Binge eating at night

oaken
oaken Posts: 35 Member
I've got total control in the daytime. I work out for an hour to an hour and a half each day. Mostly cardio, and some strength training.

My biggest problem is night-time. I get really hungry and I binge eat. I try to make good decisions, but I never seem satiated. Should I go to bed earlier so I forget about my grumbling tummy? I'm trying to find out why I eat so much at night. Though I admit it is getting easier the more I stay on my calories and the more I say no to myself. My favorite foods at night are going in the meat drawer and eating the deli turkey/chicken by itself. Slice after slice - four or five slices. The other night I had a small piece of lasagna + two eggs. I seem to be my hungriest at night time.

Any suggestions?
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  • MissMollieK
    MissMollieK Posts: 316 Member
    I can relate. I don't always binge- I will sneak in extra calories I know I will later regret. One thing you may try to do is keep your calorie count down more earlier in the day to allow for a few extra in the later time. Find stuff that is satisfying but not terrible. I found I like chocolate milk and it is a great substitute for the real candybar. I also get it 1% instead of higher fat. There is a bit of sugar-but like I said, better than real thing. Also - don't have things in your house that you can't resist. Hardest thing I learned. I loveeeee icecream and won't even purchase it- even low fat or frozen yogurt. I know I can eat half a gallon in a sitting if I don't watch it. Wish I had more help.
  • cheekydeeky
    cheekydeeky Posts: 146 Member
    i do the same thing. its usually carbs. which is horrible to before bed. :( good luck to you.
  • CatSaysKnit
    CatSaysKnit Posts: 4 Member
    I did the same thing but knitting has helped. It keeps my hands and my mind busy so I dont' think about food. It's my way of dealing.
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
    Maybe if you ate enough during the day you wouldn't be so hungry at night. You have hundreds of calories left over almost every day.
  • oaken
    oaken Posts: 35 Member
    i do the same thing. its usually carbs. which is horrible to before bed. :( good luck to you.

    Yes, it is usually carbs. I love love love carbs. I'm a mashed potato person - for sure.
  • AlichiaMJohnson73
    AlichiaMJohnson73 Posts: 186 Member
    I know exactly how you feel...this is a problem a lot of folks have. I say don't deprive yourself at night, but slowly ween yourself off eating at a certain, try to make healthy choices of snacks.
  • Pronoiac
    Pronoiac Posts: 304
    Maybe if you ate enough during the day you wouldn't be so hungry at night. You have hundreds of calories left over almost every day.

    ^^^ This. Sounds like your body is playing catch up on missing nutrition. Try eating more of your calories earlier in the day, get ample protein and fiber in there, and eat your calories back to zero.
  • CLC900709
    CLC900709 Posts: 49 Member
    I have this problem too. Except I eat EVERYTHING I can find! Total control during the day, but at night I just get bored and eating keeps my hands busy. :-( i'll be stalking this post! haha
  • angel013183
    angel013183 Posts: 26 Member
    Not sure I agree with keeping your calorie count down in the day to allow for extra later. This could contribute to your over-eating at night. I would suspect that you are not eating enough during the day and by the time you get home you are starving. If you are working out as much as you say you are you should try adding in more protein during the day to keep you feeling full longer. Make sure you eat a snack late in the afternoon to tie you over and find something to do at night to keep yourself busy and your mind off of food.
  • oaken
    oaken Posts: 35 Member
    Usually it's after dinner. If I eat a good size meal, a couple of hours later I'm already wanting more food. Sometimes, I'm thinking about what I'm going to eat later while I'm eating dinner!!! It's sick. I feel sick about it.

    In some ways I'm scared to eat more calories during the day because I'm afraid I won't have any left at night time, my craving time.
  • angel013183
    angel013183 Posts: 26 Member
    Dont neccessarily eat more calories during the day but eat protein. I eat the "pure protein" bars and they keep me full and help with the sugar craving. ( i cant lie and say they are wonderful but they work) and they only have 150 calories..they really do work in keeping you full. Also, try the 3 bite rule that my bootcamp instructor told me about. If you want/craving something, take 3 small bites of it. If you still want the rest of it then eat it but usually just having 3 bites will work for the craving...and a LOT LESS calories then gorging on the whole thing. :)
  • CLC900709
    CLC900709 Posts: 49 Member
    Usually it's after dinner. If I eat a good size meal, a couple of hours later I'm already wanting more food. Sometimes, I'm thinking about what I'm going to eat later while I'm eating dinner!!! It's sick. I feel sick about it.

