Do men really enjoy women who like to bar hop?

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  • CurlyQTee
    CurlyQTee Posts: 62
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    I play poker at bars and this is what I have learned. My GF started playing who is hot and bar hops. She plays only to meet men. Men spot her a mile away. She can't keep a man and they just use her for sex.
    As for me. I may not be hot but, give me 3 conversations at the most with a men and he will most of the time take to me. I stay relaxed and I love to laugh. They see a person that likes to have fun and is not someone who is looking for something. I'm not shy and I listen to what they are saying and not saying. Asking questions that are deeper than average.
    Guys just want a girl who puts them at ease and isn't all work.
  • Scorpioangel
    Scorpioangel Posts: 951 Member
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  • EuroDriver12
    EuroDriver12 Posts: 805 Member
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    NO!

    Good - I just find it really weird in these situations because when I am not drunk as a skunk and everyone else is I feel like a freak LOL :) I have gotten better at it but I guess it will just take time :)

    haha i know what you mean... im usually the sober one among my friends because im more dedicated then them.. then when were at the gym they go "wtf man how u get bigger n stronger then as so fast?"
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    Scorpioangel Posts: 951 Member
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  • Scorpioangel
    Scorpioangel Posts: 951 Member
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    NO!

    Good - I just find it really weird in these situations because when I am not drunk as a skunk and everyone else is I feel like a freak LOL :) I have gotten better at it but I guess it will just take time :)

    haha i know what you mean... im usually the sober one among my friends because im more dedicated then them.. then when were at the gym they go "wtf man how u get bigger n stronger then as so fast?"

    Drinking too much at home is what got me at my before look I have posted in my pictures on here ha ha :)
  • rileamoyer
    rileamoyer Posts: 2,411 Member
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    My bar hopping days were for 1)Dancing, 2)Socializing, 3)Drinking (in that order), The drinking plays no to very little part in it anymore. But the the 1st 2 are still important to me (even though my visits are much fewer these days) :drinker:
  • KimmieBrie
    KimmieBrie Posts: 825 Member
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    You don't have to drive to "bar hop".

    Approx every month our group of friends goes on a bar trek - a pre-planned venue of several bar stops including a stop for
    dinner. In the city - I take public trans or a cab, never drive after drinking. We are all responsible adults. It's fun to catch up and have a few drinks, laugh and get silly, not drink ourselves into a stupor. If it's somewhere outside the city - like a football game - we have a designated driver.

    I like a few drinks, not every day, and I'm glad my husband accompanies me to all the events I enjoy and is willing to split a bottle of wine with me or make some cocktails at home or go out for a few drinks with me to chat or watch a game. It's one of the things we have in common and enjoy. If he NEVER drank that would honestly bother me and vice versa - we've discussed :)
    But that's us. Find people you have things in common with.
  • p0pr0cksnc0ke
    p0pr0cksnc0ke Posts: 1,283 Member
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    uhm...wut.:indifferent:
  • JulieSD
    JulieSD Posts: 567
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    LMAO!!!

    What the heck is with all the deleted posts by the OP?!?!!?

    OH MY :s
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
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    Anything that asks "what men like about women" or vice-versa... :grumble:
  • Classalete
    Classalete Posts: 464 Member
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    No I...I'm nearly completely disinterested in women who drink more than twice a week.

    I'm attracted to those who lead an equally active and healthy lifestyle...not the immature, hapless, party type.
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
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    I can't speak for all men but I like people who like to let their hair down and have a good time. Regardless of if this involves alchohol or not. But usually, non drinkers tend to judge drinkers as its not their 'thing'. So its wise to just stay out of the bars if you dont like that kind of socialising. I'd say its pretty obvious that if a man drinks he wouldnt mind a woman drinking, and vice versa? It's called compatibility?

    You should try hanging out in places that you approve of, where you will be more likely to meet like minded people? A guy that drinks too much isnt going to be your ideal partner is he? So the question is more about what YOU are looking for rather than if 'men enjoy women' who drink!!

    Just a suggestion. Life isnt as geralised as you're intimating. We all like different things and such is life's rich tapestry. Live and let live :flowerforyou:

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