Oddest reasons someone has given you for ending a relationsh

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  • ShmoozyQ
    ShmoozyQ Posts: 390 Member
    He stopped calling...when I finally got in touch with him and asked him why, he said "You know why."

    I didn't:laugh:

    Oh well...he's history and I'm happily married

    :laugh:


    I once got, "We don't stick like glue."

    :indifferent: :huh:
  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
    Wow.... that is just wow... basically saying you can have sex just don't bring her home..... Gotta love that racism ! People should be euthanized.

    More common than you think... another guy I really liked, but was reserving my heart b/c I already knew his family is bigoted (just wasn't sure how much of a pull they'd be on him) tried to broach the topic of dating a non-white with his folks after we'd been seeing each other about 4 months... did not go well... basically the same sentiment. Good enough for a quickie in the alley, but not good enough to bring home.

    I'm mixed, and I'll date someone from any race. But no matter how much I like the guy, I now refuse to get involved with someone whose family will hate me for my color. Even if he's great. We can just be good friends. A large part of the "white half" of my family still does not like us and I'll not subject my son to that same kind of treatment.

    That is a shame. My wife's family would have nothing to do with me. Refused to look at me or speak English when I was there. They even threatened to disown her. Eventually though, they realized that I actually could provide for a family and be a decent father, despite the color of my skin. If they hadn't come around it would still be their loss.
  • elfie9863
    elfie9863 Posts: 337
    I stayed with someone for NINE years... waiting for him to grow up and marry me. Finally, I had to just move on or live with no committment the rest of my life.

    He married someone else a few years later. Now divorced and living with his mom.

    I won't ever go back together with him, completely stay away from him and do not talk. He is still the love of my life though, always will be. Makes it hard for whoever follows, which so far no one has lasted in a serious way.

    Makes me wonder ... Second guessing is a killer.
  • caroldot
    caroldot Posts: 388 Member
    I had a guy break up with me because I cut my hair....and he never even saw it to see if he even liked it! He just didn't want me to do it and then when I did he was highly upset....oh well!
  • mistyfit7
    mistyfit7 Posts: 7 Member
    I was in Jr high, he told his mom, his mom told my mom and my mom told me that he didn't want to date me anymore. Lol step up and say it.
    We went to the same church together.
  • SofaKingRad
    SofaKingRad Posts: 1,592 Member
    The conversation went something like this:

    Her: " I can't see you anymore, I need to be with my husband".

    Me: "You're not married, how can that be?"

    Her:" Yeah, I wasn't quite honest with you about something when we started dating....."
  • JDMPWR
    JDMPWR Posts: 1,863 Member
    You dont believe in God and you aren't white. Note her family was old school close minded with some very strong believes in marrying into your own and her sister married a black man and was disowned from the family.

    SMH
  • duchess_natas
    duchess_natas Posts: 72 Member
    An ex boyfriend told a lie about me and is still holding me accountable for said to this day. So sad...
  • StrengthIDidntKnow
    StrengthIDidntKnow Posts: 543 Member
    You like being an American. I may have had an easier time understanding this if he wasn't also an American.
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    I need a 4.0 this quarter, and you're too much a distraction from my studies.
  • lizdavis07
    lizdavis07 Posts: 766 Member
    "I've started smoking pot and I know you don't smoke, so it's not gonna work. Oh, and I'm moving in with the girl I buy from."

    We were 17, and he had just given me a "promise ring". I brought the ring over the next day. His new girlfriend was there(the one he bought his green from). I walked up to her, grabbed her hand, put the ring on her finger and said to him, "I didn't like it anyways. You know I only wear gold." (it was silver) hahahaha

    He tried getting back with me 2 years later. We hooked up and he was like i'm so glad we're back together. I looked at him crazily and said "Oh, honey, I just wanted the sex one more time. Nothing more." He actually cried. :huh: Havent talked to him since.
  • MirelaH
    MirelaH Posts: 129 Member
    "You're crazy. I'm not a drug addict. I just need to get high in order to deal with you."

    True story.
  • fridayjustleft04
    fridayjustleft04 Posts: 851 Member
    You like being an American. I may have had an easier time understanding this if he wasn't also an American.
    Lol wtf..I feel a little :noway: right now.
  • smantha32
    smantha32 Posts: 6,990 Member
    bump
  • bellevie23
    bellevie23 Posts: 208 Member
    Currently..3 kids together, youngest being 2 months old, 10 months into this deployment, I find out my husbands true reason for wanting a divorce (mind you out of NO WHERE, blamed it on us always arguing when we hadnt had a argument in over a year, not even a small one), is him having an affair with another soldier in Afghanistan. Needless to say, I am taking on this playing single mom full time soon. He was so gung-ho on getting a divorce until he realized I found out because he made a dumb move and got caught. :/ I won't be getting married for a lonnnnnggg time after this is finalized. 3 kids...who DOES that?! Im still shaking my head.

    However, he now says he is numb and doesn't care anymore and that the kids will be fine because he has never really lived with our boys and our little girl is still young, hes already been gone so long anyways, so they'll be fine...:explode:

    I dont know how a smart girl like me could be so stupid sometimes lol
  • Sunscreenandsweat
    Sunscreenandsweat Posts: 190 Member
    Weirdest would be him ending it because he didn't have time for me but he had time to get high everyday after work.
    It was like a month after he asked me to marry him too.
  • mukennc
    mukennc Posts: 12
    I was told, he felt my vocabulary was overwhelming....Really?
  • busyblkgirl
    busyblkgirl Posts: 264 Member
    When I was in college, I told my ex i'd be at the library studying for my french test. However, when he walked in, me and a few of my girlfriends were studying for a math test. He said because of that he couldn't trust me. Like seriously??? WTF!!! Oh well, his loss. I'm happily married to a very supportive husband and we have three kids. I also have a great career and a growing small business.
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