Would you date someone on MFP?

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  • denveralexis
    denveralexis Posts: 30 Member
    Other than the fact that I am married. I have yet to see a good relationship work out from online... I know of a few people that ended up getting married but their relationships are relation****s.

    I met my boyfriend on Facebook 7 months ago and we're just fine and just as strong as any other couple who meet in real life :)
  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 896 Member
    Internet dating is for people that can't get laid IRL because they're socially awkward. Or they have some sorta severe inferiority complex, and are too embarrassed to try to interact with people in the real world so they date online. And they have huge insecurity issues too fat, too ugly, too slutty, too needy, too pretty.

    what an ugly heart you have.

    Thank you for your valid contribution to this thread. Great insight.

    Why, thank you. :flowerforyou:

    Any time <3
  • If you're dating on the internet, you're doing it wrong.

    I get really annoyed at this attitude for a variety of reasons. I think it's shallow and looking at the world in a very small way. I can't stand closed mindedness.



    Internet dating is for people that can't get laid IRL because they're socially awkward. Or they have some sorta severe inferiority complex, and are too embarrassed to try to interact with people in the real world so they date online. And they have huge insecurity issues too fat, too ugly, too slutty, too needy, too pretty.

    You can't be serious. I have NEVER EVER EVER had a problem finding a guy who would sleep with me if i wanted to and NEVER have i taken advantage of the opportunity YET i do the online dating thing.

    I'm half serious....but I'm 1000% sure people will have a million horrid experiences with internet dating before there is success in their e-dating quest.

    well then they're doing it all wrong--I've met maybe 15-20 people online and NONE have been horrid. just not the right fit. how many people do i meet IRL every day that aren't a fit? loads. it's no different.
  • yup. But I'm not into long-distance relationships. It would have to be someone local. :)
  • monala09
    monala09 Posts: 56 Member
    sure would ;)
  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 896 Member
    If you're dating on the internet, you're doing it wrong.

    I get really annoyed at this attitude for a variety of reasons. I think it's shallow and looking at the world in a very small way. I can't stand closed mindedness.



    Internet dating is for people that can't get laid IRL because they're socially awkward. Or they have some sorta severe inferiority complex, and are too embarrassed to try to interact with people in the real world so they date online. And they have huge insecurity issues too fat, too ugly, too slutty, too needy, too pretty.

    You can't be serious. I have NEVER EVER EVER had a problem finding a guy who would sleep with me if i wanted to and NEVER have i taken advantage of the opportunity YET i do the online dating thing.

    I'm half serious....but I'm 1000% sure people will have a million horrid experiences with internet dating before there is success in their e-dating quest.

    well then they're doing it all wrong--I've met maybe 15-20 people online and NONE have been horrid. just not the right fit. how many people do i meet IRL every day that aren't a fit? loads. it's no different.

    Right...and match.com tells you about all their failed relationships they helped create.
  • Other than the fact that I am married. I have yet to see a good relationship work out from online... I know of a few people that ended up getting married but their relationships are relation****s.

    I disagree with this. I can name a lot of people that have dated online first, met their now spose and are happy married. I for one am happily married and I met my now spouse on MySpace. I love my husband very much. And it's not what you are saying. The relationship comes from the people not the fact of whether they were online or not. Yes I would date someone online if i was not married. However since I am the answer would be a no to anyone that tried. I love my husband.
  • n25philly
    n25philly Posts: 75 Member
    Life's short, why be alone instead of keeping options open to meet someone special. You don't need to meet someone if you don't think they are right after all. That said, I'm in the suburbs of NE Philly and single ladies.
  • jwalker30
    jwalker30 Posts: 282
    sure, why not?
  • Novikay
    Novikay Posts: 62
    sure, why not?
  • krsnjas1022
    krsnjas1022 Posts: 5 Member
    My husband and I met online.... almost 12 years ago.. and we are very happily married! He is my soul mate and I love him more and more each day!!
  • Blueyz82
    Blueyz82 Posts: 151
    any relationship, no matter where you meet the person, can and may fail!
  • sevencallmemom
    sevencallmemom Posts: 505 Member
    I was hoping to, but my husband said no. Burster of dreams, he is...
  • annalee_1
    annalee_1 Posts: 235 Member
    Sure!!!! why not???
  • Skeebee
    Skeebee Posts: 740 Member
    Since I'm married, probably not...but I do believe that some relationships can start from meeting online. Actually, I know of two relationships that made it from the online dating to marriage.

    My husband and I started that way 12 years ago. but, it took about 6 years before we actually met and acted on feelings (we saw other people and dated during that time). So, technically, we were online when we tell people how we met, but in reality, we didn't start our "official" relationship until we met in person. Going on 3 years married and couldn't be happier. :-) If I wasn't married, I think I could honestly say, yes, I could date someone on MFP.
  • If you're dating on the internet, you're doing it wrong.

    I get really annoyed at this attitude for a variety of reasons. I think it's shallow and looking at the world in a very small way. I can't stand closed mindedness.



    Internet dating is for people that can't get laid IRL because they're socially awkward. Or they have some sorta severe inferiority complex, and are too embarrassed to try to interact with people in the real world so they date online. And they have huge insecurity issues too fat, too ugly, too slutty, too needy, too pretty.

    You can't be serious. I have NEVER EVER EVER had a problem finding a guy who would sleep with me if i wanted to and NEVER have i taken advantage of the opportunity YET i do the online dating thing.

