NSV - guy smacked my behind in the grocery store

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  • CMmrsfloyd
    CMmrsfloyd Posts: 2,380 Member
    I love how many people here are raining on her parade, with all of this talk about punching the guy. WHO ARE YOU GRIPING TO?

    Geesh... let her enjoy her moment, and save your hatred for the person who actually committed the atrocity.

    Exactly. My goodness. She's okay with what happened. Let her be. One person's "disrespect" is another person's turn on (not saying she was turned on by it but she considers it a NSV so if you don't like it, don't reply to the thread.)

    Actually I was extremely offended, but you know, whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger, and cuts your grocery trip short and preoccupies you with looking over your shoulder in the checkout line which is great for not picking up extra snacks in the impulse aisle. Score one for the chip resistance.
  • AZTrailRunner
    AZTrailRunner Posts: 1,199 Member
    I love how many people here are raining on her parade, with all of this talk about punching the guy. WHO ARE YOU GRIPING TO?

    Geesh... let her enjoy her moment, and save your hatred for the person who actually committed the atrocity.

    Exactly. My goodness. She's okay with what happened. Let her be. One person's "disrespect" is another person's turn on (not saying she was turned on by it but she considers it a NSV so if you don't like it, don't reply to the thread.)

    Actually I was extremely offended, ....

    Then don't call it a "victory"!
  • CMmrsfloyd
    CMmrsfloyd Posts: 2,380 Member
    Glad I could help with your NSV.

    Nice try, you are much more Caucasian than this guy was. Maybe next time. LOL
  • tiptoeketo
    tiptoeketo Posts: 271 Member
    I would have taken my new-found sense of confidence and punched him in the nose!
    Just because you look beautiful doesn't make you a piece of meat =/

    I would have done the same!

    :noway:
  • CMmrsfloyd
    CMmrsfloyd Posts: 2,380 Member
    I love how many people here are raining on her parade, with all of this talk about punching the guy. WHO ARE YOU GRIPING TO?

    Geesh... let her enjoy her moment, and save your hatred for the person who actually committed the atrocity.

    Exactly. My goodness. She's okay with what happened. Let her be. One person's "disrespect" is another person's turn on (not saying she was turned on by it but she considers it a NSV so if you don't like it, don't reply to the thread.)

    Actually I was extremely offended, ....

    Then don't call it a "victory"!

    It's a joke. I didn't enjoy it at the time, but a couple hours later it's funny and creates a nice dialogue on MFP. :-). Kind of like how I cried when my mom backed into my car on the way to shop for my wedding dress, but now it's kind of funny.

  • Newbie question: I see everyone posting the 'NSV' what does that stand for?

    NSV - Non Scale Victory

    Oh very cool. Thanks!
  • psmd
    psmd Posts: 764 Member
    That is really funny! I probably would have gotten mad, but secretly take it as a compliment! ;) lol

    And agree with a previous poster--does that even still happen nowadays?!
  • scott1024
    scott1024 Posts: 279 Member
    Glad I could help with your NSV.
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    Jeff, did you log the running under cardio as you made your escape?
  • CMmrsfloyd
    CMmrsfloyd Posts: 2,380 Member
    Glad I could help with your NSV.
    \

    Jeff, did you log the running under cardio as you made your escape?

    LOL
  • aqua_zumba_fan
    aqua_zumba_fan Posts: 383 Member
    I would have taken my new-found sense of confidence and punched him in the nose!
    Just because you look beautiful doesn't make you a piece of meat =/

    Abso-freaking-lutely. Horrid git!
  • KristaWeiss
    KristaWeiss Posts: 233 Member
    that totally counts!!! Good for you!
  • Laces_0ut
    Laces_0ut Posts: 3,750 Member
    out of curiosity would any guy object to getting slapped on the butt by an attractive female? i know i wouldnt.

    and i know its different for men and women.
  • cajunlady56
    cajunlady56 Posts: 151 Member
    I wouldn't consider an assult a victory - just saying
  • bliss78
    bliss78 Posts: 11 Member
    Love this it totally counts, kudos to you! loll
  • jakejacobsen
    jakejacobsen Posts: 584 Member
    out of curiosity would any guy object to getting slapped on the butt by an attractive female? i know i wouldnt.

    and i know its different for men and women.

