Can good looks guarantee fidelity?

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quichebradford
quichebradford Posts: 327 Member
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I heard a guy say today that he would never cheat on Beyonce....because of how she looks. I mean, he was adamant about it. I just stared at him in disbelief, as there is SO much more to a relationship than just looks....but that's just my opinion. I'm curious to know what other people think. Are good looks enough to keep a person faithful?
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  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
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    No.
  • dls06
    dls06 Posts: 6,774 Member
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    Keep dreaming.:devil:
  • vim_n_vigor
    vim_n_vigor Posts: 4,089 Member
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    If that was the case, Hollywood would have more faithful marriages.
  • CastleMadeOfSand
    CastleMadeOfSand Posts: 432 Member
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    No disrespect intended to the OP, but this question is a waste of your thought.
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,455 Member
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    No disrespect intended to the OP, but this question is a waste of your thought.

    exactly! Affairs are usually the result of something emotionally being wrong in a relationship. Looks have nothing to do with it.
  • cmonskinnylovee
    cmonskinnylovee Posts: 339
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    Maybe he's just not the cheating type, and wouldn't cheat in general.
  • cmonskinnylovee
    cmonskinnylovee Posts: 339
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    No disrespect intended to the OP, but this question is a waste of your thought.

    exactly! Affairs are usually the result of something emotionally being wrong in a relationship. Looks have nothing to do with it.

    Not even that, affairs are most often a result of something emotionally wrong with the cheater.
  • Serialdieter
    Serialdieter Posts: 114
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    If that was the case, Hollywood would have more faithful marriages.

    This

    Look at the likes of Halle Berry who is just beautiful but was cheated on. No matter how they look if they are not a nice person your not going to stay with them.
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
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    Some people are just more inclined to cheat. Whether married to some sloth, or Helen of Troy.
    And it's very easy for some dude to say "I'd never cheat on Beyonce" because well... Beyonce isn't his. She's unattainable.
    The things men will say when a woman is unattainable versus their actions once/if they have that person can be quite different.

    I hope that made sense.
  • quichebradford
    quichebradford Posts: 327 Member
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    No disrespect intended to the OP, but this question is a waste of your thought.

    None taken. It's a no brainer for me, and everyone else, so I thought. I've heard similar remarks (from other guys) made about a few other famous people, Halle Berry for instance. It just amazed me that some guys would feel that way.
  • quichebradford
    quichebradford Posts: 327 Member
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    Some people are just more inclined to cheat. Whether married to some sloth, or Helen of Troy.
    And it's very easy for some dude to say "I'd never cheat on Beyonce" because well... Beyonce isn't his. She's unattainable.
    The things men will say when a woman is unattainable versus their actions once/if they have that person can be quite different.

    I hope that made sense.

    Exactly, this was the point I was trying to make to him!
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
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    No. Case in point, Jesse James.
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
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    Some people are just more inclined to cheat. Whether married to some sloth, or Helen of Troy.
    And it's very easy for some dude to say "I'd never cheat on Beyonce" because well... Beyonce isn't his. She's unattainable.
    The things men will say when a woman is unattainable versus their actions once/if they have that person can be quite different.

    I hope that made sense.

    Exactly, this was the point I was trying to make to him!
    How many times does a taken woman hear from an other man "oh, I'd treat you so much better" blah blah.

    Do you think they would really stab their eye out to smell Jessica Albas fart? Probably not.
  • adjones5
    adjones5 Posts: 938 Member
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    No. Case in point, Jesse James.

    Yep.
  • Lift_hard_eat_big
    Lift_hard_eat_big Posts: 2,278 Member
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    No
    No matter how "good looking" a person is, someone can become sick of their personality, attitude, etc. I learned the hard way.
  • Lift_hard_eat_big
    Lift_hard_eat_big Posts: 2,278 Member
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    No. Case in point, Jesse James.

    Kobe Bryant is another one
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
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    No. Case in point, Jesse James.

    Both great examples. And the women they cheated on vs the women they cheated with.

    Not even a comparison.

    Kobe Bryant is another one
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
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    Plenty of men have cheated on the hottest women, with ugly women. It has nothing to do with looks, it's all the person who is cheating. Look at Sandra Bullock (her husband cheated on her with some tattooed chick), Christy Brinkley, Tiger Wood's wife (she is GORGEOUS beyond belief), Jennifer Aniston, Siena Miller, Maria Shriver (the lady who fathered his son is not conventially attractive) Reese Witherspoon (the girl her husband cheated on her with is just average looking in my opinion), Halle Berry, Sophia Bush....

    The list goes on!

    http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/relationship-advice/why-guys-cheat-hot-women?click=cos_new
  • writtenINthestars
    writtenINthestars Posts: 1,933 Member
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    No disrespect intended to the OP, but this question is a waste of your thought.

    exactly! Affairs are usually the result of something emotionally being wrong in a relationship. Looks have nothing to do with it.

    This! Affairs happen for all sorts of reasons and looks are most likely on the bottom of the list.
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
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    Marriage doesn't even guarantee fidelity, why would someone's looks (which will wither)?

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