    I'm half serious....but I'm 1000% sure people will have a million horrid experiences with internet dating before there is success in their e-dating quest.

    well then they're doing it all wrong--I've met maybe 15-20 people online and NONE have been horrid. just not the right fit. how many people do i meet IRL every day that aren't a fit? loads. it's no different.

    Right...and match.com tells you about all their failed relationships they helped create.

    huh? what does match.com telling me anything have to do with anything?
  • will010574
    will010574 Posts: 761 Member
    If you're dating on the internet, you're doing it wrong.

    I get really annoyed at this attitude for a variety of reasons. I think it's shallow and looking at the world in a very small way. I can't stand closed mindedness.

    Internet dating is for people that can't get laid IRL because they're socially awkward. Or they have some sorta severe inferiority complex, and are too embarrassed to try to interact with people in the real world so they date online. And they have huge insecurity issues too fat, too ugly, too slutty, too needy, too pretty.


    That's ridiculous! I can and have met people in bars, grocery stores, airports, book storesetec etc and online. I am fully capable of getting laid in real life too thank you and have no inferiority complexes to speak of. Where you meet someone is irrelevant it is the relationship you build from that point on.

    My long winded answer to your question...yes I would date someone I met on MFP.
  • teresab46970
    teresab46970 Posts: 35 Member
    Well, I'm single now and NOT dating anyone. I'm kind of afraid to try it again, but you never know where or when you might meet the "right one". I hope too maybe date again, so I guess it would be ok.
  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 896 Member
    If you're dating on the internet, you're doing it wrong.

    I get really annoyed at this attitude for a variety of reasons. I think it's shallow and looking at the world in a very small way. I can't stand closed mindedness.



    Internet dating is for people that can't get laid IRL because they're socially awkward. Or they have some sorta severe inferiority complex, and are too embarrassed to try to interact with people in the real world so they date online. And they have huge insecurity issues too fat, too ugly, too slutty, too needy, too pretty.

    You can't be serious. I have NEVER EVER EVER had a problem finding a guy who would sleep with me if i wanted to and NEVER have i taken advantage of the opportunity YET i do the online dating thing.

    I'm half serious....but I'm 1000% sure people will have a million horrid experiences with internet dating before there is success in their e-dating quest.

    well then they're doing it all wrong--I've met maybe 15-20 people online and NONE have been horrid. just not the right fit. how many people do i meet IRL every day that aren't a fit? loads. it's no different.

    Right...and match.com tells you about all their failed relationships they helped create.

    huh? what does match.com telling me anything have to do with anything?

    Comparing what you tell me against what match.com tells people....

    Sarcasm doesn't really work through the internet, I guess. ;(
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    I was hoping to, but my husband said no. Burster of dreams, he is...

    How dare he not share!
  • Bmontgomery613
    Bmontgomery613 Posts: 200 Member
    Other than the fact that I am married. I have yet to see a good relationship work out from online... I know of a few people that ended up getting married but their relationships are relation****s.

    Meeting someone online now days is just as viable a place as the book store or coffee shop. It's how you choose to proceed with the relationship that determines whether it turns to s*** or not.

    I agree. My husband and I met online, have been together for almost 11 years (married 9) and we have a pretty good relationship. He's my best friend.

    As for the question...if I weren't married and I met a person I clicked with on here, sure.
  • If I was single and we could encourage each other, yes.
  • cyclingben
    cyclingben Posts: 346 Member
    sure, maybe i will find better quality then on POF
  • Sagelit
    Sagelit Posts: 78
    I met my husband on World of Warcraft, and we're headed for our 3 year anniversary. Not an eternity, I know, but you can successfully meet someone with similar interests through the internet.
  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 896 Member
    If you're dating on the internet, you're doing it wrong.

    I get really annoyed at this attitude for a variety of reasons. I think it's shallow and looking at the world in a very small way. I can't stand closed mindedness.

    Internet dating is for people that can't get laid IRL because they're socially awkward. Or they have some sorta severe inferiority complex, and are too embarrassed to try to interact with people in the real world so they date online. And they have huge insecurity issues too fat, too ugly, too slutty, too needy, too pretty.


    That's ridiculous! I can and have met people in bars, grocery stores, airports, book storesetec etc and online. I am fully capable of getting laid in real life too thank you and have no inferiority complexes to speak of. Where you meet someone is irrelevant it is the relationship you build from that point on.

    My long winded answer to your question...yes I would date someone I met on MFP.

    Yeah that seems to be the consensus of people who internet date. They are all socially competent and can get laid at will. I'm sure it's all mostly factual...

    Mind you, I'm not sure people who have an inferiority complex ever admit to actually having an inferiority complex to themselves or others. =P
  • k0nfyo0zed
    k0nfyo0zed Posts: 313 Member
    yep! i signed my husband up a couple weeks ago... though he still hasn't quite got into it yet ;)

    i met him online 3+ years ago and we've been together since our first date. we started talking because of common interests in music and movies, and we grew from there. i don't see why that would be any different than dating someone who you started talking to because of shared similar food and fitness goals. all relationships start somewhere, why not MFP?
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    Ummmmmmm.......... Yes I think I would, but it depends :)
  • YES!!
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    Anyone? Hello!!!! LOL :)
  • Jarnard
    Jarnard Posts: 497 Member
    sure :) San Diego, where the single MFP at?
  • thirtyandthriving
    thirtyandthriving Posts: 613 Member
    I was hoping to, but my husband said no. Burster of dreams, he is...

    Haha... men and their insecurities!
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