Okay, I think this was a break up =\

So sorry this happened. It /can/ be confusing, especially when someone runs hot and cold or sends mixed messages. The crappy thing about technology is that people break up by email and text now. I mean, really? Do you have such little respect for the other person? It /is/ cowardly. And I guarantee you that when someone says something like, "You're too good for me," it's a cop out. She's the one with the problem--not you. Besides, you deserve someone who treats you better than that. Period.

Write her off. Delete her from /your/ Facebook. Delete her from your phone. (Or if you must keep the number, give her a special "Wicked Witch of the West" ring tone or a contact name like Judy the Shallow B*tch. Maybe not mature, but satisfying. ;})

People are mean in general like that...it's why I love my kitty so much. He talks to me and sits with me, follows me around the house like a puppy dog, talks back but loves me anyway--and he doesn't text either.

Right now there's a consultant who is giving me the "I'm smart, you dumb" treatment. Let's just see about that!

I have to agree with the other assessments that the common denominator is you, but not entirely. It sounds like, from this very brief explanation that she's a drama queen. You may be the "Mr Fixit" or "Rescuer" type; you want to help them in some way. At 24, I was the same way. Eventually you'll meet an incredible girl with no drama and it will work out great, but at 24, you're still young. You've got some knotches of life experience on your belt. Chock this one up as another experience and move on. If you really don't communicate with her, she'll probably contact you again, but just ignore her ( I don't care how hot she is ).

Astute assessment, I think. Good advice Avoid the drama. Girls live it, most women abhor it.

She obviously is a coward, as others have said. Maybe you come on too strongly and u are scaring them off. All I DO know is that you seem to be a levelled headed kinda guy, that seems to know what he wants and how to achieve it..... so I say get your flirt on and enjoy

You're a good looking guy with a nice body and awesoem tattoos so moving on should be easy and hwo dumps someone via text...LAME Glad to hear you are doing ok

okay so as some of you may know I was dating someone, anyway, communication has been terrible and she has not been tlaking to me for 2 weeks, I saw her last weekend everything seemed fine, then as soon as she left, she stopped talking to me again.

Now I sent her a text today, and she replies saying dont ever contact me or my family again. Then proceeds to delete me from facebook.

Now the text did say please dont contact me at the moment, but I am now confused....

Did I just get dumped????

No, this was definitely a cry for help. What she really means is, "I'm playing hard to get. Please follow me around without being seen, look through my curtains and take pictures, and sneak into my house when no one is home and steal my panties." Also, you should know that if you see her out in public with another man the appropriate response is to say "Bro, get off my chick" and then punch him in the grill. You're welcome.

Ahhh...to be so young again.

Most girls that age like to play head games, they are really immature. As another person said, she probably wants you to keep calling her asking "what's wrong?Did I do something to make you mad?" and then string you along. It's a power trip for her.

DON'T DO IT! Save face, keep your dignity. Let her go, and find a girl who is mature (I was at that age).

{{{HUGS}}} to you.

Aww sorry bro. hope things look up for you soon.

Def. sounds like a breakup of the ****tiest manner.
If she's deleted her account, maybe she's quit on the whole weightloss thing and you're a part of that. Sucks, but that's how some people work.

I was dumped once by a guy just stopping talking to me/ignoring me.
Never did find out what the problem was :grumble: It hurt bad and I'm probably still not over it cos nothing was ever resolved.

Chin up! :drinker:

CHICKS BE CRAZY.

I had a girl do that to me once. Then she texted me a month later and pretended like nothing happened.

I want to comment, but I don't know if this is a serious post or not.... so confused O..o

I want to comment, but I don't know if this is a serious post or not.... so confused O..o

my thoughts exactly

I want to comment, but I don't know if this is a serious post or not.... so confused O..o

my thoughts exactly

yep... this

It's mean to do it that way.

okay so as some of you may know I was dating someone, anyway, communication has been terrible and she has not been tlaking to me for 2 weeks, I saw her last weekend everything seemed fine, then as soon as she left, she stopped talking to me again.

Now I sent her a text today, and she replies saying dont ever contact me or my family again. Then proceeds to delete me from facebook.

Now the text did say please dont contact me at the moment, but I am now confused....

Did I just get dumped????

Maybe your ex and my ex should get together....first got the im so sorry I've been distant text then the ever so popular its not you its me line...yet we haven't seen each other or talked to each other in months...so I don't know why he did that...he is a douchey mc douche anyways.