ohyeah! i had a real ?... sexual orientation...

As Butters would say. . . bi curious

This Answer.....my fave!!!

I don't think labels are necessary. For me the person is more important than the gender

@duharforstae: If that's the case...and if that is you in your profile pic...I'd like to get to know you as a person...

bummer ... another very innocent thread of mine is going to get it again ...

Oh, yeah.... innocent. This had no chance of going wrong. No one has strong feelings on the whole straight / gay thing. Why would you think this would get out of hand?

I think I may start a thread religion or politics, those are mild topics too......

The masses can handle stuff like big kids, but unfortunately there is a few in every group that mess it all up for the rest of us. Just like that dude that HAD to tell his wife about what REALLY happened that weekend in Vegas.........

x2 lol :drinker:

If I climb some rocks once or twice, am I a rock climber? If I kick a football (or soccer ball) once or twice, does that make me a footballer (soccer) player?

How is it any different?

If some dude took you from behind sexually once or twice would you be gay?..... Uummm HELL ya you would in most peoples book thats and act of homo and thats how its different. Comparing kicking certain balls that are played as sports is way different bro..duh haha...

I'll explain in words you understand

If someone experiments once or twice, this does not make them gay nor bi. It means they were curious, they made decide they did not like it and remain with the the atypical male/female coupling.

However some may find they like both, that makes them bi. Some may find they like the same sex only and that is them being gay. Having tried it out once, does not make you gay nor bi.

Both my ex's experimented and hated it. They were not bi, nor gay.

Well I will put it in words you understand. There no getting around that the ACT in itself was being gay so at that time they were with other people of the same sex so ......... yes they were gay...lol

"Homosexuality is romantic or sexual attraction or behavior between members of the same sex or gender"
Lesibain ... so on and so forth

Tough concept for some ehh..

I wonder what Andrew Dice Clay would say....

Fact is, it is different for men and women. It can be grey area for women, but it is very black and white for men. You either have gay feelings or not. Or you end up kissing Kevin Spacey in his driveway right before you shoot him.... American Beauty.... great movie.

I'm going to need to hear more to figure out how best to help you.

Tell me about the other girl. Her hair? Eye color? The gentle curve of her lower back? Is she timid but curious or aggressive and dominant? And for the love of god, boobs??

I just can't figure anything out from the limited information given.

^^^^Win!

In all seriousness, though, I think labels are taken a little too seriously. Their purpose is to make things neat and tidy in our minds, so that we can categorize them easier. The human brain loves to do stuff like that. When it really comes down to it, I don't really think it matters too much what we call someone, but what they want to call them self. Ultimately, we can call them anything we want, but they get the final say. OP, have you asked your friend how she would label herself?

Fact is, it is different for men and women. It can be grey area for women, but it is very black and white for men. You either have gay feelings or not.

This isn't even remotely true. It may be black and white in the way *other people label you* but it doesn't change the facts of whatever orientation you may be.

I think it is healthy to say you are attracted to a person, regardless of thier gender.

Don't get your all crazy over the labels.

I am 32, mostly sleep with girls, but consider myself BI, on most days, because I sometimes like guys too...

But I find all type of people attractive and I don't calculate that into the equation.

You are attracted to who you are attracted to.

I cannot stand the idea of putting a label on myself, I am attracted to both sexes.... females definitely much much more, but I don't label it as lesbian or bi because I am just me.

Just explore it a bit. I bet you wil have fun

Some people like to 'experiment' because they are confused/drunk/bored. Who cares?

I have never been with a girl, nor do I want to, I don't have any feelings of that type towards women. I can appreciate a beautiful woman, but I just wouldn't want to be in a relationship with one...they don't like me, I can't stand the cattiness, and I'd rather be friends with guys anyway.

With acceptance becoming more and more common, I think even more of these 'traditional relationship roles' will become more and more blurred. For the record, I do support ANY type of marriage/relationship. Love is Love, it has no judgement.

Dude, time to by a closet full of flannel shirts and join a book club!