Cheating...

cskalaj
cskalaj Posts: 94 Member
edited October 6 in Chit-Chat
Okay, so the radio was talking this morning about women in America and how a large percentage of them (I didn't catch the exact figure) would feel worse about cheating on a diet than cheating on their significant others. Thoughts?

Personally, I would feel WAY WORSE about cheating on a significant other. Hands down. I can't believe that is even a question/comparison!!
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  • scs143
    scs143 Posts: 2,190 Member
    That seems ridiculous.
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
    I agree, ridiculous LOL
  • lolollama
    lolollama Posts: 58
    How can they even compare the two!?

    That's just stupid. If you felt worse about cheating on your diet you obviously take dieting WAY too seriously or you have no heart and don't care if you hurt your significant other.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    I guess going out to dinner with your secret affair is the ultimate cheat then.
  • chocolateandvodka
    chocolateandvodka Posts: 1,850 Member
    yeah that sounds backwards. diets typically last 5 hours or however long between one's breakfast and lunch. marriages usually last at least five days.
  • livnlite
    livnlite Posts: 520
    Yep.. it's unanimous ... ridiculous! Apples and oranges!
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,644 Member
    I guess going out to dinner with your secret affair is the ultimate cheat then.


    I thought two wrongs made it right?
  • skinnywithin
    skinnywithin Posts: 1,392 Member
    depends on the ralationship I guess ! define cheating !
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    I guess going out to dinner with your secret affair is the ultimate cheat then.


    I thought two wrongs made it right?

    Care to grab lunch together?
  • CurlyQTee
    CurlyQTee Posts: 62
    That is really sad. It shows how much we value ourselves over others. Very selfish.
  • petergarcia82
    petergarcia82 Posts: 122 Member
    I think what they are saying is that some women won't fell any guilt about cheating. They think it's just something they want to do and it's not hurting anyone. I know because my wife did that. She did seem to have more remorse when she ate more than she should of.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I guess going out to dinner with your secret affair is the ultimate cheat then.


    I thought two wrongs made it right?

    Care to grab lunch together?

    I thought it doesn't count if they're from another area code.. and well as for meals, doesn't count if it's on your cheat day.
  • CurlyQTee
    CurlyQTee Posts: 62
    I think what they are saying is that some women won't fell any guilt about cheating. They think it's just something they want to do and it's not hurting anyone. I know because my wife did that. She did seem to have more remorse when she ate more than she should of.

    Well she can get control back with diet. But you will never be the same. Trust could always be a issue for you. I feel for you.
  • SarabellPlus3
    SarabellPlus3 Posts: 496 Member
    I would wonder what the question exactly was, if it was weighted that way. I can't imagine many people truly feel that way, and I find it totally ridiculous.
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,644 Member
    I guess going out to dinner with your secret affair is the ultimate cheat then.


    I thought two wrongs made it right?

    Care to grab lunch together?

    Absolutely.
  • KlassyKassi
    KlassyKassi Posts: 58 Member
    I think what they are saying is that some women won't fell any guilt about cheating. They think it's just something they want to do and it's not hurting anyone. I know because my wife did that. She did seem to have more remorse when she ate more than she should of.

    I don't think that is a characteristic of a woman so much as a characteristic of a sociopath. :(
  • Kany
    Kany Posts: 336
    There's no comparison between the two. I would definitely feel worst cheating on my diet. hahaha, I'm just joking. Happily married for 4 years and I would never cheat on my love.
  • petergarcia82
    petergarcia82 Posts: 122 Member
    I think what they are saying is that some women won't fell any guilt about cheating. They think it's just something they want to do and it's not hurting anyone. I know because my wife did that. She did seem to have more remorse when she ate more than she should of.

    I don't think that is a characteristic of a woman so much as a characteristic of a sociopath. :(

    Sorry did not to mean this is women only. I was just saying per what they heard about it since it was women. Most people who cheat don't feel guilt while it's hidden so they would have remorse on a diet.
  • MaximalLife
    MaximalLife Posts: 2,447 Member
    Wow - double post??
    Sorry
  • MaximalLife
    MaximalLife Posts: 2,447 Member
    Okay, so the radio was talking this morning about women in America and how a large percentage of them (I didn't catch the exact figure) would feel worse about cheating on a diet than cheating on their significant others. Thoughts?

    Personally, I would feel WAY WORSE about cheating on a significant other. Hands down. I can't believe that is even a question/comparison!!
    Well, it depends.

    Some louts are just unworthy husbands who push their wives into a cheating situation by being such pathetic figures of men. I don't blame some ladies for seeking pleasure where they can if they're being deprived at home.

    Count yourself lucky you don't relate; it must mean your husband is a good guy who loves you and treats you right.
  • LeanMeanFitnessMachine
    LeanMeanFitnessMachine Posts: 659
    Whaaaaaaaaaaaat? Thats crazy! I would feel so much more guilty about cheating on a SO! I guess that just goes to show how superficial out society has become.
  • puggleperson
    puggleperson Posts: 740 Member
    I guess going out to dinner with your secret affair is the ultimate cheat then.

    BAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! :laugh:
  • slyfy
    slyfy Posts: 2 Member
    That's stupid! There is no way I would feel good about myself if I cheated on someone. I surely wouldn't compare that to food! Although, I do love food....ha ha
  • onefitdiva
    onefitdiva Posts: 331 Member
    I feel guilty if I have a freaking Twizzler! Good thing I have never cheated in a relationship...it probably would be much worse than said Twizzler!!!
  • KlassyKassi
    KlassyKassi Posts: 58 Member
    I think what they are saying is that some women won't fell any guilt about cheating. They think it's just something they want to do and it's not hurting anyone. I know because my wife did that. She did seem to have more remorse when she ate more than she should of.

    I don't think that is a characteristic of a woman so much as a characteristic of a sociopath. :(

    Sorry did not to mean this is women only. I was just saying per what they heard about it since it was women. Most people who cheat don't feel guilt while it's hidden so they would have remorse on a diet.

    Oh yes, I knew what you meant. It is just such a sad thing that some people are that way. Having been in your shoes, I really feel for you.
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,644 Member
    Okay, so the radio was talking this morning about women in America and how a large percentage of them (I didn't catch the exact figure) would feel worse about cheating on a diet than cheating on their significant others. Thoughts?

    Personally, I would feel WAY WORSE about cheating on a significant other. Hands down. I can't believe that is even a question/comparison!!
    Well, it depends.

    Some louts are just unworthy husbands who push their wives into a cheating situation by being such pathetic figures of men. I don't blame some ladies for seeking pleasure where they can if they're being deprived at home.

    Count yourself lucky you don't relate; it must mean your husband is a good guy who loves you and treats you right.


    this to an extent. If you are in that situation then have the balls to leave him first just as having the balls to leave the table before dessert!
  • MaximalLife
    MaximalLife Posts: 2,447 Member
    Okay, so the radio was talking this morning about women in America and how a large percentage of them (I didn't catch the exact figure) would feel worse about cheating on a diet than cheating on their significant others. Thoughts?

    Personally, I would feel WAY WORSE about cheating on a significant other. Hands down. I can't believe that is even a question/comparison!!
    Well, it depends.

    Some louts are just unworthy husbands who push their wives into a cheating situation by being such pathetic figures of men. I don't blame some ladies for seeking pleasure where they can if they're being deprived at home.

    Count yourself lucky you don't relate; it must mean your husband is a good guy who loves you and treats you right.


    this to an extent. If you are in that situation then have the balls to leave him first just as having the balls to leave the table before dessert!
    WELL SAID!
  • kenzietea
    kenzietea Posts: 614 Member
    Okay, so the radio was talking this morning about women in America and how a large percentage of them (I didn't catch the exact figure) would feel worse about cheating on a diet than cheating on their significant others. Thoughts?

    Personally, I would feel WAY WORSE about cheating on a significant other. Hands down. I can't believe that is even a question/comparison!!
    Well, it depends.

    Some louts are just unworthy husbands who push their wives into a cheating situation by being such pathetic figures of men. I don't blame some ladies for seeking pleasure where they can if they're being deprived at home.

    Count yourself lucky you don't relate; it must mean your husband is a good guy who loves you and treats you right.

    I don't think there is ever an 'excuse' to cheat, but it does make it seem more understandable. If you are that unhappy, leave the relationship...easier said than done, but it is the right thing.

    I cheated once for the reasons you mentioned, felt so guilty and told him. Turns out he was cheating on me to (with lots of girls) and he told me he still wanted to work things out. We stayed together another year, (God knows why?) Eventually I woke up one day and realized I just didn't care about this person at all anymore, and ended things. It was probably the most twisted and unhealthy relationship ever. I supposed that is what I get for dating a relatively well-known singer. Singers have a hard time being faithful when hot groupies would do *anything* to get into the trailer with them. But now I have met a wonderful man that would literally climb Everest just to get me a glass of lemonade. But I wouldn't ask him to because that is empty calories ;)
  • MaximalLife
    MaximalLife Posts: 2,447 Member
    Okay, so the radio was talking this morning about women in America and how a large percentage of them (I didn't catch the exact figure) would feel worse about cheating on a diet than cheating on their significant others. Thoughts?

    Personally, I would feel WAY WORSE about cheating on a significant other. Hands down. I can't believe that is even a question/comparison!!
    Well, it depends.

    Some louts are just unworthy husbands who push their wives into a cheating situation by being such pathetic figures of men. I don't blame some ladies for seeking pleasure where they can if they're being deprived at home.

    Count yourself lucky you don't relate; it must mean your husband is a good guy who loves you and treats you right.

    I don't think there is ever an 'excuse' to cheat, but it does make it seem more understandable. If you are that unhappy, leave the relationship...easier said than done, but it is the right thing.

    I cheated once for the reasons you mentioned, felt so guilty and told him. Turns out he was cheating on me to (with lots of girls) and he told me he still wanted to work things out. We stayed together another year, (God knows why?) Eventually I woke up one day and realized I just didn't care about this person at all anymore, and ended things. It was probably the most twisted and unhealthy relationship ever. I supposed that is what I get for dating a relatively well-known singer. Singers have a hard time being faithful when hot groupies would do *anything* to get into the trailer with them. But now I have met a wonderful man that would literally climb Everest just to get me a glass of lemonade. But I wouldn't ask him to because that is empty calories ;)
    And I'll bet this guy, with all his qualities, couldn't hold a note with his head in a bucket...lol

    Anyway, glad to hear the happy ending!
  • dragonflybird
    dragonflybird Posts: 232
    I guess going out to dinner with your secret affair is the ultimate cheat then.


    I thought two wrongs made it right?

    Care to grab lunch together?

    Bahahaha!
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