I wanna go from cute to HOT asap!

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  • Helloitsdan
    Helloitsdan Posts: 5,564 Member
    SO, I'm 26 and single and meet a lot of guys and I've been told I'd be a perfect catch if I lost weight...I'm sure many people feel the same way...and this probably jacked up thinking, but sometimes I want to find a guy NOW while I'm a little overweight because I have this huge fear I'll lose all this weight..find the perfect guy...and gain weight back and hell dump my *kitten*. Crazy right? I want that genuine heartfelt guy who would like me no matter what....Do i sound nuts? Does anyone else agree?

    I bet you are perfect the way you are.
  • MyFeistyEvolution
    MyFeistyEvolution Posts: 1,014 Member
    you don't want a guy that only loves you if you're a certain body type. I totally agree with that.

    This. There is so much more to is...you are beautiful...there is definitely a perfect guy out there that will like you no matter what your weight. Get healthy for you and to be comfortable, but don't let any guy dictate that.
  • cindy4mica
    cindy4mica Posts: 777 Member
    You don't sound nuts, however, if you're with a man who will leave you based on your size, you really shouldn't be with him anyway - you deserve better.
  • My boyfriend loves my body, he doesn't want me to lose weight, but I want to get healthy and fit for me. I want all the curves in the right places lol. You'll meet a guy who loves every last inch of you and your body. There's good guys out there I promise:)
  • xosmsox
    xosmsox Posts: 119
    I was 120 when I met my hubby. Boy was I sexy (sigh). I am now almost 150 (:sad: ) and not so sexy but I'm still with the hubby. He loves me for me, not what I look like. And I'm sure you'll find the same. You're totally in the right to feel the way you do because I totally question how my hubby can still find me attractive when even I don't, but he does :smile: and I love him all the more for it.

    You must have a great guy to go with those great boobs! Haha
  • twanthe1
    twanthe1 Posts: 407
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  • jsherrill92
    jsherrill92 Posts: 775 Member
    Anyone saying that'd you'd be a catch after losing weight didn't notice your'e a catch right now. People are stupid these days.
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