Christmas Present for an office full of women. HELP ME!

waster196
waster196 Posts: 138 Member
edited October 2024 in Chit-Chat
Women out there; help me!

I work in an office with 4 women. Is it safer to buy them all the same thing (similar anyway, candles of varying types) for Christmas or to risk it and try to take a punt on buying something they'd like to read (I have an obsession with buying people books). If I bought books for 2 of them and candles for the other 2, would the candles look like a cop out?

CHRISTMAS! :explode:
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  • GemmieNoWobbles
    GemmieNoWobbles Posts: 398 Member
    I'd go with books... do the other 2 not read?
  • KimmieBrie
    KimmieBrie Posts: 825 Member
    How well do you know them? I'd rather have a candle than a book I had no interest in, but I'd rather have a good book I'm into than a candle....
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    You're much safer getting them all the same thing. Don't want them to start comparing and deciding who got the best gift and who is the least favorite employee. Sounds trivial, huh? But , it can happen, unfortunately.
  • Captain_Mal
    Captain_Mal Posts: 945 Member
    How about return the books and candles and give them each a gift card to a restaurant or take them all out for an office lunch, a nice one.

    I mean candles and books are nice. I like them both but only when I pick them out.
  • applebobbrush
    applebobbrush Posts: 235 Member
    what about a small candle with a gift card for a book store or kindle? I would get everyone the same thing, we women compare enough we don't need to compare gifts.
  • Sh1tsRainbows
    Sh1tsRainbows Posts: 1,227 Member
    id go with all the same type of thing..women are wierd and read into gifts a lot...so youd be safe if they were all the same :drinker:
  • nicolemariedwyer
    nicolemariedwyer Posts: 46 Member
    Candles in the office arn't the safest and books - you need to know what kind of book each one likes, etc.

    Why not a gift card to a restaurant or bath and body works?

    Or Scarves are so in this year!
  • MelanieAG05
    MelanieAG05 Posts: 359 Member
    Chocolates!!
  • andiechick
    andiechick Posts: 916 Member
    Not all women are funny... I'd go with the suggestion of a nice scarf - you can never have too many of these, or a gift voucher
  • lotty1987
    lotty1987 Posts: 176 Member
    id rather be taken out for a meal tbh x than get something that will go on my windowsil then get thrown in a fewmonths
  • nicolemariedwyer
    nicolemariedwyer Posts: 46 Member
    If you are worried about them comparing gifts wrap each of the presents separately, don't write their names on it and have them pick one out.
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    what about a small candle with a gift card for a book store or kindle? I would get everyone the same thing, we women compare enough we don't need to compare gifts.

    I think this is the winner. :smile:
  • GouchisGirl
    GouchisGirl Posts: 321 Member
    Books? Really? You have to know a person pretty well to know what their taste in books are. Almost every woman loves candles! :) Just be careful of the scent... stick to something that isn't overwhelming and strange.... scents like pumpkin pie or cream icing (Yankee candle) please just about everyone. But as others have said, I would stick to the same gift for all of them to avoid the risk of offending anyone. Good luck! :)
  • kapeluza
    kapeluza Posts: 3,434 Member
    I would get each of them a "ghost pepper" [hottest pepper in the world] little sample box, you know to rid them of any constipation problems they might have.

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  • Dauntlessness
    Dauntlessness Posts: 1,489 Member
    Gift cards to a bookstore, bath and bodywork's, Starbucks or a chocolate place. :) Maybe buy a little teddy bear/stuffed animal card holder. :)
  • jovz10
    jovz10 Posts: 531 Member
    How about return the books and candles and give them each a gift card to a restaurant or take them all out for an office lunch, a nice one.

    ditto! you could never go wrong giving someone a gift card... just make sure gift card is not for fast food... :)
  • Suedre
    Suedre Posts: 435 Member
    Wow. That's terrible you even have to worry about such things. I work in an office full of women and I'm just grateful that my boss thinks enough of me to stop by with anything. If it’s something I don’t really want or need, I’m still very grateful that she considered me and I’ll quietly donate it to a group that can make better use of it. I've never once compared what other did or didn't get and to my knowledge neither have they. I dont have advice because I think people that get upset about receiving gifts have issues that certainly aren’t yours.
  • Dauntlessness
    Dauntlessness Posts: 1,489 Member
    Oh oh...if you wanna spend some money...fruit bouquets! :)
  • margieward82
    margieward82 Posts: 406 Member
    Women out there; help me!

