100+ lbs to lose and I could realy use some support.

justcruz83
justcruz83 Posts: 6
edited November 12 in Introduce Yourself
My name is Jessica and I am looking for friends that have the same goals in mind. I've been trying to lose weight for a while and I think that having friends to hold me accountable is just what I need. I would like to share this experience with someone and I think it would be easier not to go through this alone.
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  • LJCannon
    LJCannon Posts: 3,636 Member
    :flowerforyou: Hello and Welcome to MFP! You will find lots of people who are on the same Journey as you. Remember to take time to enjoy your Journey!
  • Balance27
    Balance27 Posts: 76 Member
    I'm looking to lose about 60 pounds and I am pretty new here too. Add me if you'd like
  • teamflatbelly
    teamflatbelly Posts: 177 Member
    My name is Jessica and I am looking for friends that have the same goals in mind. I've been trying to lose weight for a while and I think that having friends to hold me accountable is just what I need. I would like to share this experience with someone and I think it would be easier not to go through this alone.
    I myself have to lose more than 100 pounds lets do this :)
  • SmartWhatever
    SmartWhatever Posts: 718 Member
    Feel free to add me as a friend if you'd like! I have about 70 more to lose.
  • prbrownz
    prbrownz Posts: 1
    Hi Jessica! I haven't been on here long, and only lost 5 lbs. - haven't even been tracking my food or exercising much this week - got off track - however, thanks to two of my fitness pals, tomorrow will be a better day - your pals WILL motivate you and keep you going on days when you don't feel like it! Exercise (anything) and water are key components - also, trying to eat 6 small meals a day will keep your blood sugar at an even keel to keep your metabolism burning........apple slices with a little peanut butter really helps me. Send me a note to let me know how you're doin! -keep on swimmin, swimmin, swimmin! - Sharon
  • khrystyna82
    khrystyna82 Posts: 45 Member
    You can add me too. I'm in the same boat as you. Good luck.
  • kellylee28
    kellylee28 Posts: 1
    Hi I am new here also. I have at least 60 lbs to loose so a friend would be great
  • sk2775
    sk2775 Posts: 699 Member
    Welcome to MFP. It is a wonderful site. I have been using it for one year now (my one year anniversary was yesterday) and have been able to lose 65.5 pounds (I have about another 15 pounds to go). Just take it one day at a time, log in your food intake (as much as possible) and start moving and you will see some positive results. Feel free to add me as a friend :-)
  • loves_jc
    loves_jc Posts: 86 Member
    My name is Jessica and I am looking for friends that have the same goals in mind. I've been trying to lose weight for a while and I think that having friends to hold me accountable is just what I need. I would like to share this experience with someone and I think it would be easier not to go through this alone.
  • LexieSweetheart
    LexieSweetheart Posts: 793 Member
    Hi Jessica feel free to add me
  • Mickeyharrower
    Mickeyharrower Posts: 2 Member
    Feel free to add me as a friend, Im new to the site also and don't have that many friends. I think we all need support and encouragement thru this rough journey. I have added you so please feel free to ad me as a friend. :-)
  • FinalOutrage
    FinalOutrage Posts: 77
    Welcome to MFP! This site has a lot to offer. Make sure to take advantage of it all and embrace the journey ahead of you.
  • loves_jc
    loves_jc Posts: 86 Member
    I have that much to lose also and accounabilty is what everyone needs including some cheering on. I am a Christian Woman that belives this and everything I do with the rest of my Life is for God. If you want to add me you are more then welcome
  • jaxygirl
    jaxygirl Posts: 17 Member
    Hi Jessica. Feel free to add me as a friend. I'd love to help support you on your journey!
  • carlongo75
    carlongo75 Posts: 15
    Welcome Jessica!!!

    You came to the right place. This is a nice site, full of people always willing to help and encourage you to keep up the good work.

