Woman who don't like men with tons of muscles

1Timothy4v8
1Timothy4v8 Posts: 503 Member
edited December 16 in Fitness and Exercise
o.k. so I just wanted to hear from other woman who like me don't really find themselves attracted to overly muscly men,

what type are you attracted to, lean, pudgy, ect?

I like men that are tall and very lean with a sense of muscles but have a little bit of pudge over the muscles
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  • runnercheryl
    runnercheryl Posts: 1,314 Member
    For me, anything from this (not him, just the figure in this picture):

    brad-pitt.jpg

    to obesity.

    Any more muscle is a turn-off, as would be any thinner.

    My fiancé is morbidly obese, and of course I find him incredibly attractive.
  • 1Timothy4v8
    1Timothy4v8 Posts: 503 Member
    For me, anything from this (not him, just the figure in this picture):

    brad-pitt.jpg

    to obesity.

    Any more muscle is a turn-off, as would be any thinner.

    My fiancé is morbidly obese, and of course I find him incredibly attractive.

    yea that was kinda what I was trying to explain, he has muscels and like pudge over the mucels, my hubby is very very lean And I love it!
  • skinnyinnotime
    skinnyinnotime Posts: 4,078 Member
    I like them lean, muscle is good, but for me not in a body builder extreme. Am not at all attracted to overweight men.
  • minadeathclutch
    minadeathclutch Posts: 375 Member
    heres my type of man :D bwahahah!!

    brock-lesnar-workout-picture.jpg
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    I don't see the point of this topic or how it's "fitness and exercise" related. Only curlbros are doing it to just impress women. Sex has power, but not enough to make a man dedicate a large chunk of time to getting strong and muscular.
  • honestlysweet
    honestlysweet Posts: 221 Member
    I love big muscles. That is all.
  • hesn92
    hesn92 Posts: 5,966 Member
    I like muscles just not really big ones.. I don't want a beefy man. I don't know how to do pictures in here or I would post some. Sorry.
  • 1Timothy4v8
    1Timothy4v8 Posts: 503 Member
    I don't see the point of this topic or how it's "fitness and exercise" related. Only curlbros are doing it to just impress women. Sex has power, but not enough to make a man dedicate a large chunk of time to getting strong and muscular.

    Yea I probably miss posted it probably should have posted it in chit chat, ph well, the point was to show that woman dont just like one thing
  • Sl1ghtly
    Sl1ghtly Posts: 855 Member
    It is my opinion that women who say they don't like 'muscley men' only say so because a 'muscley man' hasn't taken interest in them.
  • mmstgr
    mmstgr Posts: 578 Member
    It is my opinion that women who say they don't like 'muscley men' only say so because a 'muscley man' hasn't taken interest in them.

    Zing!
  • mmstgr
    mmstgr Posts: 578 Member
    For me, anything from this (not him, just the figure in this picture):

    brad-pitt.jpg

    to obesity.

    Any more muscle is a turn-off, as would be any thinner.

    My fiancé is morbidly obese, and of course I find him incredibly attractive.

    I'm just curious... But if your fiance were to lose weight, and become healthy and fit, would you find him less attractive?
  • FlynnMacCallister
    FlynnMacCallister Posts: 172 Member
    Lean to outright wiry. <3
  • mfpcopine
    mfpcopine Posts: 3,093 Member
    I like boyish, leanly muscled men. I find hugely muscled guys kind of overwhelming and I am not attracted to obese men. I once went out with one, breaking my rule, and never again. He used to deliberately undermine my efforts to stay slim while judging me, if you can believe it.

    Men my age tend to have a gut, and I can take that. But grossly fat overall? No way.
  • albinogorilla
    albinogorilla Posts: 1,056 Member
    It is my opinion that women who say they don't like 'muscley men' only say so because a 'muscley man' hasn't taken interest in them.