    no but I would make sure my wallet was still in my pocket
  • CMmrsfloyd
    CMmrsfloyd Posts: 2,380 Member
    I wouldn't consider an assult a victory - just saying

    With there being absolutely nothing I could do about it after the fact (guy already gone, didn't see his face, can't exactly chase him down yelling 'security!' with my 4 yo in tow - if the store even *has* security), all that's left to do is laugh about it and go on with life. :-)

    Not to mention there is the complete possibility that it could have been an accident and my brain wants to think it's on purpose, b/c even though it's demeaning at least it means he had a good reason to do it. Twisted, right? But he ran away too fast for me to ask if he really meant to do it or not. The quick getaway could have been a quick getaway, or an embarrassed slinking away after a mistake. There was no accompanying narration or even SVU style suspenseful background music, so I can't be sure.

    Either way, it makes for a fun thread. :-)
  • Nanadena
    Nanadena Posts: 739 Member
    I would have taken my new-found sense of confidence and punched him in the nose!
    Just because you look beautiful doesn't make you a piece of meat =/


    Me three!:angry:
  • thirtyandthriving
    thirtyandthriving Posts: 613 Member
    I would have taken my new-found sense of confidence and punched him in the nose!
    Just because you look beautiful doesn't make you a piece of meat =/
    Agreed and in front of my kid?? No way! I probably would had him arrested!! Lol ;)
  • Beckym1205
    Beckym1205 Posts: 217 Member
    I love how many people here are raining on her parade, with all of this talk about punching the guy. WHO ARE YOU GRIPING TO?

    Geesh... let her enjoy her moment, and save your hatred for the person who actually committed the atrocity.

    This :)
  • CMmrsfloyd
    CMmrsfloyd Posts: 2,380 Member
    I would have taken my new-found sense of confidence and punched him in the nose!
    Just because you look beautiful doesn't make you a piece of meat =/
    Agreed and in front of my kid?? No way! I probably would had him arrested!! Lol ;)

    Kiddo didn't see it. I was facing my kid at the time and my butt was behind me. I may have lost 23 lbs but there is still enough of me that my little guy didn't have a clear view of my butt. LOL
  • thankyou4thevenom
    thankyou4thevenom Posts: 1,581 Member
    I would have taken my new-found sense of confidence and punched him in the nose!
    Just because you look beautiful doesn't make you a piece of meat =/

    OMG this.
  • charlotte3176
    charlotte3176 Posts: 115 Member
    I think it is funny. I would have been shell shocked too!!! Congrats to you and your hot looking self.
  • unsuspectingfish
    unsuspectingfish Posts: 1,176 Member
    I'm one of those people who reacts before thinking, so the guy probably would've been on the ground, with me standing over him yelling something like, "Thanks, but USE YOUR WORDS."
  • I :heart: this!!! Too funny! and more importantly, I want to know where this grocery store is...I may need to go. HA! :) jk
  • wish21
    wish21 Posts: 602 Member
    Just because you look beautiful doesn't make you a piece of meat =/

    Agree! I would have been like Excus me?:noway: That's kinda rude!
  • PegasusDeb
    PegasusDeb Posts: 665 Member
    I :heart: this!!! Too funny! and more importantly, I want to know where this grocery store is...I may need to go. HA! :) jk


    LOL I was just going to post this!! ha ha ha I wanna shop where my Charmin gets squeezed! :smokin:
  • JMehl135
    JMehl135 Posts: 37 Member
    great NSV. got to laugh at this stuff and take it as a compliment!
  • catherine4211
    catherine4211 Posts: 944 Member
    It may have been inappropriate of him but c'mon.......I'm sure he meant it as a compliment so why not just enjoy it?!? Now if he had waited outside the grocery store for you that's a whole other story. No harm no foul.
  • poisongirl6485
    poisongirl6485 Posts: 1,487 Member
    Geez, some of you people really need to lighten up. Calling it an assault is an insulting slap in the face to women who actually have be assaulted and harmed/injured by someone. Gimme a break.

    OP---glad you're finding the positive in the situation! Yeah, the guy's a douche, but might as well enjoy the fact that your fanny is something to lust over again! Congrats on your weight loss!
  • babygurl48
    babygurl48 Posts: 1,237 Member
    I would have taken my new-found sense of confidence and punched him in the nose!
    Just because you look beautiful doesn't make you a piece of meat =/
    Agreed!!!!
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