Need a 5 month miracle! Advice-givers invited!

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  • bigsargswife
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    I think 1lb/week is perfect honestly. You don't need to be at your goal weight when eh gets home - he loved you when he left so its not like he's going to come home and say "gosh honey I'm really disappointed that you didn't lose that last 10 lbs for me"

    You don't really know for sure yet if 140 is the 'right' goal weight for you so starving yourself to get there isn't' a good idea. Back at my skinniest adult weight I was 143 and chubby. If I was 143 right now I'd be very low bodyfat (like 19%). If you are working out your body is going through huge changes which aren't necessarily scale related. You might even have weeks where you don't lose any weight but your body changes for the better.

    So don't worry about that number - its just a sign that you're heading in the right direction but its not the ONLY sign. Measurements, the way your clothes fit, and VISUAL changes are way more important. In fact if you haven't taken pictures yet, do it. side pics, front pics, back pics in your workout clothes (Ideally that show your belly) or in underwear/bikini.

    Trust me - You're going to wow him no matter what the scale says.
    Very good points. Thank you! Another MFPer mentioned measuring. I don't know why I haven't thought of that. I'm just a natural "get it done already!" person so this is requiring a LOT of patience from me. ;)
    Thank you for your input!
  • chikpea83
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    Not eating enough calories is the same as skipping meals. It slows down your metabolism and keeps you from losing weight. Not getting enough sleep can also contribute to the build up of many toxins that keep you from losing weight. Women are horrible about eating as much as they should when they are trying to lose weight, AND they are even worse at affording themselves enough sleep. Try increasing your strength training.
  • bigsargswife
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    If you are going to do a cleanse, i HIGHLY recommend that Advocare 24 day Herbal cleanse! I am a huge Advocare user! Their products are the best on the market! You can check out the 24 day cleanse at www.advocare.com/1202314. It is under the product line "Trim". Let me know if you have any questions:)
    I will research that. Thank you!
  • Captain_Tightpants
    Captain_Tightpants Posts: 2,215 Member
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    I don't know about a juice cleanse with type 1. I'm type 2 and I would never try it. I'd suspect it could lead to some weird hypoglycemic episodes. Plus, watch FS&ND again with fresh eyes... sure the guy is thinner by the end but he also looks ill to me, and strangely soft like he lost all body tone. The documentary turned me right off the idea of juicing.

    I'm with everyone else here OP, your hubby is gonna walk through that door and whether you're at 145 or 165 he's not gonna notice the difference. Sounds like you are doing perfect with 9lbs in 7 weeks. I'd just stick with whats working.
  • bigsargswife
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    Not eating enough calories is the same as skipping meals. It slows down your metabolism and keeps you from losing weight. Not getting enough sleep can also contribute to the build up of many toxins that keep you from losing weight. Women are horrible about eating as much as they should when they are trying to lose weight, AND they are even worse at affording themselves enough sleep. Try increasing your strength training.
    You just hit the nail right on the head. I am unbelievably addicted to my husband's body heat and presence in my bed and sleeping has become an annoyance to me! Guess it would be hard to lose weight when I'm not getting good rest right? Between that and my kids and I taking turns being sick (daughter was at the ER at 4am-strep, me-upper respiratory infection, son-double ear infection last week) and all the coughing going on (this place sounds like a hospital ward!) I'm not sleeping. So, I will work on that too!
    Thank you!
  • dovesgate
    dovesgate Posts: 894 Member
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    How tall are you?
  • bigsargswife
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    I don't know about a juice cleanse with type 1. I'm type 2 and I would never try it. I'd suspect it could lead to some weird hypoglycemic episodes. Plus, watch FS&ND again with fresh eyes... sure the guy is thinner by the end but he also looks ill to me, and strangely soft like he lost all body tone. The documentary turned me right off the idea of juicing.

