Any other pale girls out there?

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  • aquapussy
    aquapussy Posts: 112
    People still tan these days on purpose? I can't help but tan when I jog and cycle outdoors but I always use sunscreen and protect my face. I don't want to look like leather face at 50.

    I love being pale, I have really dark hair and blue eyes, but have very light skin. My freckly b/f tans easier than I do!
  • Learn to love your paleness! :heart: Your skin will thank you for it.
    This ^^ :glasses:
  • hperowl
    hperowl Posts: 234 Member
    Learn to love your paleness! :heart: Your skin will thank you for it.

    Tanning beds are so bad for you!!!! Worse than long term sun exposure! I know the fad is to be super tan these days but being pale now is better than skin cancer when you're older!!
  • jennajosephine
    jennajosephine Posts: 85 Member
    You guys need to do some research.

    I work for a dermatologist.
    Yes, there are risks to tanning, including increased risk to skin cancers, and wrinkles, but there are many benefits as well.
    Tanning can help with skin disorders such as acne, psoriasis, vitiligo, and eczema, it can also help with emotional disorders as well, including anxiety, depression, stress, and self confidence.
    Tanning can ALSO help prevent other cancers, such as breast cancer, and increase vitamin D levels, which many people have a deficiency.


    There are medicines that can help prevent wrinkles. Any cream or ointment that has a retinoid in it can help stop wrinkles. And moisturizing is key to nice soft skin regardless of color.

    For me, the benefits outweigh the risk.
  • SkinnyGirlFatBody
    SkinnyGirlFatBody Posts: 98 Member
    Own the paleness! I`m naturally pale and I actually get tons of compliments on it.

    Personally I don`t think people should tan, you`re beautiful as you are and shouldn`t have to permanently damage your skin. (plus that`s what happens when you know people who have had skin cancer).
  • SkinnyGirlFatBody
    SkinnyGirlFatBody Posts: 98 Member
    Own the paleness! I`m naturally pale and I actually get tons of compliments on it.

    Personally I don`t think people should tan, you`re beautiful as you are and shouldn`t have to permanently damage your skin. (plus that`s what happens when you know people who have had skin cancer).
  • My wife is a red head... Depending on your skin you might not be able to tan. She is red or white but nothing approaching tan.

    I agree with the others...embrace being pale and enjoy it.
  • jlewis2896
    jlewis2896 Posts: 763 Member
    Melanoma, all I gotta say. I have witnessed the disease first hand.

    Please please please, educate yourself.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_4jgUcxMezM

    PS -- tanning-bed burned nipples are also a great reason to embrace the pale. :)
  • Tanning damages your skin...which means ENLARGED PORES, WRINKLES, and PREMATURE AGING. I'm only 23 and I'm ridiculously pale and started using a tanning bad for like three years and I completely regret it. Not only that, but you increase your chances of getting skin cancer. I have several suspicious looking moles that now I have to go to a dermatologist to get checked out to make sure that none of them are cancerous. Please....don't tan...and start wearing sunscreen on a regular basis. Sun-damage is cumulative.
  • jlewis2896
    jlewis2896 Posts: 763 Member
    You guys need to do some research.

    I work for a dermatologist.
    Yes, there are risks to tanning, including increased risk to skin cancers, and wrinkles, but there are many benefits as well.
    Tanning can help with skin disorders such as acne, psoriasis, vitiligo, and eczema, it can also help with emotional disorders as well, including anxiety, depression, stress, and self confidence.
    Tanning can ALSO help prevent other cancers, such as breast cancer, and increase vitamin D levels, which many people have a deficiency.


    There are medicines that can help prevent wrinkles. Any cream or ointment that has a retinoid in it can help stop wrinkles. And moisturizing is key to nice soft skin regardless of color.

    For me, the benefits outweigh the risk.


    Whaaaaaaaat?!
  • TheVulcanLover
    TheVulcanLover Posts: 36 Member
    I agree - don't do tanning beds they cause cancer too and the Jergens tanning stuff is great for your legs and arms.

