Question for MEN (stretch marks)

Bikini_Bound150
Bikini_Bound150 Posts: 461 Member
edited November 9 in Health and Weight Loss
What do men think when you're getting naked with a woman and she has stretch marks?

Whether she is a "big" girl now, after losing a lot of weight, or after having a baby we still have stretch marks that NEVER go away!
When it's your own wife, I'm sure it's different because you love them. But what if it's a girl friend or whatever? Does it bother you guys? Do you even notice them?

Just curious! Thanks!
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  • jmorrisof2
    jmorrisof2 Posts: 108 Member
    Good Question- I want to know too! Lol.
  • chriscoates7025
    chriscoates7025 Posts: 131 Member
    Yes, I notice them. They are not attractive but not a turnoff. Just a fact of life.
  • Guitarjon
    Guitarjon Posts: 204 Member
    You'd have to be pretty shallow to mention them in a bad way. I have some myself and am majorly embarrassed by them, although they have got better over the years ( not as purple ) , I'd be horrified if anyone pointed them out to me in a negative way so I wouldn't do the same back if you get my drift.
  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,519 Member
    If I've got her naked, the last thing I'm worried about is stretch marks
  • EricNCSU
    EricNCSU Posts: 699 Member
    If I've got her naked, the last thing I'm worried about is stretch marks

    This,


    And the fact that it doesn't bother me anyway.
  • tameko2
    tameko2 Posts: 31,634 Member
    If I've got her naked, the last thing I'm worried about is stretch marks

    ^^^^^^

    Not very many guys get a woman naked and then think "hmm, look at that stretch mark, and oooh she has little love handles, gross"

    They think "NAKED LADY!!!!"
  • _SusieQ_
    _SusieQ_ Posts: 2,964 Member
    Why is this just for men? Lots of ladies like to see other ladies naked.
  • bfnp
    bfnp Posts: 58
    If I've got her naked, the last thing I'm worried about is stretch marks

    Also going to have to agree with this.
  • MrDude_1
    MrDude_1 Posts: 2,510 Member
    If I've got her naked, the last thing I'm worried about is stretch marks

    this is almost exactly what I was thinking when i read the first post... I wasnt going to say it that way, but its 100% true.
  • jeffrodgers1
    jeffrodgers1 Posts: 991 Member
    Like any of us are perfect? I've been married to the same woman for 10 years on February 15th. Those stretch marks are a road map of our life together.

    They are a testament that she bore my children and has lived with me.

    They are yet another reason to love my wife.
  • angraham2
    angraham2 Posts: 128
    Try using Bio-oil, it's a great product, cheap, and it really helps minimize the appearance of stretch marks. Yes, they are still there, you just don't notice them as much. I get it at costco, it's about $20, the bottle lasts for ever! also check out bio-oil.com
  • greenmanspirit
    greenmanspirit Posts: 75
    I don't care one bit about stretch marks. No one has perfect skin.
  • jrich1
    jrich1 Posts: 2,408 Member
    If I've got her naked, the last thing I'm worried about is stretch marks

    ding ding ding
  • AMIS456
    AMIS456 Posts: 34 Member
    This makes me think of Katt Williams - "Either she was a big girl and she got little, or she was a little girl and she got big" hehe ;)
  • Krizzle4Rizzle
    Krizzle4Rizzle Posts: 2,704 Member
    If I've got her naked, the last thing I'm worried about is stretch marks

    :flowerforyou:
  • albinogorilla
    albinogorilla Posts: 1,056 Member
    they will match mine..........
  • jmorrisof2
    jmorrisof2 Posts: 108 Member
    If I've got her naked, the last thing I'm worried about is stretch marks


    Love this! You get brownie points. I don't think women point out men and their beer bellys. We love them for who they are. Yes, we would all like our men to look like Adonis, but that isn't realistic.
  • SimplyShanRunning
    SimplyShanRunning Posts: 885 Member
    Why is this just for men? Lots of ladies like to see other ladies naked.

    ^^^^this

    and I don't mind them at all
  • InsaneMontae
    InsaneMontae Posts: 108 Member
    Like kat Williams sad in his stand up...Aint no man that got a girl naked about to stop because of stretch marks!! Either 1 or 2 things happened.. She was big and got skinny or she was skinny and got big!!!
  • ironband
    ironband Posts: 157 Member
    I can't say anything - I've got my own stretch marks from my teenage growth spurts. I might have to check out that bio oil stuff...

    But, yeah, the last thing I notice about my wife are her stretch marks (or her C-section scars, gall bladder scars, etc, for that matter)
  • PepeGreggerton
    PepeGreggerton Posts: 986 Member
    I only would date a woman that had children already because I have children, can't have more children, and wouldn't want to take that option away from someone.

    Stretch marks are a badge of honor. I find a woman that is wonderful with kids very attractive. Just like UponThisRock Said the last thing I am going to think about is her stretch marks.
  • Trail_Addict
    Trail_Addict Posts: 1,340 Member
    Ummm.... It's not the stretch marks I'd be staring at! :wink:
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    i think it's kind of like penis size... if you're to the point that you're seeing it, you're probably past the point where you're gonna say no. :flowerforyou:
  • InsaneMontae
    InsaneMontae Posts: 108 Member
    This makes me think of Katt Williams - "Either she was a big girl and she got little, or she was a little girl and she got big" hehe ;)


    haha i just posted this before i saw yours!!!
  • xtraKEWLbruva
    xtraKEWLbruva Posts: 5 Member
    I wouldn't notice because we'd be in the dark (or very, very dim lighting) so she couldn't notice mine!
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    My husband is wonderful, but he definitely doesn't like my stretch marks. He can ignore them "in the moment" but he has definitely expressed, if not disgust, then definite "I hope you're going to cover those things up" sentiments more than once.
    He's not really shallow in general, but he is with that. Either mine are worse than I thought or they really are repulsive.
  • LuckyAng
    LuckyAng Posts: 1,173 Member
    This makes me think of Katt Williams - "Either she was a big girl and she got little, or she was a little girl and she got big" hehe ;)

    Love this
  • Thomasm198
    Thomasm198 Posts: 3,189 Member
    If I've got her naked, the last thing I'm worried about is stretch marks

    ^^^^This. Stretch marks or scars are the last thing on a guys mind when he gets a woman naked.
  • loseweightjames
    loseweightjames Posts: 360 Member
    What do men think when you're getting naked with a woman and she has stretch marks?

    Whether she is a "big" girl now, after losing a lot of weight, or after having a baby we still have stretch marks that NEVER go away!
    When it's your own wife, I'm sure it's different because you love them. But what if it's a girl friend or whatever? Does it bother you guys? Do you even notice them?

    Just curious! Thanks!

    Oh you're a female posting this? Ah, I thought you were a guy for a second.

    um, not really a big deal, I mean of course it's better if they're not there but I can't imagine saying anything about it. Even my size 0 ex had stretch marks after getting to a whopping size 5 (sarcasm) while pregnant.
  • JDMPWR
    JDMPWR Posts: 1,863 Member
    they will match mine..........

    Exactly. Wish I was perfect but I prefer to be imperfect.
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