    In some ways I'm scared to eat more calories during the day because I'm afraid I won't have any left at night time, my craving time.
    you sound a lot like me. i can be cooking breakfast and im thinking about snacks, lunch, dinner, etc!
    last night i ate my dinner, my sons (because he wouldnt eat it), and like 3 snacks after that. (chips, another kind of chips, and pop tarts). i felt gross when i sat there and thought "i wonder what my boyfriend is thinking watching me stuff my face like this". i probably would have ate more but the BF and i were arguing and i went to bed early.
    i think its all a mind over matter thing. are you REALLY hungry or just wanting/looking for something to do?
  • What's important to understand is that you are going to feel hungry while loosing weight. You are on a calorie defect which means your body is burning fat. Think of it as Pac Man. The little men are cutting fat away-let them cut! If you eat what you are suppose to try something besides watching TV, read!! Read a magazine, take a bath, relax, de stress, but dont eat extra at night!!

    Keep track of your calories and keep consistent is the BEST and most effective way to loose weight.

    How bad do you want it?
    Remind your self, make a poster, callage, anything to remind you of where you want to be. Don't give up and don't binge! :)
  • oaken
    oaken Posts: 35 Member
    i think its all a mind over matter thing. are you REALLY hungry or just wanting/looking for something to do?

    Some nights I can honestly say I am hungry. My stomach is rumbling, and I feel empty. Other nights I'm just bored in front of the TV.
  • oaken
    oaken Posts: 35 Member
    What's important to understand is that you are going to feel hungry while loosing weight. You are on a calorie defect which means your body is burning fat. Think of it as Pac Man. The little men are cutting fat away-let them cut! If you eat what you are suppose to try something besides watching TV, read!! Read a magazine, take a bath, relax, de stress, but dont eat extra at night!!

    Keep track of your calories and keep consistent is the BEST and most effective way to loose weight.

    How bad do you want it?
    Remind your self, make a poster, callage, anything to remind you of where you want to be. Don't give up and don't binge! :)

    I can do this. I can cut it out after dinner. I'll start tonight.
  • ameerah77
    ameerah77 Posts: 37 Member
    Maybe if you add more fiber to your dinner, it might hold you over longer. With me, I get home late alot and usually will just have a bowl of raising bran with almond milk and those are the nights that don't wake up through the night to snack. Good luck to you.
  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,519 Member
    just save most of your calories for night time
  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
    go to bed earlier, that's what i do. i know that if i'm not in bed by 10 i'm gonna binge, i also know that if i'm hungry before then it's because i'm hungry and not because i'm bored. i also alway make sure to have some late night calories set aside just in case.
  • LisaMarieee
    LisaMarieee Posts: 176 Member
    It looks like you're not eating much during the day. My guess is that's what is causing you to binge at night, because your body is trying to make up for what it didn't get earlier. Why don't you try eating more of your calories during the day rather than at night?
  • olyrose
    olyrose Posts: 569 Member
    i was really bad with this too. It helped me to eat more frequently throughout the day (little healthy snacks) so I wasn't actually hungry at night. And for the first couple months, I incorporated a late snack into my calories early so I knew I had those calories for snacking. I also started making tea at night, or sugar-free/fat-free hot chocolate, so I could have something that felt satisfying but didn't take up calories.
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
    just save most of your calories for night time
    Looking at her diary, that's what she's doing... hardly eating at all during the day and then wondering why she's so hungry at night.
  • I've got total control in the daytime. I work out for an hour to an hour and a half each day. Mostly cardio, and some strength training.

    My biggest problem is night-time. I get really hungry and I binge eat. I try to make good decisions, but I never seem satiated. Should I go to bed earlier so I forget about my grumbling tummy? I'm trying to find out why I eat so much at night. Though I admit it is getting easier the more I stay on my calories and the more I say no to myself. My favorite foods at night are going in the meat drawer and eating the deli turkey/chicken by itself. Slice after slice - four or five slices. The other night I had a small piece of lasagna + two eggs. I seem to be my hungriest at night time.

    Any suggestions?

    I would guess you're doing this because you're needing comforting before going to bed. It's probably more psychological attachment to food than it is physical hunger....try taking 10 mg of melatonin. It's a safe herbal supplement and it will put you to sleep within 30 minutes....So you could have it during dinner if you wanted and by the time you're done, you'll be tuckered out. Put yourself in bed, stay away from the kitchen and let the medicine work. you'll drift off and forget your cravings. This is a quick fix of course, not a solution. You could also try sleepytime cocoa to have in bed. Satisfy a sweet tooth and drift off.
  • Miriamreal
    Miriamreal Posts: 33 Member
    Plan your meals like I do everymorning or the night before, you will be amazed of how much healthy food you can eat if you make the right choices. or do what I do, I cook and clean my house after work, then I do my work outs at night, so I dont really have time to think about food. what you can do at bed time is, have 1 string cheese this will keep you full througt out the night. Good luck!
  • tahoemads
    tahoemads Posts: 64 Member
    I'm sure there are both psychological and physical reasons as to why you're binge eating at night, so I will simply share what's worked for me:

    1. Eating several small meals throughout the day - no matter if I'm not super hungry. It keeps me from eating everything in sight at night.
    2. Staying away from television. For some reason, I want to snack. I'm not necessarily hungry. It's just a psychological response to watching TV and wanting to eat.
    3. Drinking tea. Everyone always says, "drink tea! it staves off hunger" and I always wanted to punch people in the face. Really though, it helps. Chamomile and peppermint are my favorites. And go for a loose leaf tea! They are so much more pungent and satisfying.
    4. Seems a lot of people do this too: Go to bed earlier. Staying up late tends to kick your body into gear for a "second meal."
    5. And last but certainly not least: I had to train myself to not binge eat/snack at night. I am on week 3. Yes, week 3. Week 1 was really hard, but once I stopped eating 2-3 hours before bed, and went to bed feeling slightly hungry, I woke up starving, ate a hearty breakfast, and broke the late night eating cycle. It takes time, but if you stick with it, your body will be trained to know that dinner is over, it's time for your digestive system to rest, and to go to sleep. This, out of all my tips, has worked the best. And in these short few weeks, I've dropped the 2-3 pounds that have been super stubborn for me. My theory is it's because I used to eat right up until I went to sleep, and it became pure fat storage.
  • Having gone through this problem myself. I concentrate on increasing my water intake during these times of less self control. In stead of na quick snack, grab a large glass, fill it with crushed ice and water. Then, after consuming the water, munch on the crushed ice until the cravings stop. You'd be surprised how this helps me avoid out-of-control binging.
  • spyork
    spyork Posts: 187
    Hi,

    If your working out for that long you may need to have more protein, IE a protein shake after your training and maybe one a couple of hours before you train. You could also try a casien shake at night as this will fill you up and slowly release into your system over night. Hope this helps
  • Whilst saving calories for the evening may be a shirt term solution it will not help in the long run as you need to try and manage your binge eating. There is a very good book which I use with clients who binge eat. It is designed for people to use by themselves. Getting better bit(e) by bit(e) by Janet Treasure and Ulrike Schmidt. It is available on amazon at a reasonable price. I hope it helps.
  • MinnieInMaine
    MinnieInMaine Posts: 6,400 Member
    I totally get wanting to save your calories for later in the day just in case but obviously that's not working for you so it's time for a change. That never worked for me either - I used to skip breakfast then eat a huge lunch and still be starving all afternoon so I'd snack and snack and that's how I got to my highest weight.

    Something that's worked really well for me is to eat 4 meals per day, all with a pretty good mix of carb and protein and also stick to around the same calories per meal (300-400 for breakfast, 300-400 for lunch, 100-300 for snack) and also get a calorie burn of 300-500. That way I know I've got about 600 calories left over for dinner on average and that should pretty much cover whatever I'm in the mood for.

    Also, it sounds to me like you're boredom eating and you might be like me where TV can be a huge trigger too. Maybe try to do something else to keep yourself away from the fridge (and maybe the TV too) - read a good book, play a game, go for a walk (or do an exercise DVD), call a friend, hang out on MFP, do something crafty, etc.

    Good luck!
  • jskaggs1971
    jskaggs1971 Posts: 371 Member
    Nighttime snacking made me the man I am today. That's the problem with it.

    I find a couple of things have helped me control it: Healthy dinners with plenty of volume -- green salads are a great way to add bulk to your meal without a ton of calories, as long as you go easy on the high-calorie additions like nuts, dried fruit, or croutons; drinking plenty of liquids after dinner, like black coffee, ice water, or flavored water (I like the Ocean Spray mix-ins); exercise in the early evening; and planning for a relatively healthy evening snack. I try to keep a few hundred calories available for a peanut butter & banana half-sandwich if I get the after-dinner munchies.

    I'm finding that for me, my food follows the 80/20 rule. About 80% of the calories come from 20% of the things that I eat. Logging has really helped me understand this. So, when I'm hungry in the evening, I try to reach for the relatively bulky, non-calorie dense foods that will keep me feeling full without adding a ton of calories.

    Edited to add: I find that hitting the "complete entry" button on my food diary helps me mentally stave off the snacking as well -- It's like I'm telling myself and all my MFP friends "That's it, I'm done for today." I try to do that soon after dinner, and BEFORE I sit town to watch the tube or read a book.
  • janiedoe111
    janiedoe111 Posts: 161 Member
    All great ideas! Thanks for refreshing my mind to these coping plans.
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