    I LOVE the Jergens. LOVE it. I am naturally very pasty. Born a redhead now a strawberry blonde as I get older. The Jergens Natural Tannging lotion has been SOOO good for my skin. I have psoriasis on my arms and it would get really red and scaly and painful. I used to use prescription cream that cost close to 900 dollars a month. Oddly enough, I started trying the Jergens and it cleared up my skin pretty well and gives me a nice, non orange, healthy glow. Totally reccomend that one.
  • reaolliemama
    reaolliemama Posts: 483 Member
    You guys need to do some research.

    I work for a dermatologist.
    Yes, there are risks to tanning, including increased risk to skin cancers, and wrinkles, but there are many benefits as well.
    Tanning can help with skin disorders such as acne, psoriasis, vitiligo, and eczema, it can also help with emotional disorders as well, including anxiety, depression, stress, and self confidence.
    Tanning can ALSO help prevent other cancers, such as breast cancer, and increase vitamin D levels, which many people have a deficiency.


    There are medicines that can help prevent wrinkles. Any cream or ointment that has a retinoid in it can help stop wrinkles. And moisturizing is key to nice soft skin regardless of color.

    For me, the benefits outweigh the risk.

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  • EEK! Tons of scary, bad, false information in these replies. Indoor tanning is NOT safer than outdoor tanning. A tan is actually a response to an injury, just like swelling or a bruise. If you were working out and your joints swelled, you probably wouldn't continue to do it. When you get a bruise, you don't continue to hit yourself in the same spot.
    Risk factors for skin cancer: pale skin, easy burning, blue/green eyes, history of sunburn.....
    Tanning is no joke and it is absolutely not worth it! If you notice, very few famous people are tan.....they don't want to look 50 when they are 30 and for them, image is everything.

    Agree!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I'm a pale face with freckles, blue eyes, and red hair :0)

    NOBODY believes me when I tell them how old I am because I take great care of my skin. Even though, as I mentioned previously, I tanned religiously for a very brief time (4-5 months a few years back) I was always very careful before that and have been EXTREMELY careful since then.

    Sure you believe being tan will make you feel confident but confidence comes from within you, never what is on the outside of you. There are great selftanners, even for us pale people. The point is just like with every other product on the market you have to try different ones before you find one that suits you. Also realize that self-tanners are meant to give you a nice kiss of color, not to have you looking like you've been laying out everyday for your entire life, that is where you get the orange Oompa Loompa crap.

    You are doing a great thing by getting fit the right way. Do not ruin it by giving yourself wrinkles and possibly cancer (remember that it is CUMULATIVE so even a few times like I did coupled with a burn or two can produce cancer. You're burning because it is your skins natural protection. Everyone burns in the sun, even my kids who are dark skinned bi-racial children and my husband who is medium complexion and black...yes black people burn too because your skin is protecting itself from the UV rays. If you need a boost in your step from lack of vitamin D...which is what I loved most about the tanning bed, invest in a therapuetic light box. They're not very expensive and help with depression, etc caused by low vitamin D).
  • jecka31
    jecka31 Posts: 284
    I'm pale and stay pale!! I have many tattoos and they fade with exposure to UV so I wear LOTS of sunblock. Plus, limiting UV exposure helps me look like I'm 18 at the age of 31 (I got carded to buy super glue the other day!).
  • stayxtrue
    stayxtrue Posts: 1,186 Member
    Pale girls can be sooooooooooooooooooo freaking hot!!!
  • jennajosephine
    jennajosephine Posts: 85 Member
    I'm not arguing that pale girls aren't hot, I'm just saying there are ups and downs to every situation.

    Drinking alcohol can lead to liver damage, but do people stop drinking?
  • kapeluza
    kapeluza Posts: 3,434 Member
    Tan girls look so much skinnier, and when they are skinny they look so much better. I don't want to tan a lot, just build up a base tan so I don't look like casper!!

    and I tried lotions, they don't work. Jergens in particular. Makes me pasty and just, not attractive. and not to mention ORANGE!

