Ladies: Do you weigh more than your S.O.?

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  • Mandypt
    Mandypt Posts: 173 Member
    uh yeah :(:grumble:

    me too girl
  • Fayve
    Fayve Posts: 406 Member
    Fortunately, no. That's actually something I always have in the back of my head as motivation to stop gaining weight (having a hard time at it lately). He's about half a foot taller than me, and about 15-20 lbs heavier. So... as far as BMI goes, yes. Purely numbers? Nope!
  • getfitmama22
    getfitmama22 Posts: 5
    My man is a Mix Martial Arts fighter. Like if you know what the UFC is. That is what he does. He has like 5% body weight. I had a baby just 6 months ago and im trying to get back into shape.
  • Weezieishness
    Weezieishness Posts: 61 Member
    Yeah, I weigh more than my boyfriend, by probably about 20 kg, not sure because he never weighs himself. But he's only slightly taller than me, and his whole family are naturally very skinny, so I figure it's to be expected.
  • Mandypt
    Mandypt Posts: 173 Member
    I got 70 lbs more than him... oddly, it doesn't show that much.. I look like i only weigh about 40 more than him.
  • BerryH
    BerryH Posts: 4,698 Member
    I have weighed more than my SO of the moment for about 20 years - even when I was super skinny I was married to an even skinnier bloke! However, my current squeeze has done me a favour and met me half-way, so we're both 12 stone now, having approached it from different directions :tongue:
  • Elf_Princess1210
    Elf_Princess1210 Posts: 895 Member
    Even at my heaviest my S.O. outweighed me by 36 lbs. He is also 6'4 and built like a brick sh**house. He is now 68 lbs heavier than I am at the moment and the gap continues to grow. Ideally he should outweigh me by 200 lbs but since he wants me curvy I'm going for 145 lbs as my ultimate goal.
  • lisa28115
    lisa28115 Posts: 17,271 Member
    ME TOO!!!:embarassed:
  • lisa28115
    lisa28115 Posts: 17,271 Member
    OMG, Yes I do. He isn't very tall, 5ft 9 1/2" (I'm not allowed to forget about the 1/2!) and weighs about 154, but that's probably all muscle. (Even his butt is hard!)

    I weigh 215lbs so A LOT more than him. when I first met him I weighed 133lbs, so a HUGE difference. He knows I have to lose weigh but thinks it's about 28lbs, little does he know. (I'm told I don't look how heavy I am - I think people are just trying to be nice!)

    Bedroom activity is the worse - I used to be more of a show off but now it's lights out and under the duvet! Very romantic and sexy! Not!

    Need to get back to where I used to be. x



    I FEEL YOUR PAIN....
  • londanfudd4eva
    londanfudd4eva Posts: 138
    yes i weigh 168 and he weighs what i want to weigh 140! he has actually gained a little because he has always been slim.:happy: but im not worried im on my way back down.
  • Alachofra15
    Alachofra15 Posts: 117 Member
    Have never weighed more but I think we were pretty close when we first started dating. Maybe 12lbs apart then - but I've lost a few and he's gained a few in muscle - so we're now about 22lbs apart
  • InstantSunshine
    InstantSunshine Posts: 355 Member
    No S.O. for me, but I'm joined on my weight-loss mission by my boss at work, who's taller than me by a long way and has a stocky build.

    He gets excited and likes to tell me his current weight, as he's happy to have lost. I keep my trap shut as I weigh about a stone more than he does at any given time and just don't want all the comments - you know: "But you can't weigh that much! I'm so much taller than you!" etc...

