Eww... You need to fix that.

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  • WhiteCoc0
    WhiteCoc0 Posts: 160 Member
    I would like to be able to sing nice :P
    And I wish my boyfriend wouldn't look at naked pictures of "beautiful" woman all the time… It really doesn't help with my self image.

    Yes. I agree with that. l think it must be a guy thing but it pisses me off too.

    Agreed!! I hate it too, in fact i've been in many many arguments over it.......i've realized it's not worth it...

    Why dont you start looking at naked men...I am sure he wouldnt feel so great about it either. I make a big deal about that because honestly men are just as insecure and they need a wake up call.
  • Lusadi
    Lusadi Posts: 79
    My temper! I get very irritated and overwhelmed easily. I'm trying to find where my patience went.....if someone see's it, please let me know.
  • jessicae1aine
    jessicae1aine Posts: 885
    I love to be less sensitive to criticism in general, not just body-related.

    I'd love for my fiance to see all the wonderfulness I see in him, because a lot of the time he really doesn't. <3
  • Lusadi
    Lusadi Posts: 79
    I just want to be happy. Not sure how to go about fixing it.

    Advice from a stranger with absolutely no idea of your life, but I've been there often. Sometimes it helps to pick one thing that's going well or that you are content with to focus on. It can be a small thing. There have been days where it was simply that I got out of bed AND took a shower. Shifting focus from everything that's wrong and stressful helps me. And if you have no happy days at all, get help. Life is too short to spend living under a cloud of depression.
  • mgl8198
    mgl8198 Posts: 17
    I want to be more comfortable with the skin im in, I have to figure out who I am and quit worrying about the person others want me to be. Ive always been the one that was more concerned for everyone else than my own self.



    **Striving to Be who God wants me to Be**
  • BlueEyesXoXo
    BlueEyesXoXo Posts: 99
    My inability to be lazy. I just can't do it. Not really a bad thing, I guess.

    My boyfriend stresses about everything... I wish he would learn to chill sometimes and not worry so much.
  • Ocarina
    Ocarina Posts: 1,550 Member
    I would change my impulsive behavior. I am a shopping addict. Mainly clothes, make up, and hair care. I NEVER shop over my means but we have SO MUCH money to throw around lately and I've been splurging non stop. I want to save or do something else with it sometimes. Or just shop reasonably.

    Sometimes I need to just sit down and chill. I'm always forcing myself to be productive and never relax. But I love my life and how awesome everything else so it's almost like I don't want to relax because its a result of hard work.

    There's other things I should work on. But I can't think of them at the moment. I think greed is my biggest issue.
  • KatKatatrophic
    KatKatatrophic Posts: 448 Member
    I would change my attitude/negativity about certain things.

    My last ex, I wanted to change his drug use. I dumped his *kitten* though, so I don't care if dies from it :smile:
  • Evelyn_Gorfram
    Evelyn_Gorfram Posts: 706 Member
    I would like to stop disliking all of the things I don't like about myself.

    There are some things I wouldn't want to *like*, but would be happy to be able to just accept (e.g., I can be an arrogant snobby know-it-all sometimes (e.g., using Latin abbreviations in an informal online forum post)).

    But there are many more things that I actively dislike about myself that don't really need to be disliked: traits like inconsistency and indecisiveness can be viewed as flexiblity and caution; and I'm not anywhere near as lazy, stupid, weak , short-sighted, immature, socially graceless, selfish, or irresponsible as I am forever accusing myself of being.
  • Marley112586
    Marley112586 Posts: 168 Member
    i wish i had 2 Fallopian tubes :(

    My mum only had one and she has 2 daughters. Don't give up hope. If you're trying for a baby, it'll happen when it's supposed to!
    thank you :flowerforyou:

    My sister in law and my mother only have 1 tube. My SIL has 3 boys and my mother had 2 girls.
  • waldenfam2
    waldenfam2 Posts: 203 Member
    I wish I was more assertive. I get pissed about things happening to me, but never seem to have a voice to stand up for myself when it counts the most or I get completely emotional and cry, bleh.

    My husband, omg, I wish he was more proactive. If I need something done in the house I have to tell him, he doesn't look around and say, oh this needs to be fixed or that needs to be picked up. But after 18 years I'm pretty sure that's not going to change :)
  • jesusHchris
    jesusHchris Posts: 1,405 Member
    I've always wanted to lose one of my hands in a tragic accident somewhere in a remote jungle. I'd be whisked away by helicopter to a secret research facility that was coincidentally in the area. They would fit me up with the most awesome robot hand ever invented. It would shoot lasers, open beers, and automatically flip off people who drive like a**holes.

    That would make me happy.
  • mixedfeelings
    mixedfeelings Posts: 904 Member
    I wish I was more confident, a lot more confident, I also wish I knew what I wanted to do with my life. This might be for the benefit for other people but it would be nice if I didn't get so angry and aggressive so quickly.
  • LifeLongJourney
    LifeLongJourney Posts: 32
    I wish I was more assertive.
  • KLavallee322
    KLavallee322 Posts: 86 Member
    I wish my husband & I both had more patience. Our 3 year old really pushes our buttons somedays and it would be nice to take a deep breath and remember she's only 3, instead of getting mad or frustrated. Also just more patience with each other. There are days we jump all over the other for no real reason.
  • robot_potato
    robot_potato Posts: 1,535 Member
    i wish i was not so shy. here, on the internets, i am outgoing, cause you can't see me, we're not face to face.but in real life, i am painfully shy. as in, we have lived in the same place for 2 1/2 years and i have only recently been able to speak to the neighbors, i fight the urge to run inside every time. i can barely speak to my new manager unless to communicate a problem or discuss work stuff (i'm a supervisor), and he has to initiate conversation. by 'new' i mean we've been working together a year and a half. people think i'm snooty or rude or that i think i'm above them, but really, i'm just afraid of them. i cannot make eye contact with anyone save for my family and closest friends. if someone tries to look me in the eye i will look away. it's debilitating, really. i can't manage a simple hello to some people.
  • stormy_eyez742
    stormy_eyez742 Posts: 37 Member
    There are several things I'd like to change but I will start with some plastic surgery...The *girls* need to re-climb the mountain instead of repelling (quickly!) down my melted washboard belly..Classy, eh? Yeah, that's how I feel. I think that hurts my self esteem worse than anything else. Behaviorally, I would change my need to control everything and realize just because others may do something differently doesn't mean it's *worse* or wrong...

    As for my husband, there isn't much I would change. I'd like for him to be a bit more proactive in helping with household/handy man type chores. Also to take a bit more pride in his appearance. Either way, I love him just the way he is and he's amazing.
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