!
  • manderson27
    manderson27 Posts: 3,510 Member
    I started of thinking I was on a "diet" and I have only been doing it for a couple of months but my mind set is changing and I don't feel like I am "dieting" I feel I have become a part of something. It is certainly a lifestyle change not a diet. But the words losing weight and diet just go together for most people I guess.

    The answer would be. "Yes thanks its great" because it is working so what is in a name eh? :wink:
  • auntie_missy
    auntie_missy Posts: 113 Member
    Yes and no. No in the sense that my decisions to give up certain foods, limit others, and eat more of others is all lifestyle change. But yes in the sense that I am on a restricted diet. I am only eating around 1250 calories a day. When I meet my goal weight and transition to maintenance, I will continue the lifestyle change but won't be so restricted.

    When people say "How's the diet?" I say "Fine." No matter what. I don't argue semantics, and I don't give details unless they specifically ask because most people don't really want to hear the answers.
  • sometimes it can be ..... lifestyle can be change i g uess by what u eat..... it can also affect the way you feel
  • grassette
    grassette Posts: 976 Member
    For me, this is all about portions, and learning the calorie value of foods. I still eat the same stuff: fresh, from-scratch cooking with lots of vegetables, fruit, and unprocessed ingredients. Just about keeled over when I saw that a piece of home made Black Forest Cake had 570 cals in it. Good if you are clearing land in the back quarter but not living in the city food. So, traditions do need some adjustments. This site is good to know your food value and how to plan for it, and how make moderation a regular practice. And the big plus is to see how you can plan to work the excess off, in a calorie in = calorie out kind of way that is healthy. So, for me, this is not so much an incentive to diet as it is an incentive to exercise. Which is exactly the lifestyle change I have to make.
  • ahavoc
    ahavoc Posts: 464 Member
    I'll ying and yang ya.

    Yes, because technically, everything you eat is part of your diet, whether it's ice cream and cake or low fat protein bars. There's no such thing as "going on a diet", there's just what your diet consists of and changing your diet.

    No, because it's a lifestyle change, so it's just the way and what I eat now.
  • AS for me ...its a diet. When I reach my goal it will become maintenance ....then just NOTHING more. You really don't have to explain yourself. People can be quite nosy. Just nod your head and smile and don't forget to look hot doing it :flowerforyou:
  • navywifeandmomof4
    navywifeandmomof4 Posts: 958 Member
    I don't feel like its a diet i still eat what i want just less of it..like i don't eat a whole pint of ice cream at one time like i use to or a whole quart of chicken lo mein for dinner. my biggest change is me running..now that i finished the couch 2-5k program I'm looking for my next big challenge.
  • significance
    significance Posts: 436 Member
    Absolutely. My diet is what I eat. Whenever I am watching what I eat (whether to lose weight or for maintenance), I consider myself "on a diet".
  • PrincessEliNa
    PrincessEliNa Posts: 524 Member
    I don't see what's wrong with the word "diet", look it up, it's not bad to be on a diet. A healthy diet improves your health, your physical and mental state...
    I think the word 'diet' has negative connotations because of UNHEALTHY diets, but really, it's not a big deal.
    I say I'm on a diet. I am. And I'll be on a healthy diet for the rest of my life. :D
  • I consider my weight loss process as a lifestyle change. I know too much now to just forget about how many calories are in food and how wonderful it feels to be lighter and energized to go back to my old "fat" self.
  • Pepper2185
    Pepper2185 Posts: 994 Member
    I'm not on a diet. I'm eating healthy and exercising ... like I should be.

    How can living healthily be considered a diet?

    Personally, I think a lot of people assume weight loss means restricting yourself from everything - hence the "diet" label. Just because you are healthy doesn't mean it's a "diet"

    But - if you were following a rigid eating pattern (i.e. South Beach, Dukan) I would call that a diet.
  • lkwalker71
    lkwalker71 Posts: 131 Member
    Thank you everyone for your posts. I guess I get frustrated especially when it comes from a family member who has told me, don't get rid of your clothes that are now too big because you are going to put all the you lose back on. I am thankful for my group of friends, other family members and my husband who are supporting me and tell me how great I look and how well I am doing. I still have more weight to lose but make better choices and eating healthier.
  • maura5880
    maura5880 Posts: 346 Member
    Heck no! It's a lifestyle change & it'll stay that way :)
  • revnica
    revnica Posts: 50
    Definitely a life style change, diets never work for me!!!!
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    When people say "How's the diet?" I say "Fine." No matter what. I don't argue semantics, and I don't give details unless they specifically ask because most people don't really want to hear the answers.

