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  • feduh86
    feduh86 Posts: 790 Member
    Doooo ittt! Sounds like he likes you anyway so thats even more perfect! Everything happens for a reason and here you are with his number in the palm of your hands! =)

    (Sorry, also not a boy lol)
  • Bradozzz85
    Bradozzz85 Posts: 46
    For a species that has a life expectancy of less than 100 years, we sure let a lot of trivial **** worry us, call him
  • feduh86
    feduh86 Posts: 790 Member
    For a species that has a life expectancy of less than 100 years, we sure let a lot of trivial **** worry us, call him

    Lool well said! =P
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    Did she explain the situation to him and he offered his number? Or did she know him and get the number from her phone book?
    That seriously matters.
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,831 Member
    OMG chick, do it! He obviously likes you. Go for it!

    I'm with the majority here.. nothing ventured nothing gained, can't hurt, worst he can do is say no, why not let him know you're open to taking him out, etc...

    BUT... I want to point out that there's nothing you wrote that would make me think he obviously likes you. Guys flirt all the time (and even connect with my son) without liking me more than friendship or a passing diversion (at work, gym, church even). Flirting is fun and makes the day go by faster. Flirting with no taking it to the next level means nothing to me. Even asking for my number means nothing to me anymore, because a lot of guys never follow-through (as if getting the number alone is enough of a victory).

    It's only "obvious" that he likes you when he takes action, like asks you out.
  • _Ben
    _Ben Posts: 1,608 Member
    Call him imho
  • Longbowgilly
    Longbowgilly Posts: 262 Member
    Well, have you called him yet?
    There are people here who need to know what happened!!!!:laugh:
  • jenlb99
    jenlb99 Posts: 213 Member
    Here's the female perspective from someone who's had it NOT work in her favour:

    He was in my mind all the time, and so I told him (via text -- I'm ridiculously shy when it comes to this stuff). I assumed he was interested because he flirted with me all the time, but he didn't respond to my text. Guess what? I DON'T REGRET IT. Actually, quite the opposite! lol All that stress, all the "what ifs", etc. are gone, and now I know.

    I could have spent these past three months (since telling him) thinking about him and having the whole "I like you" thing going around and around in my head...but I don't.

    Ontop of it all, I'm proud of myself for actually DOING it. That was HUUUGGGEE for me, but in retrospect, it was nothing. Just a few words. Just a simple expression of something I couldn't help but feel. He knows what it's like; I think sometimes men face rejection more than women...at least in the dating world.

    So would I do it again? Absolutely no question...and I'd do it sooner (than the 2 1/2 years it took me to).

    Go get him!! :drinker:
  • gabe_irun4coffee
    gabe_irun4coffee Posts: 230 Member
    Don't do it! If he's interested he'll find you. Continue to be nice to him and act interested, but if you chase after him you'll be chasing him forever. Guys always want what they can't have.
  • hedgiie
    hedgiie Posts: 1,226 Member
    this is the type of situation which could hunt you if you don't do it. better do it and see how it goes.
  • RedHotChiliSteppers
    RedHotChiliSteppers Posts: 75 Member
    Wait does he know you have his number?? A little bit weird in my opinion. Just go approach him. it will be better than being like hey im that girl from the gym on the phone and on the date afterwards.
  • RedHotChiliSteppers
    RedHotChiliSteppers Posts: 75 Member
    btw what does that mean he connected with your daughter?! ha
  • mishelnkiki
    mishelnkiki Posts: 775 Member
    For those wondering, I did txt him! He never asked how I got his number and was very cool about it! We txt all night Sunday, unfortunately about nothing more then the game. We haven't talked since. I figure he has my number now and if interested, will use it! I made initial contact, its now on him.
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