    I'm with everyone else here OP, your hubby is gonna walk through that door and whether you're at 145 or 165 he's not gonna notice the difference. Sounds like you are doing perfect with 9lbs in 7 weeks. I'd just stick with whats working.
    Thank you! Yes, I agree that juicing makes me nervous too! Not sure what I think about it yet to be honest. My main qualm with it is that I don't want any hypo issues because then I have to compensate by (cue dramatic music) more eating! ;)
    Thanks for your input!
  • bigsargswife
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    How tall are you?
    5'5"
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  • lungry1980
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    I didnt read all the posts but make sure you buy a food scale. It is very important to measure your food. I was off by 2-300 caolories a day before I bought one just by using measuring cups.
  • chachita7
    chachita7 Posts: 996 Member
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    www.bodybuilding.com - they have awesome 12 week plans -- i would suggest you check them out - I am on week 11 of one of them and I have had great results...
  • bigsargswife
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    I didnt read all the posts but make sure you buy a food scale. It is very important to measure your food. I was off by 2-300 caolories a day before I bought one just by using measuring cups.
    Huh. Never thought about that either. I have an issue with measuring cups. When I was younger, I had to drive into downtown Chicago for my dietician/doctor/specialists appointments. My dietician's name was Jill Hill. (Her husband's name was Jack, no joke.) Anyway, she over enunciated the word, "cup" when talking about measuring my food. Because I was 10, annoyed already and tired, I'm pretty sure the use of measuring Cups has scarred me for life. ;)
    Thanks for your advice though!
  • bigsargswife
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    www.bodybuilding.com - they have awesome 12 week plans -- i would suggest you check them out - I am on week 11 of one of them and I have had great results...
    Thanks!
  • sweetoblivion314
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    Talk to your dietitian about the "Slow Carb" diet from Tim Ferriss' book "The 4 hour body." It works really well if your only goal is to loose fat. At under 15% BF I was loosing about 1.5 lbs a week. At higher BF ranges people have been shown to loose significantly more per week.
  • KareninCanada
    KareninCanada Posts: 814 Member
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    I can speak highly of strength training - I've been doing the New Rules of Lifting for Women program and seeing some great results (not on the scale, but with the tape measure). I have a friend who uses an insulin pump and she has been finding that working out hard in the evening has led to some pretty stable blood sugar levels through the overnight. It was unexpected, but she's been thrilled.


    Personally I would avoid the "Body by Vi" challenge, just because so many of the people pushing it are pushing it just for the sake of getting their own products for free. It doesn't convince me that people really believe in the product, vs just trying to sign people up to get free product so they can try it themselves. That, and shakes are not FOOD. :smile:
  • bigsargswife
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    Talk to your dietitian about the "Slow Carb" diet from Tim Ferriss' book "The 4 hour body." It works really well if your only goal is to loose fat. At under 15% BF I was loosing about 1.5 lbs a week. At higher BF ranges people have been shown to loose significantly more per week.
    Will do. Thank you!
  • bigsargswife
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    I can speak highly of strength training - I've been doing the New Rules of Lifting for Women program and seeing some great results (not on the scale, but with the tape measure). I have a friend who uses an insulin pump and she has been finding that working out hard in the evening has led to some pretty stable blood sugar levels through the overnight. It was unexpected, but she's been thrilled.


    Personally I would avoid the "Body by Vi" challenge, just because so many of the people pushing it are pushing it just for the sake of getting their own products for free. It doesn't convince me that people really believe in the product, vs just trying to sign people up to get free product so they can try it themselves. That, and shakes are not FOOD. :smile:
    Thank you for your advice. I have heard so many people talking about that Lifting for Women thing; I'm going to research it more. Do you have any links you can post that you've found helpful with that program?
    And don't worry, I'm not going the "Vi" route. ;) I've heard enough about that too. Not for me.
    Thanks again!
  • ti2v78
    ti2v78 Posts: 26 Member
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    Having a type 1 diabetic daughter (7 yo) and a type 1 diabetic cousin with whom I share my diet and weight journey I can give you some of what seems to work for us. My daughter, obviously, is not on a weight loss plan but is more about just beating healthy and managing her energy and sugar levels, but I eat what she does as I won't ask her to live a lifestyle I myself cannot. My cousin has been with me on a good part of my weight loss journey - he has lost about 40 lbs and I lost around 50 over a six month time period (he is also on a pump).

    One fun side note, as we changed our diet habits and exercised he was able to cut his insulin needs in half.

    First ... Get rid of any unhealthy carbs except on "cheat" meals 1-2 times a week. This is not a diabetic thing to not eat donuts and cookies, but a general health thing. You wont be satiated and trying to stay under calories with bad carbs is miserable. Get your carbs from fruits and nuts as much as possible - breads (even most whole grains) react more like sugar than these. If you do eat grains, make sure they are whole grain.

    Second ... Up your calorie goals a bit with healthy calories such as lean meats and healthy oils. Again, this means nuts as well as extra virgin olive oil are good additions. Try to make your diet include as much protein as you can percentage wise (it is hard to go over 30% of your calories from protein, so don't worry about having "too much" as long as you are eating healthy protein). 1200 calories is a rather low goal.

