When she asks....she really means.....

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  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,173 Member
    Am I wrong in thinking you shouldn't have to ask? Sounds like childish insecurities to me.
    Yep you're wrong, why? Because when he or she says that they are trying to prove a point and get you to notice something that slightly bothers them.


    Why have to veil it? Can't one just say " hey get off the xbox and pay attention to me?"

    When he was full on into EverQuest, I could stand naked in between my ex & the TV and he would yell at me to get out of the way because "he was on a raid"...hence the reason he know holds the title of "EX"...
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,644 Member
    Am I wrong in thinking you shouldn't have to ask? Sounds like childish insecurities to me.
    Yep you're wrong, why? Because when he or she says that they are trying to prove a point and get you to notice something that slightly bothers them.


    Why have to veil it? Can't one just say " hey get off the xbox and pay attention to me?"

    When he was full on into EverQuest, I could stand naked in between my ex & the TV and he would yell at me to get out of the way because "he was on a raid"...hence the reason he know holds the title of "EX"...


    Then rightly so that he is an ex!
  • kbmnurse
    kbmnurse Posts: 2,484 Member
    Shame on you that she even has to ask that question. Wake up before you lose her.
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,393 Member
    :laugh: hahahahaha...What if she plays video games too???

    Then the more she kills you, the more attention she is needing.
  • NoAdditives
    NoAdditives Posts: 4,250 Member
    Am I wrong in thinking you shouldn't have to ask? Sounds like childish insecurities to me.
    Yep you're wrong, why? Because when he or she says that they are trying to prove a point and get you to notice something that slightly bothers them.


    Why have to veil it? Can't one just say " hey get off the xbox and pay attention to me?"

    Apparently the majority of people these days do not understand how to communicate directly. My husband is constantly amazed that I don't hint at things or play mind games like other women.
  • bikinibeliever
    bikinibeliever Posts: 832 Member
    If she's asking....she's really saying, show me you love me.
  • SpringFever19
    SpringFever19 Posts: 180 Member
    I bought my boyfriend a headset so when I am not playing too, I don't have to know when every air strike or haduken is arriving ;) That's love.
  • i_am_losing_it
    i_am_losing_it Posts: 310 Member
    If she's asking....she's really saying, show me you love me.

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Exactly This.
  • ihateroses
    ihateroses Posts: 893 Member
    Him:"...Hey, you ready to go yet?"
    Me: (with no pants on): "Hold on....lemme just kill one more sasquatch before the double XP event is over."
    Him:"...."


    Therefore, he does not get in trouble for ignoring me during football. Win win.
  • Justjoshin
    Justjoshin Posts: 999 Member
    If she has to ask, you are doing it wrong.

    No it's: If she's talking, you're doing it wrong.

    Excellent
  • catattack13
    catattack13 Posts: 117 Member
    I only speak when spoken to, so don't have to worry about this.
  • zenchild
    zenchild Posts: 680 Member
    I used my Christmas gift cards to buy an xbox kinect. That's love. And if I feel I'm being ignored, I've found that the best way to get his attention is to leap across the bed/couch and bite him. Works every time.
  • KareninCanada
    KareninCanada Posts: 962 Member
    when she asks "are you listening" she really means?!

    Likely, "Are you listening?"
  • AlmstHvn
    AlmstHvn Posts: 376 Member
    when she asks "are you listening" she really means?!
    She knows you aren't, but is hoping you'll surprise her
  • bregalad5
    bregalad5 Posts: 3,965 Member
    I say, "hey, let's do our daily quests and spend some time together"

    Oh the joys of long-distance relationships where you play the same MMO :tongue:
  • trijoe
    trijoe Posts: 729 Member
    when she asks "are you listening" she really means?!
    She knows you aren't, but is hoping you'll surprise her

    Newly married "Are you listening?": translation - "I hope you're paying attention to me.":flowerforyou:
    Reply: "Yes dear, I am. Here's what you said...":flowerforyou:

    Old married couple "Are you listening?": translation - "I don't care how much of that you got, so long as I can complain about it, then reiterate my one and only actual point.":grumble:
    Reply: "Am I supposed to be?":huh:
  • walkwithme1
    walkwithme1 Posts: 492 Member
    Old married couple "Are you listening?": translation - "I don't care how much of that you got, so long as I can complain about it, then reiterate my one and only actual point.":grumble:
    Reply: "Am I supposed to be?":huh:
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    ^^^this! So true!
  • AlmstHvn
    AlmstHvn Posts: 376 Member
    Ever heard Sean Morey's song "He Said, She Heard"?
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=arhyBWucu-s

    ... Do you have to BREATHE.... *giggle
  • hapoo100
    hapoo100 Posts: 926 Member
    I only speak when spoken to, so don't have to worry about this.

    :heart: :heart: :flowerforyou: :heart: :heart:
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