    I work in an office with 4 women. Is it safer to buy them all the same thing (similar anyway, candles of varying types) for Christmas or to risk it and try to take a punt on buying something they'd like to read (I have an obsession with buying people books). If I bought books for 2 of them and candles for the other 2, would the candles look like a cop out?

    CHRISTMAS! :explode:
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    I would either do something all the same or each one different. The books might seem like you care and know 2 better than the candles... All candles or all books, sorry to say!
    I am doing little goodie bags for my daughter's teachers (5 of them) and all those are the same then a little personal gift with it. Chocolate for one, cofffee for 2, hot cocoa for one and puzzle for one (her son and my daughter are friends). They all get the same but with an added personal touch!
  • cessnaholly
    cessnaholly Posts: 780 Member

    Why not a gift card to a restaurant or bath and body works?

    This^^^^

    Same thing for all of them.
  • I think the going out to a nice meal sounds great or maybe even get each of them a ticket for a movie of their choice. Not all women can do or even like candles (not me, if I'm home, I have a candle lit!) and books, well, to echo what many other said, you'd really have to know the person to know whether or not she'd like the book or even she hasn't already read it. Anyway - good luck!
  • rossi02
    rossi02 Posts: 549 Member
    Women out there; help me!

    I work in an office with 4 women. Is it safer to buy them all the same thing (similar anyway, candles of varying types) for Christmas or to risk it and try to take a punt on buying something they'd like to read (I have an obsession with buying people books). If I bought books for 2 of them and candles for the other 2, would the candles look like a cop out?

    CHRISTMAS! :explode:

    First.. you are so sweet to want to buy them all a present!!

    Like most of the others said, I would keep it the same... just so it doesn't look as if more thought was put into one versus the others. I don't think it really matters what you get, it's the thought behind it that counts and I hope they appreciate anything you give them.
  • SeasideOasis
    SeasideOasis Posts: 1,057 Member
    None of the above...

    Chipotle giftcards for all!!
  • ItsTerriC
    ItsTerriC Posts: 436 Member
    Getting a good book is always welcome. Candles are nice, too, but I'd rather have a book. There are so many wonderful books to choose from, surely there is something for everyone. Some books have almost universal appeal. You sound like a thoughtful, intelligent man. I'm sure you can find great books that all 4 women would love to read.
  • KimmieBrie
    KimmieBrie Posts: 825 Member
    Wow. That's terrible you even have to worry about such things. I work in an office full of women and I'm just grateful that my boss thinks enough of me to stop by with anything. If it’s something I don’t really want or need, I’m still very grateful that she considered me and I’ll quietly donate it to a group that can make better use of it. I've never once compared what other did or didn't get and to my knowledge neither have they. I dont have advice because I think people that get upset about receiving gifts have issues that certainly aren’t yours.

    Ditto - it's the thought that counts. If I worked in an office of catty women, I wouldn't get them anything lol

    Another idea - You could maybe do Christmas ornaments? Same item just different ones and have them just pick a wrapped package or gift bag - like a grab. Inexpensive, but still thoughtful. If you REALLY want candles you can throw a small one in there too ;)
  • 2dogzrule
    2dogzrule Posts: 245 Member
    I'd go with the same thing....I think the candles are a nice choice. You could even do something like the small Bath and Body Works stuff....you'll be the office favorite...LOL.
  • jennajava
    jennajava Posts: 2,176 Member
    Same is good. Women are catty. They might start comparing and reading into it. I hate women.
  • Laura_beau
    Laura_beau Posts: 1,029 Member
    How about a beauty voucher for all of them- like a manicure or pedicure, or one of those Gara rufa fish nibbly foot spa treatments?

    Most women like a pampeing treatment but rarely ever treat themselves.
  • vanessaclarkgbr
    vanessaclarkgbr Posts: 731 Member
    Self funded Christmas lunch out somewhere - but you get the first round or two in. Sorted. Without being sexist, and working mainly with men - I would be very surprised if I got something that was appropriate and not at least half eaten, so if you're already onto a winner by thinking about it in advance, you can't go far wrong :-)
  • Take them out to lunch, I am sure they will appreciate and enjoy the meal.
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