    I'm tan and I don't look skinner? Who is feeding you this mumbo jumbo?
  • kapeluza
    kapeluza Posts: 3,434 Member
    And really some chicks do not look good tanned =/

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  • adjones5
    adjones5 Posts: 938 Member
    I'm not arguing that pale girls aren't hot, I'm just saying there are ups and downs to every situation.

    Drinking alcohol can lead to liver damage, but do people stop drinking?

    A lot of people drink despite the risks but that doesn't mean that you should promote it.
  • kapeluza
    kapeluza Posts: 3,434 Member
    And then this happens eventually... yiikessss

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  • You guys need to do some research.

    I work for a dermatologist.
    Yes, there are risks to tanning, including increased risk to skin cancers, and wrinkles, but there are many benefits as well.
    Tanning can help with skin disorders such as acne, psoriasis, vitiligo, and eczema, it can also help with emotional disorders as well, including anxiety, depression, stress, and self confidence.
    Tanning can ALSO help prevent other cancers, such as breast cancer, and increase vitamin D levels, which many people have a deficiency.


    There are medicines that can help prevent wrinkles. Any cream or ointment that has a retinoid in it can help stop wrinkles. And moisturizing is key to nice soft skin regardless of color.

    For me, the benefits outweigh the risk.

    I sure hope you're not the nurse in that clinic and this is not what your doctor is teaching his patients. I am a nurse and everything you said is so freakin scary it is unreal. For one thing, treating psychiatric issues such as depression, stress, and anxiety is not within a dermatologists scope of practice. The better treatments for those conditions are seeking out a psychologist or psychiatrist, who will most definitely NOT recommend tanning but if light therapy is part of the treatment then they will recommend a light box for that, not a tanning bed.

    You're recommending medicine to prevent wrinkles, such as a retinoid, however do we really need to talk about the risks with using retinoids? There are also medicines that you can take to treat acne, psoriasis, and eczema. I have family members who suffer from vitiligo and they're told to be EXTREMELY careful about sun protection all year round.

    Tanning does NOT prevent breast cancer sweetheart! Breast cancers are often genetic and there is NOTHING that tanning will do to prevent something that is in your genes.
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    right here! i think you should just embrace your paleness. i get the occasional compliment on how nice my skin look, and i think it's because i stay out of the sun. every morning i apply two layers of spf 15 moisturizer and then i apply bare minerals foundation with spf 15.
  • jennajosephine
    jennajosephine Posts: 85 Member
    I am not promoting tanning. I said I tan, yes. I do enjoy it. that's my opinion. you heard just as many risks from me as benefits.
  • jennajosephine
    jennajosephine Posts: 85 Member
    You guys need to do some research.

    I work for a dermatologist.
    Yes, there are risks to tanning, including increased risk to skin cancers, and wrinkles, but there are many benefits as well.
    Tanning can help with skin disorders such as acne, psoriasis, vitiligo, and eczema, it can also help with emotional disorders as well, including anxiety, depression, stress, and self confidence.
    Tanning can ALSO help prevent other cancers, such as breast cancer, and increase vitamin D levels, which many people have a deficiency.


    There are medicines that can help prevent wrinkles. Any cream or ointment that has a retinoid in it can help stop wrinkles. And moisturizing is key to nice soft skin regardless of color.

    For me, the benefits outweigh the risk.

    I sure hope you're not the nurse in that clinic and this is not what your doctor is teaching his patients. I am a nurse and everything you said is so freakin scary it is unreal. For one thing, treating psychiatric issues such as depression, stress, and anxiety is not within a dermatologists scope of practice. The better treatments for those conditions are seeking out a psychologist or psychiatrist, who will most definitely NOT recommend tanning but if light therapy is part of the treatment then they will recommend a light box for that, not a tanning bed.

    You're recommending medicine to prevent wrinkles, such as a retinoid, however do we really need to talk about the risks with using retinoids? There are also medicines that you can take to treat acne, psoriasis, and eczema. I have family members who suffer from vitiligo and they're told to be EXTREMELY careful about sun protection all year round.

