What's your biggest fear ?!

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  • Shanaedunn
    Shanaedunn Posts: 171 Member
    WOW I can almost pretend like nobody will know...

    I am afraid of never being able to know at 33 what I am susposed to do with my life. I am single and I am a mother but is it wrong to want to obtain my own success? Now I have a drive and the urge in my inner self but no clue which way I should go and I am deathly scared I wont figure it out...

    Also I have three boys and I am scared that I wont be enough for them that they will miss something and grow up with hurts and disappointments becasue of my mistakes in chosing mates....

    I am scared that I may have missed the boat and that I will never be a bride (in my 30's three children ummmm)...

    I am scared that I may give up on me and not make it to my goal (the negatives can get you sometimes)....

    WHOOOOOOO THAT WAS HARD AS *****
  • Court222010
    Court222010 Posts: 54
    I have an EXTREME needle phobia. That's actually one of the reasons I stay motivated to lose weight. Diabetes and other weight-related health problems run in my family and I need to do all that I can to avoid those. I cry when I even think about the possibility of having a disease such as diabetes where I'd have to give myself shots of insulin or test my blood sugar by pricking myself. AHHHH!! I hate the idea! :sad:
    SO, like I said, my needle phobia is motivating me to continue losing weight. I also never have to worry about becoming addicted to heroine! lol :tongue:
  • AllanMisner
    AllanMisner Posts: 4,140 Member
    Mannequins. They give me the creeps!
  • danigirl1011
    danigirl1011 Posts: 314 Member
    Being alone forever :(
  • Legalchica
    Legalchica Posts: 462
    That this is it and things will never change...
  • cheryl_egan
    cheryl_egan Posts: 7
    My husband's driving...really, really, for real....and death.
  • BlueEyedMomma88
    BlueEyedMomma88 Posts: 558 Member
    Something happening to my children. I think all parents have that fear, most of us just don't want to admit it.

    Other than that it's probably a tie between bugs and heights.

    ^^^^ THIS EXACTALLY!
  • CynthiaCollin
    CynthiaCollin Posts: 406 Member
    MY BIGGEST FEAR : I am scared of dying and leaving my children behind. It frightens me to think as well how I am going to die and when. I am even more terrified of something happening to my beautiful girls....cause that would surely kill me. Fear that something will happen to my husband and I would be without my soul mate breaks my heart just at the thought of it..... They are my life..... I guess death and the unknown is something almost paralyzing to me.

    FYI....spiders are creepy and crawly....but we weigh a zillion times more than them and they are pretty easy to squish.... I used to be afraid but got over it when I was living alone and realized if I didn`t kill them then I would have to live with them..... lol.... my 3 year old squishes her own bugs and it usually quite proud of herself....lol....

    I used to be petrified of needles and then taught myself not to be.... I realized that there are many more scary things than that and needles can save your life either by finding out what is wrong with you are giving you the medecine that makes you better.

    Failure used to be a fear, but then realized that as long as I do my best everyday that I have not failed.

    Some fears are easy to work on.... it is an everyday fight not to let fear take over. One day at a time....one fear at a time... I will prevail!
  • Slove009
    Slove009 Posts: 364 Member
    These are my "silly" fears, because to me, I think I'm too old to be as freaked out about it as I am sometimes
    1. The dark, or rather the things in the dark. I attribute this to my love of zombie movies and anything paranormal. I want to see things coming at me.
    2. Elevators. Have had unexplained nightmares of them for as long as I can remember.........
    3. Freeway/Highway Overpasses. The tall ones. I mean higher than some buildings tall. I have unexplained nightmares of them too.....

    Real fears:
    1. Dying a horrible death: ex: mangled in a car wreck and bleed to death, bit by a poisinous snake/spider, drowning, burning, eaten alive. Anything similar to that.
    2. Marriage not making it/infedelity of spouse (Don't have any serious problems, just seen so many others collapse)
    3. The world actually ending this year. It's kinda silly, unless it actually happens. What if it does? I guess we all die. If it doesn't we can make a T-Shirt saying we survived!
  • anna_love
    anna_love Posts: 177
    to gain back weigh :( and be fat forever .....
  • Minnesnowtagurl
    Minnesnowtagurl Posts: 406 Member
    - Spiders!! Too many legs
    - Centipedes!!! WAYYY TOOO MANY MORE LEGS
    - Unemployment
    - Debt
    - Gaining my weight back
  • Quasita
    Quasita Posts: 1,530 Member
    DEATH
    Spiders, but only the little ones
    Adult dogs' mouths
    Oops pregnancy
  • elimendoza31
    elimendoza31 Posts: 359 Member
    Gaining all my weight back.... and falling for my ex again....:frown:
  • Pete1471
    Pete1471 Posts: 126 Member
    Succeeding in losing the weight and being about the "correct size,"
  • chauser1022
    chauser1022 Posts: 33
    I thought of more...falling for another "fixer-upper", disappointing people AND escalators...one tried to eat me when I was little.
  • cantjustcant
    cantjustcant Posts: 1,027 Member
    I too have an aversion to even numbers or symetry if it is the same on both sides....can be two smaller on one side and one larger on the other but not the same and always an odd number!

    I hate bridges!!!!

    I am afraid of myself with TOM!!!!

    There is a local mall here called the Greene....it's like a little village of shops....it creeps me out.
  • skittybang
    skittybang Posts: 1,525 Member
    Dying a virgin
  • JDMPWR
    JDMPWR Posts: 1,863 Member
    Not getting to travel to all the places I dream of before I die.
  • feduh86
    feduh86 Posts: 790 Member
    to gain back weigh :( ...

    I agree with this one! (as well as others) ... just the thought of putting all the hard work in this and failing to keep it off! =(
  • ShapingAgnes
    ShapingAgnes Posts: 45 Member
    Working my *kitten* off and Not getting accepted into vet school. I want to become a DVM. Gaining my weight back, I cant imagin starting over again.
  • tangie82
    tangie82 Posts: 285 Member
    The other, is that I will FINALLY get to my goal weight after trying for 20 years, only to die the next day.

    I kind of have this same fear. Weird, but would so be my luck.
  • Johnny_Castle
    Johnny_Castle Posts: 159
    Being falsely accused and convicted of a horrible crime I didn't do
  • feduh86
    feduh86 Posts: 790 Member
    Being falsely accused and convicted of a horrible crime I didn't do

    That would definitely be scary and what can you even do about it if it has gone to the point of guilty conviction! =(
  • Noki1024
    Noki1024 Posts: 302
    I almost drowned when I was a kid so my biggest fear is having one of my kids drown.
  • Cindy311
    Cindy311 Posts: 780 Member
    Farm animals, drowning, losing the ones I love. I also don't care for tunnels :0/
  • boomboom011
    boomboom011 Posts: 1,459
    Being falsely accused and convicted of a horrible crime I didn't do

    yes this and something happening to my kids or my husband.

    im also scared of michael myers
  • Luvlynamazing
    Luvlynamazing Posts: 58
    Losing my Mom... she is the lifeblood of our whole family structure and I cannot picture this world without her in it.

    Falling out of love with my husband... I can't fathom it happening at the present moment, but it happens to so many couples and it scares me to think that one day I could wake up and the love that we have would not be there.


    That I will never be a mom....
  • Pollart77
    Pollart77 Posts: 264 Member
    Prisoners (only when they are in orange or black and white striped jumped suites)

    and snakes or anything that even looks like a snake such as worms!
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    i don't have an answer for this...
  • feduh86
    feduh86 Posts: 790 Member
    i don't have an answer for this...

    No fears!? Quite the tough guy, wish I was like that! =)
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