    And last, it sounds like you are saying you have a net of 500 calories a day? If this is the case, get a heart rate monitor - that number is hard to accomplish if you are eating 1200+ calories and working out only 30-60 minutes (plus eating back some excersize calories). Make sure you are accurately measuring your food with a scale if possible and accurately estimating exercises. Bad estimations are the ruin of calorie counting :)
  • bigsargswife
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    Having a type 1 diabetic daughter (7 yo) and a type 1 diabetic cousin with whom I share my diet and weight journey I can give you some of what seems to work for us. My daughter, obviously, is not on a weight loss plan but is more about just beating healthy and managing her energy and sugar levels, but I eat what she does as I won't ask her to live a lifestyle I myself cannot. My cousin has been with me on a good part of my weight loss journey - he has lost about 40 lbs and I lost around 50 over a six month time period (he is also on a pump).

    One fun side note, as we changed our diet habits and exercised he was able to cut his insulin needs in half.

    First ... Get rid of any unhealthy carbs except on "cheat" meals 1-2 times a week. This is not a diabetic thing to not eat donuts and cookies, but a general health thing. You wont be satiated and trying to stay under calories with bad carbs is miserable. Get your carbs from fruits and nuts as much as possible - breads (even most whole grains) react more like sugar than these. If you do eat grains, make sure they are whole grain.

    Second ... Up your calorie goals a bit with healthy calories such as lean meats and healthy oils. Again, this means nuts as well as extra virgin olive oil are good additions. Try to make your diet include as much protein as you can percentage wise (it is hard to go over 30% of your calories from protein, so don't worry about having "too much" as long as you are eating healthy protein). 1200 calories is a rather low goal.

    And last, it sounds like you are saying you have a net of 500 calories a day? If this is the case, get a heart rate monitor - that number is hard to accomplish if you are eating 1200+ calories and working out only 30-60 minutes (plus eating back some excersize calories). Make sure you are accurately measuring your food with a scale if possible and accurately estimating exercises. Bad estimations are the ruin of calorie counting :)
    Wow! Thank you for that information! :) That's what I needed; break it down for me! ;)
    I did get a HRM actually! First week using it. What I meant by the 500 calories is, after I've entered my exercise and food for the day, MFP will say I still have 500 (or less) more calories to eat. I've never had more than that left.
    Thank you again! I will definitely implement some of those things ASAP! :)
  • bigsargswife
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    Having a type 1 diabetic daughter (7 yo) and a type 1 diabetic cousin with whom I share my diet and weight journey I can give you some of what seems to work for us. My daughter, obviously, is not on a weight loss plan but is more about just beating healthy and managing her energy and sugar levels, but I eat what she does as I won't ask her to live a lifestyle I myself cannot. My cousin has been with me on a good part of my weight loss journey - he has lost about 40 lbs and I lost around 50 over a six month time period (he is also on a pump).

    One fun side note, as we changed our diet habits and exercised he was able to cut his insulin needs in half.

    First ... Get rid of any unhealthy carbs except on "cheat" meals 1-2 times a week. This is not a diabetic thing to not eat donuts and cookies, but a general health thing. You wont be satiated and trying to stay under calories with bad carbs is miserable. Get your carbs from fruits and nuts as much as possible - breads (even most whole grains) react more like sugar than these. If you do eat grains, make sure they are whole grain.

    Second ... Up your calorie goals a bit with healthy calories such as lean meats and healthy oils. Again, this means nuts as well as extra virgin olive oil are good additions. Try to make your diet include as much protein as you can percentage wise (it is hard to go over 30% of your calories from protein, so don't worry about having "too much" as long as you are eating healthy protein). 1200 calories is a rather low goal.

    And last, it sounds like you are saying you have a net of 500 calories a day? If this is the case, get a heart rate monitor - that number is hard to accomplish if you are eating 1200+ calories and working out only 30-60 minutes (plus eating back some excersize calories). Make sure you are accurately measuring your food with a scale if possible and accurately estimating exercises. Bad estimations are the ruin of calorie counting :)
    Wow! Thank you for that information! :) That's what I needed; break it down for me! ;)
    I did get a HRM actually! First week using it. What I meant by the 500 calories is, after I've entered my exercise and food for the day, MFP will say I still have 500 (or less) more calories to eat. I've never had more than that left.
    Thank you again! I will definitely implement some of those things ASAP! :)
    PS. You're totally right about the insulin change! The more consistent your exercise is, the more sensitive you are to the insulin and subsequently need less of it. :) I remember that from my skinnier days. Also, on days when I have more of a push, I tend to get a bit lower than usual (not LOW, just lower) and I can tell already that it's directly because of my sensitivity changing. Thanks again!