    That's how I feel.

    I didn't consider it "a diet" because I think of "a diet" as a short term fad with a name. Grapefruit diet, Slimfast diet, Cabbage diet, etc. I'm just learning how to eat the proper foods and amounts to get the results I want. At one time, the result I wanted was to lose weight. Now it's to maintain my weight.
  • bmqbonnie
    bmqbonnie Posts: 836 Member
    Nope! Diets are temporary, usually with temporary results.
  • AussieGem
    AussieGem Posts: 96 Member
    I dont consider it a diet! I am making dietary changes but to me it is a change in my lifestyle.

    Many people go on 'diets' - however most are completely unsustainable and restrictive. Yes you may lose 10 pounds or whatever, but once you stop you put it all back on. I guess that is why, for me, it is all about lifestyle change!

    At the beginning of the year, I was a lazy, fat, sad and lonely girl who was stuck in her ways eating anything that tasted good and didnt care enough about herself. Sure I would go on diets, but I did not have the right mindset. In my opinion dieting and living a healthy lifestyle can be two totally different things. What seperates them is the mindset that one has.

    Dont get down about what people say or what they may think. You have made a change for the better, take it as a challenge and prove them wrong.
  • chikachic817
    chikachic817 Posts: 55 Member
    Yes and no. Right now it feels like a diet because I only started a week and a half ago. But I am trying to find healthy ways to fix some of my favorite foods, so that it can end up being a lifestyle change for me. So far, I feel proud of myself because I have gotten rid of most of the junk food at my house and have asked my parents to stop buying certain things I used to eat that were already prepared/processed like chicken tenders/frozen french fries/etc. from our local meat market. I've started using a food scale and am finding out that the portions I am now eating still allow me to feel satisfied after my meals :)
  • kyle4jem
    kyle4jem Posts: 1,400 Member
    I hate the fact that the "slimming" community has hijacked a word that now means different things to different folks: DIET.

    In Nature your diet is the type of food stuffs you consume...koalas have a diet of eucalyptus leaves, pandas eat bamboo, etc.

    But nowadays diet so often refers to a program used to lose weight. These diets tend to be short-term (from a few weeks to a few months) and they normally incorporate a dietary change (low fat, low carb, only fruit & veg juice, VLC-food supplements/replacements, etc) These changes can only be continued for a definite period because your body needs balance and so often these diets shift that balance.

    Nowadays we talk about lifestyle change almost interchangeably with diet, but truthfully, if we are still in the weight-loss phase rather than the maintenance phase, then truthfully if we are honest with ourselves... we are on a diet!

    I am currently eating a deficit of ca. 750 Calories a day. This isn't a lifestyle change, because I can no more eat a deficit of 750 for the rest of my days than I could do without water. Put it simply, I'm on a diet. OK, it's not a branded program like Weight Watchers, Slimming World, Atkins, Dukan, LighterLife or SlimFast... it's an EAT LESS, MOVE MORE plan where I eat much the same type of foods as I always have, only now I count calories and eat within those limits as well as ensuring I get some sort of exercise every day.

    Next year I intend to move into eating maintenance calories based on the weight I want to end up being. This will still be a deficit on my current and ongoing weight for at least another 12-18months, but that will be a true lifestyle change as I will be re-educating myself as to what I can fit into a food and nutrition program based on 1850kc which will include going out to restaurants, drinking in the pub, having chocolate, biscuits, cakes and snacks from time to time and living within my weekly goals. No quick fix, no special requirements, just sensible eating, regular portions and enjoying exercising (walking, swimming, cycling)

    So yes... I am on a diet, but I'm looking towards a future where I will not have to count calories (meticulously) and just be able to enjoy leading the life I want to lead, eating what I want to eat and getting out and about and feeling invigorated :happy:
  • SusM321
    SusM321 Posts: 141 Member
    Absolutely NOT, I'm not "dieting" either...I'm here to change my life as you said! I'm learning (or is it relearning) how to eat, play and work healthier. Like Mom taught me eons ago!! Dieting doesn't work...working to change yourself does! Although, I am eating a more nutritious diet; kind of tricky for those who don't get it! :-) I used to explain that I'm not dieting...I don't bother anymore if it's the same people asking. Wishing the best for all of us on this journey to a new way of being!
  • suzyqs4
    suzyqs4 Posts: 20 Member
    My journey on MFP is a Lifestyle Change because it has to be permanent. I consider a diet to be temporary that would have a date to begin and end. Lifestyle changes are what what you know you have to do and will keep on doing.
  • ladybg81
    ladybg81 Posts: 1,553 Member
    lifestyle change
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