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    Are you a hugger?

    Posts: 197 Member
    edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat
    I am not. Never have been, never will. Have a social event coming up this weekend where there will be some hugs. Ugggh. I'm just not a hugger. Is something wrong with me? :tongue:

    Anyone else anti-hug?

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    • Posts: 2,832 Member
      I am so a hugger.
    • Posts: 1,227 Member
      I LOVE HUGS!!!! but i think i put off a "dont touch me vibe" so people dont usually try to hug me.. :cry:
    • Posts: 295
      I am a hugger and so is my dog!
    • Posts: 4,021 Member
      I am not a hugger at social events like you're describing. I like hugs when they come from close friends and family only. Hugging someone I don't know very well or don't have a close personal relationship with is just weird to me.
    • Posts: 397 Member
      definitely not a hugger
    • Posts: 986 Member
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    • Posts: 269 Member
      Not really, I don't even hug family for the most part. A Hello or Goodbye is enough, I don't need a hug every time...heh

      Only people I regularly hug are my mom and niece.
    • Posts: 197 Member
      "Hugging someone I don't know very well or don't have a close personal relationship with is just weird to me.
      Amen sister!

      :laugh: Gupton: Loved the cartoon! I needed a good laugh. Rough morning!
    • Posts: 1,865 Member
      I don't mind hugging... if I know the person.
      Stranger hugging is not something I am comfortable with.
    • Posts: 1,865 Member
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      i want to squeeze Gir!
    • Posts: 2,190 Member
      Not a hugger at all.
    • Posts: 246 Member
      I am so a hugger.

      this.. and a major cuddler.
    • Posts: 17
      I used to not be a hugger, but up until a few years ago, I love to give and receive hugs! Hugs are the best free gift you can possibly ever give. :)
    • Posts: 1,087 Member
      i'm happy to hug someone i know and love, but a stranger, no, never. way too intimate..

      i dont even like shaking a strangers hand.. i dig bowing like they do in japan..
    • Posts: 963 Member
      Not a hugger at all. The only people that I like to hug are my kids & my fiance.

      I usually try to avoid hugs from anyone, even family. With the exception of my Grandma. I just usually tense up & get all awkward. Yeah, I don't know, my social skills aren't the greatest. :smile:


      * And as far as strangers- shaking hands is as far as I'll go. I've got a problem with personal space- stay outta my bubble :wink:
    • Posts: 719
      non hugger..
    • Posts: 194
      I'll accept hugs from someone I don't know super well, but I am not a hug instigator.
    • Posts: 2,317 Member
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    • Posts: 662 Member
      It depends on the person. When it's people I know, or close friends, I LOVE hugs. I'm a snuggly hugger. When it's people I just met for the first time and they go in for a hug, I give a half hug while thinking "Ummm....why the F are you touching me?"
    • Posts: 1,148 Member
      LMAO!!! I'm a hugger if I know you. If I don't know you I don't want to hug you!

      Just like when I was pregnant . . . I don't want strangers touching my belly. Yeah we in the same elevator you still a stranger!!!
    • Posts: 124 Member
      Not a hugger at all. The only people that I like to hug are my kids & my fiance.

      I usually try to avoid hugs from anyone, even family. With the exception of my Grandma. I just usually tense up & get all awkward. Yeah, I don't know, my social skills aren't the greatest. :smile:


      * And as far as strangers- shaking hands is as far as I'll go. I've got a problem with personal space- stay outta my bubble :wink:

      ^THIS!
    • Posts: 1,261 Member
      Lover...not a fighter :flowerforyou:
    • Posts: 986 Member
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    • Posts: 12,871 Member
      I'm a total touch-me-not. The only people I care to hug are my husband, kids, and a couple of really close friends. And maybe my grandma, but only because she's awesome.
    • Posts: 188 Member
      I have never been a real touchy person, not even with family. My mother and sister are insane huggers, they hug EVERYONE. I hug when I have to so I'm not an a-hole but I don't go out of my way to hug. Even boyfriends, up until my current boyfriend I wasn't a hugger, but he changed me. lol I love to hug my boyfriend, and his son. I've always loved hugging my god children, little cousins, friends kids and what not. The way I see it, little kid hugs are awesome because they mean it with all of their little hearts. It seems to me like most hugs are just out of habit.
    • Posts: 1,008 Member
      Total hugger here.
      People that I know aren't huggers, I'll hug them longer 'til it's that uncomfortable time lapse. Makes me laugh.
    • Posts: 986 Member
      Total hugger here.
      People that I know aren't huggers, I'll hug them longer 'til it's that uncomfortable time lapse. Makes me laugh.

      lol me too
    • Posts: 1,298 Member
      yes and no.

      I like to hug my friends.

      but there is a guy at work whom I've been freinds with (work only) for like 15 years. When he hugs me, he squeexes his chest against mine a little too tight ... and holds it there for a little too long.
    • Posts: 85 Member
      I am a hugger. I have experienced them all...

      The normal hug
      The mutual one arm over the shoulder one around the waist hug
      The bear hug
      The lingering hug
      The slow rub on the back hug
      The fast rub on the back hug
      The shoulders in, rear end out hug
      The hug where your heads are around each others arms

      and of course

      The double pat on the back bro hug
    • Posts: 2,284 Member
      Im such a huge hugger........especially when im hugging woman smaller then me....im like a bear RAWR
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