    Tanning does NOT prevent breast cancer sweetheart! Breast cancers are often genetic and there is NOTHING that tanning will do to prevent something that is in your genes.


    Oh no SWEETIE, I don't work at a clinic, it's a private practice.
    I did NOT say tanning PREVENTS breast cancer. I said it HELPS prevent breast cancer.

    There is a retinoid in EVERY single acne medicine you can get, unless it is over the counter. I understand retinoids do make your skin sun-sensitive, and if you are using a medicine that has one, you should be extremely careful about being in sunlight in any form.

    Any patient with psoriasis or vitiligo should be using uvb light treatment, aka lightbox, as that is the best way to treat MOST cases. Vitilgo is most commonly treated by lightbox, so i don't know why your doctor would be telling you to stay away from the sun, it that is your only diagnosis. If a person with psoriasis can't get their health insurance to cover lightbox treatments, which can be upwards of $30 as a aselfpay visit. (and at 1-3 visits per WEEK, who can afford that?) Where do you think those patients go? dingdingding, tanning salons!

    i agree a person with an emotion or mental issue should be seeing a specialist that fits their needs, but like i said, tanning beds CAN be used to help fight those issues.

    And you are absolutely correct in the assumption that no dermatologist would ever PROMOTE going to a tanning bed, they would also be able to tell you everything I just did.
  • TriforceRaven
    TriforceRaven Posts: 115 Member
    I'm extremely pale. A few years ago in 6th grade, I put some baby powder on my cheekbones because it looked more natural than blush. I'm "see-your-veins" pale. The "you can tell I haven't slept more than an hour or two a night because I'm so pale and I have dark circles under my eyes". But you know what? I absolutely love it. The one thing I like about being sick is getting even PALER and my skin getting a grey-like tint to it. I'm not sure why, but I've always thought beautiful snow white skin looked prettier than unnaturally tanned skin. I also like those big poofy dresses and bussels. *maybe I should have lived in the Victorian era....OH PLEASE!* During the summer I do EVERYTHING possible not to get sun on me. Long sleeve clothes anytime I go out, usually all black, black parasol, goggles, layers and layers of spf 70, hats, everything! I've gotten some horrible 2nd degree burns on my shoulders from sunburn and I burn very very easily. Even with all of this. But the good thing is that I'm usually pretty cool in the summer anyway, so the thick layers of clothing are nice, and I am very sensitive to bright sunlight (horrible migraines after just an hour). My family and friends joke all the time about me being "a zombie/dead/a vampire/one of those pretty royal Victorian girls/a ghostie" and I love it.

    Some people are really ashamed of their pale skin, or think spray tans or tanning beds are better. Honestly, I think you should embrace your pale skin. It's beautiful! :)

    (I'm not saying that tanning is bad, but I just don't like doing it. Not even naturally. What I'm saying is that /I/ love pale skin and wish more people would embrace it, but if you like tanning, well, that's your thing. And if you are naturally swarthy, it's usually very pretty as well. <3)
  • im not going to tan my whole life! only while i have the body i want and deserve.
  • Me too White as a sheet lol Your not alone
  • sarah307
    sarah307 Posts: 1,363 Member
    pale is the new tan ;)

    i am anti- tanning beds!!! embrace the paleness lol
  • smlamb33
    smlamb33 Posts: 342 Member
    We actually love and embrace our paleness! LOL! It's part of our irish-austrian heritage. In fact, we often tell people that we are clear not pale! LOL! Plus, we have a history of melanoma on both sides of our family so we avoid the sun. Well, at least that's what we tell people so they won't suspect that we are really vampires! LOL! I have actually had people ask me if I am a vampire. I always respond by telling them, "If I were a vampire, would I have wrinkles?" :laugh:
  • Moonbyebye
    Moonbyebye Posts: 180 Member
    I am and always have been SO pale. I don't care to tan either. Rock it!
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