what makes a man sexy?

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  • SixPackIsMyGoal
    SixPackIsMyGoal Posts: 121 Member
    Not that you asked, but for me those same qualities make a woman sexy; eyes, confidence, smile, sense of humor.
  • karenfatbum
    karenfatbum Posts: 4
    A man who listens, intently and responds to me. Plus twinkling eys, a nice smile, toned abs, tight faded blue jeans, well kept feet and an optimistic outlook on life. (I don't want much do?)
  • realme56
    realme56 Posts: 1,093 Member
    A guy that is good looking but dumb or arrogant is good for only brief ( like do it then go sleep at your own place) encounters. Humorous, patience and the ability to carry a conversation in varied settings is for the long run. Men and women need to keep the cologne to a minimum, just clean and natural.
  • Dawna954
    Dawna954 Posts: 183 Member
    I find sweat extremely sexy. A guy chopping wood or just getting a good burn on at the gym covered in sweat.....WOWZA! Yup that does it for me.

    My preference, a guy who has a great smile and is tall. I am 5'8" so with a pair of nice heals, I tower. My guy is 6'4 with broad shoulders and a smile that when I met him knocked my socks off!
  • jubennett27
    jubennett27 Posts: 12 Member
    i find intelligience sexy, and dark hair and eyes

    i am crushing on Professor Brian Cox at the moment haha :)
  • jubennett27
    jubennett27 Posts: 12 Member
    Now the " geek " side of me comes out ... Conversation skills are probably the most important, as well as intelligence level. He could have the best body out there, but when he opens his mouth and sounds like a complete moron .... I am soooooo not interested ! Just sayin' ... Carry on with the body parts ladies. :wink:

    I'm feeling that :) i love geeks
  • jubennett27
    jubennett27 Posts: 12 Member
    i think we all know that the answer lies within his pants.

    Really, I think it's the motion of the ocean, not the size of the ship. Granted, if you're telling me that you have the Titanic and it turns out to be an inflatable boat, I'm going to be mad. So, I guess the size of the ship does matter, but mainly the motion of the ocean.

    ahahahahahahaha
  • Rays_Wife
    Rays_Wife Posts: 1,173 Member
    What makes a man sexy? Confidence, Intelligence and Respect for others. Don't really care about the outside wrapping, although that can definitely be a plus ;-)
  • jill___
    jill___ Posts: 188 Member
    Now the " geek " side of me comes out ... Conversation skills are probably the most important, as well as intelligence level. He could have the best body out there, but when he opens his mouth and sounds like a complete moron .... I am soooooo not interested ! Just sayin' ... Carry on with the body parts ladies. :wink:

    I couldn't agree more!!!!!
  • CouchSpud
    CouchSpud Posts: 557 Member
    Now the " geek " side of me comes out ... Conversation skills are probably the most important, as well as intelligence level. He could have the best body out there, but when he opens his mouth and sounds like a complete moron .... I am soooooo not interested ! Just sayin' ... Carry on with the body parts ladies. :wink:

    I couldn't agree more!!!!!

    I second that!
    Good looks only count for about ten seconds lol
  • nikihampton
    nikihampton Posts: 62 Member
    Physically I like the stomach area. My hubby is naturally thin (of course he is lol) and has a tattoo on his abs. Totally hot! Personality wise he balances me and as strange as it may sound, someone who can stand up to me occasionally. :) I am definitely a dominate personality and he lets me rule my little roost, but definitely speaks up when he can stand my chatter no more. lol
  • nikihampton
    nikihampton Posts: 62 Member
    What makes a man sexy? Confidence, Intelligence and Respect for others. Don't really care about the outside wrapping, although that can definitely be a plus ;-)

    Respect is such a big one! I've been in some really bad relationships and from the second I met my husband I felt safe and nurtured. He respects my intelligence, as a person, a mother and is proud of me as a wife. He supports my running and tells people he adores me. Now that's he home permanently, he carries most of the house and child work while I work at home. Can't ask for more than that.
  • LeanerBeef
    LeanerBeef Posts: 1,432 Member
    No one ever says short, portly men.....It's amazing I'm not still a virgin. :ohwell:

    P.S. I hate the word portly!
  • Tonnina
    Tonnina Posts: 979 Member
    Personally, I like my man with as few muscles showing as possible. I like strength but HATE the sight of muscles. If you got guns, I'm leaving. I like my man to be funny, smart, respectful, and of course kind, but not just kind to me, kind to animals and fond of them as well. My husband is all those things and more. I think that's sexy!
  • sirabe
    sirabe Posts: 294 Member
    back and booty
  • Scoobies100
    Scoobies100 Posts: 82
    Big shoulders, trim waist and a smooth skin. I once dated a guy that used cocoa butter on his skin every day, he had the sexiest skin ever!

    I also like big hands (no pun intended! :tongue: )
  • dreamzvt
    dreamzvt Posts: 96
    A quiet confidence without arrogance and being self-righteous.
    Simple, clean guy with a simple, clean wardrobe.
    Being a gentleman without kissing a**.
    A stable job.
    A tiny dab of cologne enough to be smelled when close up...not halfway across the room.

    All of the above, I couldn't have said it better myself :)
  • Scoobies100
    Scoobies100 Posts: 82
    Oh yeah and I have a huge thing about stubble and longish hair.
  • PrincessLou71186
    PrincessLou71186 Posts: 741 Member
    I find eyes and attitude make a man sexy, a 'rough and ready' appeal won't hurt either and neither will an Irish accent.

    So lucky to be living in Ireland. Lol.
  • moniquelessard
    moniquelessard Posts: 418
    Could care less about muscles, but flabby and lazy are turn-offs. Why do I find my boyfriend sexy? He fixes things without me having to ask more than once (he's so handy). He is like a father to my daughter and asks nothing in return. He will go out and start my car and clean off the snow in the winter without me asking. He doesn't go to the gym, but supports that I do go. He doesn't nag me. He makes me tea if I'm sad. If we're out shopping, he holds my hand or puts his hand on my back. He smells nice. His hair is short and clean cut. He initiates sex often and says "I love you" during the act. He refused to leave my side when I was recently sent to the hospital. Sexy is a LOT about how someone makes you feel when you are with them.. He makes me feel sexy, and that makes him sexy. :)
  • Rays_Wife
    Rays_Wife Posts: 1,173 Member
    Could care less about muscles, but flabby and lazy are turn-offs. Why do I find my boyfriend sexy? He fixes things without me having to ask more than once (he's so handy). He is like a father to my daughter and asks nothing in return. He will go out and start my car and clean off the snow in the winter without me asking. He doesn't go to the gym, but supports that I do go. He doesn't nag me. He makes me tea if I'm sad. If we're out shopping, he holds my hand or puts his hand on my back. He smells nice. His hair is short and clean cut. He initiates sex often and says "I love you" during the act. He refused to leave my side when I was recently sent to the hospital. Sexy is a LOT about how someone makes you feel when you are with them.. He makes me feel sexy, and that makes him sexy. :)

    YES TOTALLY!!! Sounds like you have a great catch don't let him go!
  • Jennjenn1974
    Jennjenn1974 Posts: 350 Member
    Jeans
    Barefeet
    No shirt


    Does me in every time :love:
  • NeedANewFocus
    NeedANewFocus Posts: 898 Member
    interesting.....one day i might meet one of these standards.
  • Kagard11
    Kagard11 Posts: 396 Member
    Tall, funny, confident, does not have to be jacked, just nice build - proportionate.
  • irenep22
    irenep22 Posts: 59
    10000%
  • Saruman_w
    Saruman_w Posts: 1,531 Member
    I'm taking notes. Carry on
  • zinok
    zinok Posts: 185
    His skill with a flogger.
  • Aleyonce
    Aleyonce Posts: 43 Member
    His smile and how he carries himself. Also if a guy smells good its a big plus for me!
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    Bold (initiates things, etc) and chivalry with a great personality is super sexy :love:

    oh and I think men who has nice smiles is sexy :love: :love: :love: :love:
  • BigRich822
    BigRich822 Posts: 681
    i think we all know that the answer lies within his pants.

    Well Im out
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