    Feel fre to add me and good luck in reaching your goals !
  • whitneyann0
    whitneyann0 Posts: 327 Member
    Welcome!!
    My goal is to lost 100 lbs in 2012. I'm 1/4 of the way there. :bigsmile:
    I'm always open to supporting and motivating others! I will send you a friend request. :flowerforyou:
  • heeytheresunshine
    heeytheresunshine Posts: 33 Member
    Welcome Jessica! I've been on mfp for two weeks now, and I'm loving it! I also have 100+ to lose, feel free to add me. (:
  • marlana63
    marlana63 Posts: 1
    Hi Jessica. My name is Marlana. I started on this journey 3 years ago. I am trying to take it slow so that it is easier to keep off. I had 80 lbs to lose and so far I have lost 40. It has not been easy. I have had a lot of stress in my life as of lately...disabled husband and my daughter diagnosed and fighting cancer, but if you want it bad enough, you can do it. There is nothing that can stop you if it is what you really want. I never realized that until my daughter was diagnosed. Stress is one of the biggest hurdles when losing weight and I was able to do it at my age (48). If I can do it anyone can. I have been a big girl for most of my life and now I feel so much better. I know I am only half way there but I also know I will get there.
    You can do this!!!!! And don't let anyone tell you different.
  • jessicajoy87
    jessicajoy87 Posts: 905
    Hello Jessica my name is Jessica! I also need to lose over a 100lbs! Feel free to add me! :flowerforyou:
  • colobon
    colobon Posts: 49 Member
    I just signed up and have about the same to lose. I've been on another program but stalled out and stopped applying myself. I actually think I'll get more support here, so I am open to building a friend network here.
  • emeralz
    emeralz Posts: 14
    Welcome Jessica! My Goal is 100+ as well, 18 down, many more to go.. Always looking for serious loss seekers, and think it is a wonderful idea to have to be accountable, we can all use the support that only we can understand here. Feel free to add me!

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  • bademasi
    bademasi Posts: 180 Member
    Welcome to MFP Jessica... you are welcome to add me as a friend. The support you will find here on MFP is amazing! :flowerforyou:

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  • diagyrl
    diagyrl Posts: 30 Member
    Hi Jessica -

    I am new here as well - just starting on the journey & I have A LOT more than 100 pounds to lose. I would be happy to fight beside you in this battle to lose weight!!!

    Hugs - Dia
  • realme56
    realme56 Posts: 1,093 Member
    I started with 123# to lose and currently have just 28# left. My diary is open and I have good days and bad days.....my good days far "outweigh" the bad so I continue to lose (slowly at this point!) and that is what counts!
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    I wish you the best! You *can* do it!

    ETA: I'm not really adding people, but I get asked about how I did it so often that I blogged about it. Feel free to take a look if you want.
    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/blog/CoryIda/view/how-did-you-do-it-200995
  • iampam4399
    iampam4399 Posts: 81 Member
    Add me! Add me! I need to lose a ton of weight! And am having a hard time getting motivated enough to make it thru a whole day without backsliding on the eating! And exercise? No way! That's not even a blip on my radar yet! I feel like I just must not be ready emotionally, but I am oh-so-ready physically!!! I need a swift kick in the rump to get me going!!!!!!
  • AuntieLee
    AuntieLee Posts: 10 Member
    Hi!

    I just signed up but have been on this journey for more than 30 years! Have only recently (July 2011) found the eating plan that works for me and the weight has been melting off.

    The weight loss was an unexpected happy side effect of managing my allergies and arthritis.

    The biggest problem I am facing is from colleagues and so-called friends... Everyone is a critic of my healthy eating plan (too much fat, not enough carbs, shouldn't have chocolate, etc) You name it, I`ve heard it! But I`m sure you have too. People who never spoke to me before seem to believe it is ok to ask how much I`ve lost and a full range of other personal questions.

    As much as I would love to tell them to butt out I have to maintain a degree of professionalism that is required within the workplace.

    Any suggestions of how to deal with what I perceive as their rudeness, would be greatly appreciated.
  • VictoriaFitness2010
    VictoriaFitness2010 Posts: 175 Member
    Hello! And welcome! I will be your friend! I have 100 pounds to lose as well.

    At MFP, you don't have to do it alone!

    You CAN do this!!
  • justcruz83
    justcruz83 Posts: 6
    I think that most people ask questions about your weight loss probably because they are looking for some tips of their own and most people throw in their two cents because they think they know it all but some people really care. The best thing to do is thank the person for their suggestion and let them know that you have a system that works and you'll keep their suggestion in mind. For other random people who just start asking you personal questions I would keep in mind that they are probably in need of help or tips. I would reverse the questions to them and say " Why do you ask, are you looking for some pointers"? and make it about them and not about you. You may even make some new work out friends.
  • tsherm3850
    tsherm3850 Posts: 353 Member
    Hi Jessica....I've got plenty of pounds to lose. I've been on this site for 6 weeks and I love it. Feel free to add me; I love to provide support and encouragement to my friends.
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