The longest you've gone without....

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  • msfitmom_3
    msfitmom_3 Posts: 45 Member
    Longest while pregnant was 3ish months (poor hubby) lol

    Longest not pregnant... 6 wks, ugh - having 3 kids and working opposite shifts will do that to ya :(
  • porcelain_doll
    porcelain_doll Posts: 1,005 Member
    NEVER!!!

    I am 25 y/o and I grew up with alot of my friends getting pregnant and getting it on with different people everyother day, so I decided it wasnt for me until I some silly *kitten* puts a ring on it.

    Almost caved a few times but luckily I found out that they were a**holes before... phew.

    I know... I know... I am a rare breed.

    I commend you for your choice - I am also doing the same, although I have been with men in the past. No more until it is with my husband. Not many guys like it, but too bad. It is not an easy choice, so I give you a lot of credit. Don't let anyone make fun of you or try and change your mind, either. You're awesome! :flowerforyou:
  • Newf77
    Newf77 Posts: 802 Member
    31 years and 2 months
  • msfitmom_3
    msfitmom_3 Posts: 45 Member
    I think I can top y'all. 3 years and I'm married.
    I can't believe I just admitted that.

    Omg I think my husband would die lol. Longest we went was 3 mos when I was pg, & I literally heard about it everyday. Lol
  • tashaa1992
    tashaa1992 Posts: 658 Member
    Hahaha urm just over a month I think, but I've only recently given my life back to god, so I will gladly wait until my wedding night now haha.

    Tasha
    xxx
  • HauteP1nk
    HauteP1nk Posts: 2,139 Member
    8mos.
  • walkner88
    walkner88 Posts: 165
    My wife and I are both in the Military so almost a year......
  • babybluefire
    babybluefire Posts: 100 Member
    Years. My dh is grossed out by pregnancy, weight gain on my part and me nursing a baby. So two kids in seven years means.... round about 3.5 years of no sex.
  • jamesblood13
    jamesblood13 Posts: 175 Member
    not ashamed to say, 21 years. guess i've never met anyone special enough.
  • sandidcauchon
    sandidcauchon Posts: 5 Member
    Right now, about three months, :grumble: but in the past it has been as long as six months...when I was married only maybe a few days at the most.
  • Ash_76
    Ash_76 Posts: 186 Member
    with the wife,,,,, geeeez,,,, just finished with the mistress thou

    JOKING,,,, in case she see's this
  • SLN11
    SLN11 Posts: 210
    About 3 weeks !

    Ha sometimes i just really cant be bothered and dont feel sexy enough too

    However with recent weight loss the confidence is coming back :wink:
  • kag1526
    kag1526 Posts: 210 Member
    18 years.. although since most that aren't virgins are assuming after losing that... probably 4 or 5 months. DH and I were long distance bf/gf when I was in college So that would be from when I saw him last as I went to school until I was around him again.

    Since getting married we have done 1.5/2 months. DH if he is stressed, depressed, or just really busy he just doesn't want to. Me it doesn't follow my emotions quite the same way but there are times I'm the same... So sometimes with grad school for me and work for both of us, not always on the same shifts and just life in general we will go awhile before we even realize how long its been.

    If you just count how long while dating someone... well I did make him wait almost 2.5 years before I was out of high school and confident enough in myself, in our relationship, and my ability to handle things if God forbid something went wrong. (My sister had a baby at 18. I was conceived while my mom was on birth control and one of my nieces was too that I know of... and since the other 2 nieces weren't planned I hope they were too and my sisters weren't just too stupid to at least up the odds with bc).
  • revren10
    revren10 Posts: 116
    one year
  • deadgirl81
    deadgirl81 Posts: 412 Member
    couple of months
  • emmamcblain
    emmamcblain Posts: 342
    Wait, what are bedroom antics?

    Oh wait, I've just gone my whole life, that's all. :')
  • DoingitWell
    DoingitWell Posts: 560 Member
    Last night around 9 and it was SO NOT WORTH IT.
  • just4peachy
    just4peachy Posts: 594 Member
    It'll be 10 months once BF's deployment is over. So far, 2 months. Blah.
  • stormyous
    stormyous Posts: 150 Member
    sigh 29 yrs.
  • pinkhu13
    pinkhu13 Posts: 133
    20 years :). Not necessarily waiting for marriage but just the right person (I know I sound like a cornball)
  • Ginger4real
    Ginger4real Posts: 162
    NO sex during pregnancy ?? WHAT!!!! Was there a medical reason ? I woulda lost my mind ...Since my first time...Maybe a week or two tops! And If 2 weeks I am a total B%^*H ...Can't stand my own self!
  • alise_lmx
    alise_lmx Posts: 292 Member
    Years. My dh is grossed out by pregnancy, weight gain on my part and me nursing a baby. So two kids in seven years means.... round about 3.5 years of no sex.

    This makes me sad for you :( your husband should think you are even more beautiful when pregnant. I gained 60 lbs when i was prego with my son and my husband still told me I was hot. He was lying, lol, but it was a nice thing to hear when I felt like a whale. I hope your husband treats you with the respect you deserve after having his children.
  • porcelain_doll
    porcelain_doll Posts: 1,005 Member
    20 years :). Not necessarily waiting for marriage but just the right person (I know I sound like a cornball)

    Nope, not corny at all.
  • susanloveszumba
    susanloveszumba Posts: 182
    4 long months this time.....
  • Jellyphant
    Jellyphant Posts: 1,400 Member
    No longer than a week, thank God. :D
  • Allihexen
    Allihexen Posts: 111 Member
    Three weeks. Never going that long again. It hurt when we did have it after we did have it again.
  • gregavila
    gregavila Posts: 723 Member
    Probably about a month, or just a little over.
  • iqnas
    iqnas Posts: 445 Member
    19 years.
  • xHelloQuincyx
    xHelloQuincyx Posts: 884 Member
    maybe 2 weeks - 3 weeks in the past 4 years :p
  • Kdingo
    Kdingo Posts: 145 Member
    NEVER!!!

    I am 25 y/o and I grew up with alot of my friends getting pregnant and getting it on with different people everyother day, so I decided it wasnt for me until I some silly *kitten* puts a ring on it.

    Almost caved a few times but luckily I found out that they were a**holes before... phew.

    I know... I know... I am a rare breed.

    Me too! Though it's just 'cause no one's interested.:laugh:
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