    It's just so embarrassing. I don't mind telling him if I've lost 2lbs, but I won't give him any current figures. I just evade the question - he must have noticed. I'm probably doing more harm than good; I'm sure that by being evasive, it's only drawing attention to it and he's now thinking "My god, she must be a real salad dodger!"
  • sandown12
    sandown12 Posts: 648 Member
    yes my guys 5ft 10 weights 154lbs and im 5ft 2 and weigh 229lbs hes very slim and eats v high calories but hes a construction worker
  • leika79
    leika79 Posts: 114
    i brought some new scales yesterday and was shocked that i weighed 28lb more than my other half :sad: .....even with his beer belly! i have now upped my game and its given me all the motivation i need to reach my goal!!!!!
  • katloaf
    katloaf Posts: 26
    I do, by about 10kg. But he is terribly underweight due to a medical disorder and also constantly forgets to eat, so it's OK - I have no desire to be that skinny.
  • SLT01
    SLT01 Posts: 58
    Yes I do, but he loves me just the way I am. I just want to wear his clothes, lol!!
  • brighteyesxluv
    brighteyesxluv Posts: 334 Member
    yes he is 5'7 and 147 and last weight in i was 5'6 and 148.8..yayy im catching up!! before he would be 140 and i was about 153...i was embarrased cuz in my family thats like not acceptable to weigh more than your SO, but...im gonna be skinnier soon enough :)
  • Jayneoh
    Jayneoh Posts: 20
    my partner is the exact same weight as me! *sob!!!*
  • katkins3
    katkins3 Posts: 1,359 Member
    I am 5'2" and weigh 180 pounds, but my husband is 5'10" and weighs 141 pounds. This doesn't seem to bother him, but bugs the snivers out of me. My goal is to see 130, but I don't want to go below 10% body fat, (which he is and it has causes him medical problems).
  • Lilmelollipop
    Lilmelollipop Posts: 2
    Yes, and I probably always will be... he is both smaller than me in height and is a lot smaller frame wise as well. Realistically, I could possibly weigh the same as him (a good year down the line) if I really stuck to my healthy eating past my initial target, but I haven't yet decided whether i'm going to go that far yet!
  • jesusislove1526
    jesusislove1526 Posts: 442 Member
    Yes, I do by 30 pounds right now, but not for long!
  • Noki1024
    Noki1024 Posts: 302
    Unfortunately I do weigh more than him by about 30 pounds....but won't be like that for long!
  • sgm73
    sgm73 Posts: 16 Member
    Yep--but not for long! I'm 13 pounds heavier.
  • speedycakes
    speedycakes Posts: 152 Member
    Nope, he's got about 100 pounds on me.
  • Flissbo
    Flissbo Posts: 302 Member
    I used to but now I am 2 stone lighter than him :-))) I've shrunk, he hasn't!! Will even let him pick me up now haha!!
  • justle
    justle Posts: 275 Member
    when i first started losing weight - yes at 220lbs i weighed the same as my husband.

    he then gained some (and is now 227 after losing 14lbs yay!) and i'm now down to 166lbs only 21lbs from goal !
  • CynthiaS
    CynthiaS Posts: 208 Member
    not when we got married but after a few years......I out weigh him by 5lbs ugh :(
  • zlem
    zlem Posts: 92
    not anymore - but I was the heavier one for a few years!
    Now we're both losing weight, at pretty much the same rate - he's constantly 5kg heavier tho we've both lost 12kg each since early December.
    So no slacking off for me! can't let him pass me haha.
  • itsanot
    itsanot Posts: 89 Member
    Not only am I heavier then him by about 150 pounds I'm also 2 inches taller! He is naturally a thin person with a high metabolism! Only once have I seen him at 155 lbs but that was after being flat on his back for 21 days in the hospital(broken leg, 5 surgeries later). Took him less then a month to be back down to about 132 pounds. He was a 27 inch waist when we met he wears a 32 now!
  • DQMD
    DQMD Posts: 193
    Nope he is about 50 lbs heavier than I am. When I am at my goal weight of 130-135 it will be more. He wants to get down to 200. He is 6"4...I am 5"5. We have decided that I can wear 6" heels and still not be as tall as him. His 14 year old daughter is taller than me.
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