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  • andreacord
    andreacord Posts: 928
    50/50.
  • Natley
    Natley Posts: 58 Member
    Primarily the dumper - except my first love. I let that f*cker dump me three times before I pulled my head out of my *kitten*.

    haha, exactly the same with me!!
  • Nerdy_Rose
    Nerdy_Rose Posts: 1,277 Member
    5 boyfriends, technically.
    2 dumper.
    2 dumpee.
    1 still going.
  • Kissybiz
    Kissybiz Posts: 361 Member
    Usually it's an even split.... but they never really go away completely. I pretty much have remained friends.. sorta... except my ex-husband. I dumped his *kitten* and was glad to be rid of him.
  • jennifer282000
    jennifer282000 Posts: 128 Member
    Been with the same guy since 7th grade..so Neither one of the 2
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
    bout a 50/50 split
  • ryall70
    ryall70 Posts: 519 Member
    Not that I have had many relationships but I usually dump them and don't do second chances. Except once and he broke up with me to my face.... by text. And stupidly I went out with him again and he broke up with me by text again but no to my face.:ohwell:
  • SeptemberHalloween
    SeptemberHalloween Posts: 42
    I was the dumper in my old relationship, out with the old and... still waiting for the new!
  • ElementalMoe
    ElementalMoe Posts: 186 Member
    I was dumped once when I was 16. Since then I've left a trail of carnage in my wake. It's not my fault no one can live up to my unrealistic expectations. ;) ha. .
  • BoxOfficeTroll
    BoxOfficeTroll Posts: 21 Member
    Dumpee. Dangit! But, I'll admit I have a track record of picking horrible jerks.
  • sylvuz323
    sylvuz323 Posts: 468 Member
    I've had two long relationships and I was the dumper but when it comes to the dating or shorter relationships its been pretty even or mutual at times.
  • ajball90
    ajball90 Posts: 211 Member
    Mutual decision on one occasion. On the other occasion I was the one that did the dumping, but mainly because he was an *kitten* and doesnt know how to treat people right, so I just got in there and did it first before he could dump me or continue to treat me horribily for no reason at all.
  • jsherrill92
    jsherrill92 Posts: 775 Member
    I was the dumpee and I just haven't been able to get close to another girl since..
  • Mallory0418
    Mallory0418 Posts: 723 Member
    I was the dumper once...all other times I was the dumpee. Dumped for someone else...everytime. :sad:
  • seekingthepatienceofjob
    seekingthepatienceofjob Posts: 288 Member
    Most of the time, I do the dumping, though the select times I didn't, they completely broke my heart.

    It is what I was gonna say
  • rhce40
    rhce40 Posts: 201 Member
    i'm 50/50 so far
  • heresmyinsidevoice
    heresmyinsidevoice Posts: 311 Member
    In general, the dumper. I've been on the other end too, and that really makes someone feel like a bag of *kitten*. Nowadays I'm just staying away from the whole thing. I'm married to Richard Simmons.
  • Alma_Sana
    Alma_Sana Posts: 453 Member
    Dumper, I always seemed to pick guys who cheat.
  • StephShuttle
    StephShuttle Posts: 39 Member
    Usually I'm the dumper, but the only one that has ever counted made me the dumpee :(
    At least it kick started my first leg of weight loss! I will be positive about it!
  • MelissaT81
    MelissaT81 Posts: 123 Member
    I'm almost always the dumpee...but been the dumper a couple times. I can't seem to let my walls down
  • NeedANewFocus
    NeedANewFocus Posts: 898 Member
    i've been both over time.....getting your heart broken and having to break a heart are similar evils and ultimately depressing; for me anyway.
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    I had broke up with him.

    I only had one boyfriend ever so I don't have much history of break ups.
  • CoderGal
    CoderGal Posts: 6,800 Member
    Dumpee usually...And then they ask to get back.
  • firesoforion
    firesoforion Posts: 1,017 Member
    Dumper but i've only dated three people, and the two of those that were more than once the "relationship" wasn't long for this world regardless of who broke up with whom. Neither was really serious. I've done more rejecting than being rejected, though, but that's probably more because I was too shy to do anything.
  • ReverendJim
    ReverendJim Posts: 260 Member
    I filed for divorce on my first and my second wives. Third time's a charm, they say. So far, so good. :)
  • 76tech
    76tech Posts: 1,455 Member
    eh, 50/50. maybe 75/25 dumper/dumpee. but for me to be the dumper, it's got to be pretty bad.
  • MyFeistyEvolution
    MyFeistyEvolution Posts: 1,014 Member
    I have almost always been the dumper. I have attracted a lot of idiots in my short life.

    LOL This. Exactly. Couldn't have said it better myself!!
  • Ocarina
    Ocarina Posts: 1,550 Member
    I usually got dumped!

    But I am living happily ever after so it was for the better. :bigsmile:
  • Cait_Sidhe
    Cait_Sidhe Posts: 3,150 Member
    Usually the dumpee. Apparently I have bad taste.
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    dumpee.
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