Trust a Pessimist?

i was going to answer, but does really...whats the point, we're all gonna die one day

You before me

Hm, that is an interesting question and I'm going to spit-ball an answer on a high level since I can't think of a specific example and you didn't give one.

Trust is more of an earned thing based on behavior IMHO but I guess there is always a basic amount of trust built when one starts a relationship of some sort with another person (be it personal or business). I would think the optomist would be likely to trust pretty much everyone at first. While the pessimist would be more wary and less likely to to trust anyone.

However, I think as the optimist and pessimist develop their relationship over time, they can build more trust (or lose trust if there are negative actions) based on their others behavior.

Optimism and pessimism are two sides of the same false coin. One has to strike a balance that says that obstacles ARE going to show up BUT they can be overcome. Optimists in my experience tend to trick their minds into the "positive" attitude that the obstacles aren't even there, and pessimists see nothing but obstacles. What's the term for that right balance? Self-confidence. Optimists fake it; pessimists fear it. But the self-confident man or woman strides forward with a smile, expecting neither the worst nor the best; instead he expects his work to pay off, and he relies on his own effort to do it. Sure, I think an optimist and a pessimist can be friendly and even develop trust, because misery loves company, whether it's wearing a happy-go-lucky cheese-eating grin or a jittery frown. But the self-confident man often has little use for either of them, and strides past them fairly quickly.