Did losing weight change your relationship status?

Nope, I met my guy at 135 had 2 kids got up to 200 & now I'm down 30lbs. He's always been happy with me but he may be a little happier now just because I am even more comfortable with myself than I was at 135.

I do get more attention in the form of stares when I am in public. I never go "out" so I've yet to be hit on or anything.

My man and I got together when I was a Much higher weight, but I dropped over 40lbs our first year of being together without even trying (just happened naturally because I was happier, we didn't have a car so we walked everywhere, we cooked food together or ate raw all the time, and lots and lots of..erm..exercise).

In the past decade though, I packed on a ton of weight. He never said boo about it, just told me how much he liked watching my butt when I was walking upstairs (lol). Now that I'm 24 lbs down, he's been nicely forthcoming with the compliments - though they've shifted from my butt to to curve betwen my waist and hip, my thighs, and my greater..erm...'mobility'.

*However*, he's been rather vocally unhappy about not getting all the fried/gravy-covered dinners he's gotten used to and has no problem letting me know when I'm getting annoying with all the net calorie/saturated fats/"oh god I want buffalo shrimp and I can't have it I haaaate life" talk. (Granted, I have a problem with hyperfocusing on whatever gets into my head and I've been known to be annoying as hell on all sorts of topics.)

We compromise, and I'll make him one nasty fried meal that he loves per week. Also, I can either moan about my diet or brag to him about my diet but not both in the same day, haha.

I do wish he would stop bringing me the little seasonal snacks I love, though. I don't think he really means to sabotage me, he just doesn't really realize how many freaking calories are in a jumbo spiced pumpkin walnut muffin.

Change? not really

But I got propositioned at work earlier this week by a fairly hot woman who gushed over how much better I look. That was an NSV to the max!

I think I get flirted with a bit more, but I still haven't been asked out or kissed or anything so no it hasn't.

yupp. lost 60lbs in a year & had a few bf's[never had one before i lost weight]. my fiance said i looked fat in that picture..
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then yet, he's jealous of guys looking at me & he doesn't want me wearing certain things..he makes no sense to me xD

Nope. Been married for 18 1/2 years & together for 19 1/2 & it hasn't changed a bit!

Well I have noticed much more attention of late. But being a short guy its hard to get a girl interested. My confidence is what has actually changed.
I have been single for 2 years and struggle to find people who are actually single. But hey you just never know what may happen.

Hey - I'm short and have been single for 4 years!!!! I also struggle to find people who are single!

Ya know, when I was single I met a GREAT guy off Eharmony who happened to be 3 inches shorter than me. He was awesome. Though we didn't end up going beyond a couple dates, it broke me of that 'a guy needs to be taller than me' thing (which is equally hard to find when you 5'11 with shoes on and a woman!). Things I loved about dating a short guy - he didn't CARE about my height! He was looking at me as a person, whether that was up or down or right across the table. I could wear heels (a rarity) and not feel out of place. He loved that I had long legs.

It's all about how you sell it - short folks! I think he was about 5'6" (on a tall day).

My attitude has done a complete 180. I'm happier, more secure, and a bit more outgoing. I smile a lot more, and even had the guts to apply for (and get) a retail job! But, I still haven't been hit on once with the first 55 pounds gone. Maybe after the next 45?