Was told to, "Go back to Mexico". . .

I'm posting this here because I need a safe place to vent.

Basically, my bf's parents went out of state to visit his Grandparents in California. His parents asked the two of us to watch over their home and feed the cats. They also allowed us to sleep here if we needed to.

Now, his older sister was allowed to stay as well, but could under no condition have guests or throw a party.


My boyfriend and I are both 22, his older sister will be turning 24 very soon.

I should also mention that she has given her parents a lot of trouble. She was fired from her job over the summer, and even though she claims to be looking for a new one, all she does is party instead. She relies on her parents for everything, gas money, rent and they now have to pay her car bill. Her parents keep insisting that she get a job because they literally can not afford to keep paying for everything.

With that said, this is what happened last night:

My boyfriend and I came over to feed the cats with the intention of staying the weekend. We live a
Iittle more than half an hour away, so we figured we'd save the gas money.

When we walked inside we saw the remnants of a party (beer cans, wine bottles, tequila bottles, and so on) and there were a man's pants on the floor and we could hear several voices from the upstairs.

His sister comes down, and we're pretty upset because she went against her parents direct wishes, but we diddn't say anything to her.

She then begged us not to, " tell mom and dad" and went back upstairs.

Unbeknownst to her, they had asked us to tell them immediately if she threw a party or had anyone over. They really don't trust her. So, I did what they asked and sent her mom a text.

My boyfriend's mom called me, we talked about it outside, and she decided to give us enough time to get started on dinner before she called his sister.

Well, she calls and immediately his sister come down stairs and starts yelling at us for being "tattle-tales". She starts insulting my boyfriend calling him a "fu$$**! retard" and telling him to go "fu$* himself".

Now, how many of you have sat idly by while the person you love the most is being verbally assaulted?

No, I did not hurl insults back at her, nor did I cuss or use any foul words, but I did state that this is what her parents wanted us to do. That we were simply obeying their wishes.

She replies by telling me that I'm an immature little girl.

This is where I lost it.

I have worked incredibly hard for the past four years, putting myself through college, paying ALL of my own bills, (rent, car insurance, electric, water, clothes). Everything that I have I HAVE BOUGHT THROUGH HARD WORK.

I promptly replied, that both my bf and I are younger, more mature, and leading better lives.

Then she asked why I even cared, why was I involved? I said again, that it was what her parents wanted. She said, "this isn't even your house!"

I told her it wasn't hers either.

That's where she told me it was, "more mine than yours, B!tc*".

My bf then told her to eff off, and the argument ended for the night.

Her and her friends left, my boyfriend and I stayed.

We were woken up this morning by a text from his other sister saying, "wtf happened" and telling us to check his other sister's fb.

Lo and behold there is a status rant saying that I'm a "low blow co$! sucking wh*re".

I deigned to reply at all. But she continued to post comments telling me to go back to Mexico, that she was going to murder me, that I was going to "DIE!", and that she would've kicked my *kitten* that night, but I'm "psycho and would've pressed charges", and to just wait and see.

Now, I believe these to be empty threats. However,I was a wrestler in high school and know how to defend myself, if need be.

Her parents know everything and have told me that I was in the right and that they love me.

My boyfriend has since told her that he will never speak to her again, to never contact him again, and that she is dead to him.

She's not a good person by any means. I've got so many stories of where she's failed before. But, I never thought that she would do or say these things.

I did not resort to name-calling or cussing. I have refrained from contacting her since I saw what she posted.

It just really hurts that she resorted to racism, and that she let the argument go so far.

Not to mention the fact that I'll probably have to see her at family functions. . .