Looking for friends who need to lose 75 to 100 pounds!

I need to lose 100 to be at my ideal weight. I don't even understand how I could let myself go so bad to have to lose 100. I've tried using this site, but I end up getting so obsessed with the counting that I worry about everything I eat. I stay stressed counting, but if I don't, I gain weight. I wish there was a way to make it fun. I'm starting with the food first, and then I'm gonna add the exercise next week. I feel like if I just jump into a full diet and exercise program, I'll just become frustrated and quit again.

My mom lost 100 pounds taking pills and doing nothing else. She didn't exercise at all. She walks around making fun of fat people and telling people that all you need to do is just exercise, when she cheated her way through. About 10 years ago, she lost 85 pounds through exercise and diet, but gained all of it back plus more before she started using pills. But she pretends like the pills don't exist and just tells me that working out is the key. There is nothing more discouraging that someone who took a shortcut to lose weight, telling you that you need to do this and that.

I really want to do things right and I just get frustrated because I feel hungry a lot but I know that if I eat, I'll be single and lonely and the "fat girl" out of my friends forever. I'm already starting to develop bad habits like not eating the full1200. My mom brags about eating maybe 500, so then I feel like a pig if I'm technically eating double what she eats. I'm pretty sure at this point that my mom is anorexic, but on the other hand, she doesn't have to answer to anything being extremely skinny while I am constantly scrutinized for being big.

I just...truly don't feel happy right now. I know that day by day I'm slowly losing weight, but I feel the frustration coming already. I have horrible social anxiety and my aunt wants me to go the gym with her. She doesn't understand that I just can't go around all of those people. It's truly not because I'm lazy. I can workout fine at home. I'm just scared to death of the stares and the laughing. I feel trapped in this body. All I want to do now is just sleep the hunger pains away. I really need friends. My mom is not helping at all, and my aunt is a fad diet queen, so I don't want to talk to her about anything.

Sorry for the rant, but I'm trying anything right now to keep my mind off eating.

I am with ya

I need to lose 60Lbs, but I just started so I dont know how to add friends or whatever else I need to do to keep in touch...LOL

I'm in!!! Let's chat! :happy:

hello,I am here if you need a friend on this journey I am with you. My goal weight loss may not be the same,but we have the same desire to lose weight. sign me up,

I would love to join the journey with you. Everyone in this thread can add me as a friend.

would love to join.

I am joining in on this Feel free to add me! These pounds have to go!

Hi there, I'm right there with you! I need to lose 84 pounds. Glad t have a new MFP friend. Let's do this!

I'm in. For me, if I break it down to five pound increments, it works better than looking at the total pounds. I try to get the next 5 off. Soon I realize I've lost more than I thought.

Just found this site and from what I have looked at, will definitely use it. I need to lose around 110 - 120 pounds, but need support. Went to visit my son's family last week in nc and could not play with my grandson as I would like to. Have been yo-yoing for many years. Want to do it right this time and change my life.

100lbs to lose here..add me!

I'm game...just add me.

Hello, I'm in the same boat as most of people in on this topic. I would like to add or be added by some people who have the same goals and ideals as myself. Feel Free to add ! Can't wait to see the support system this website has to give.

Thanks,

I'm in. I want to lose 100 to 110 lbs. add me if you like.