would you move to another state if my MFP crush ask me??
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Probably not. I like where I live, and an internet crush isn't enough to make me uproot to another state. There's always a chance the relationship won't make it, and I don't want to be stuck in another state with people I barely know.0
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Negative0
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Nope. My family and friends are all right here. Plus I love my job too much to leave it.0
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well, it's that darn hubs that gets in the way of my fun... But no, not really. I would never move for a crush anyway. If things were to turn to more than just a crush at some point, and there was really a relationship there, I'd seriously contemplate moving to explore the possibilities...0
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um, no. *chuckle*
but if he's willing to visit, and if i'm still conveniently single, then heyyyyy.0 -
Asked you what? And what does that have to do with me moving? Is this some kind of freaky polygamy thing?0
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Nope! Love my Black Hills!0
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I agree with hotmamasoon...I would definitely uproot for something more serious than a crush...there would have to be some talk of commitment and relationship...I love moving and starting over...esp if things where u are arent the best. I dont need family or friends so thats never a factor for me....I have relocated 3 times since 2005....and will prob do it one more time...for love...LOL0
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it would depend on what state for me. if nyc sure! all my family is there0
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Giovanni if you love that guy and he loves you, then move away.0
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that's.so.sweet and thoughtful of you Roflol.....but I'm not gay lolGiovanni if you love that guy and he loves you, then move away.0 -
that's.so.sweet and thoughtful of you Roflol.....but I'm not gay lolGiovanni if you love that guy and he loves you, then move away.
Lmao!0 -
If I was single...and there was some serious connection there...It may be something to consider after some visits.
Until then...no, I'm staying here in NH with my husband. lol0 -
Do I get to move IN with Q?0
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If it was somewhere warm, on the beach, and he didn't mind my 4 kids coming too, then hells yeah.0
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If I was single...and there was some serious connection there...It may be something to consider after some visits.
Until then...no, I'm staying here in NH with my husband. lol
You kill me.0 -
I might depending I am a bit of a risk taker
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Nope
I am stuck here. Otherwise I'd have already moved to be with siggy.0 -
stupid DP0
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Definitely not!
In a mildly similar situation, a little over three years I was on vacation with friends in Nashville and I met a guy from Kentucky that I fell head over heels for! it was crazy!! We ended up talking and texting for a few months and we visiting one another every other weekend and sometimes weeks at a time.. I would arrange my work schedule to go down there (from Detroit) for long weekends or use vacation days. He was a farmer so when he was able to, he'd come up here for longer periods of time. We seriously talked about me moving down there and I had considered it. All my friends and family told me I was crazy but I was crazy for him, what's a girl to do! I decided to do it and one weekend I moved a lot of my stuff down there (it also happened to be my birthday weekend) and after a few days some weird things started to happen. He became a crazy, controlling guy. He ended up physically abusing me (pulled me up a flight of stairs by my hair because my dog wouldn't stop barking) and some other stuff I'd rather not re-live. That next morning I packed up my car with as much stuff as I could fit and never looked back. I left a lot of my personal belongings at his house but they are not worth it to me!
Moral of the story. . . make sure you know the person inside and out; maybe run a background check; consider WHY they are so intent on having a "stranger" move to them. . .
Sorry to be a downer, but crazy people are out there~! and with that said, I did meet my current fiance on Match.com but I was very very cautious!
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Is this about me or you? You changed the sentence subject halfway through your question.0
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Visit? Possibly if asked to... Move? Not it if isn't anything more than just a crush...Hypothetically if two crushes developed a "real relationship" and in the future moving ideas came up then I'm sure people would consider it...0
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Asked you what? And what does that have to do with me moving? Is this some kind of freaky polygamy thing?
I was thinking the same thing.0 -
I am not so closed minded that I would say 'absolutely not.' But, I can understand how hard it might be to move. *sigh* I wish it was easier.0
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If YOUR Mfp crush is asking YOU to move, why the heck would *I* move?0
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Moral of the story. . . make sure you know the person inside and out; maybe run a background check; consider WHY they are so intent on having a "stranger" move to them. . .
Sorry to be a downer, but crazy people are out there~! and with that said, I did meet my current fiance on Match.com but I was very very cautious!
Kerri
Background checks are your best friend!!!!!!
My best friend got caught up in a whirlwind romance- married after 3 mos, no checks and........AFTER the wedding it was discovered:
1) he pretended to go to work though he was unemployed
2) his car was leased by his mother, he owned nothing and owed like 100k in debt while claiming otherwise
3) he was previously married though said had never been
anyway.... liar liar pants on fire - check BEFORE any serious moves. You can be both smart and spontaneous.
Me - I would never have moved for a far away crush, never. My husband yes his job moves, and I would have moved with him married or not because we were serious and living together already.0 -
I would move, reason being my bf lives in Florida and is an MFP member.0
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Nope... never.0
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I would hahahaa0
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In all honesty, I have considered not moving (or where to move next) based on Mfp friends who are dear to my heart.0
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