    :laugh:
  • mkmacf
    mkmacf Posts: 101
    A little athletic and perhaps broad shouldered, but no six-packs and the like. Also, I would feel like a hypocrite trying to find some buff man-candy while I am this big.
  • elelat
    elelat Posts: 117
    The only thing I dont like is when they look like stiff or numb...
  • jumperchick
    jumperchick Posts: 79
    i have always dated really stick thin guys, but my bf of 2yrs has more muscle and a little bit of fat [hes not overweight at all hes just not a stcik] and i find him wayyyy more attractive than anyone else.
  • charismanoodles
    charismanoodles Posts: 343 Member
    I think I love men of all shapes, but extreme thinness is a put off, feel like I'm holding a child :| Gross lol
  • aproc
    aproc Posts: 1,033 Member
    That I don't understand. Haha, I'm dating a bodybuilder currently so I love me some muscles. :P
  • _HeathBar_
    _HeathBar_ Posts: 902 Member
    I think I love men of all shapes, but extreme thinness is a put off, feel like I'm holding a child :| Gross lol

    So true, really scrawny guys are big turn off for me. If I can crush your frail body with mine, we got problems. I'd rather have a man with some extra meat on his bones.
  • ihateroses
    ihateroses Posts: 893 Member
    If you can't bench press me GTFO....
    :bigsmile:
  • shaelataylor
    shaelataylor Posts: 224 Member
    i just dont like for it to go too extreme in either direction...not into insanely muscled men like body builders, but i dont want insanely thin men either. i would break either of those rules for personality though...but to just decide on looks, itd be somewhere in the middle, just kinda nicely toned basically i guess.
  • jaymek92
    jaymek92 Posts: 309 Member
    i like leaner guys.
    that being said, i fell in love and have been in a relationship for over a year with this man:
    33aa0i1.jpg
  • Lolli1986
    Lolli1986 Posts: 500 Member
    It is my opinion that women who say they don't like 'muscley men' only say so because a 'muscley man' hasn't taken interest in them.

    Oh snap! Except I've turned down my fair share of muscle...

    Big freaky useless muscles do put me off.... I like a man who is strong, but I don't like a man who is pumped up.... I've seen what happens to them when they stop lifting and go soft. My ex had those really tight, strong muscles that come from turning spanners, doing WORK, hiking around and doing calisthenics a bit every day... THAT is sexy.
  • nightscare0
    nightscare0 Posts: 33
    I don't think i could do one extreme or the other. Dating a guy with huge body-building muscles would probably intimidate me, and I would probably have to fight for mirror space. On the other hand scrawny and lean makes me feel like I would have to be the "man" in the relationship, a' la "Don't mess with me or my gf will kick your @$$&quot; type of deal. I think I guy who is inherently strong and comfortable is his masculinity is a big turn on. A little pudge doesn't bother me, but I wouldn't turn away from a little definition either!
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    If you'd asked me 13 years ago what my type was, I'd have said dark hair, pale, thin. Think Johnny Depp or Tommy Lee.

    Then I met a guy who was absolutely perfect for me in every way. And he was a chunky green eyed blonde. I realized that none of my preferences mattered one hill of beans when someone understood, respected, and cared about me (and me him) as much as this guy did.

    Individual chemistry trumps all.
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    i like leaner guys.
    that being said, i fell in love and have been in a relationship for over a year with this man:
    33aa0i1.jpg

    Lucky girl! He's got a nice back going there.
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    heres my type of man :D bwahahah!!

    brock-lesnar-workout-picture.jpg

    Actually, this guy is very muscular but not cut.

    I also like that body type.
  • Lolli1986
    Lolli1986 Posts: 500 Member
    lmao, women lie about this stuff...

    ETA: Let me clarify, 95% of the pictures these women post up look NOTHING like their husband/boyfriend. IF a woman says they don't like a certain bodytype, would these women still be with their boyfriend/husband if their body became that type?

    umm...yes? I don't overly like skinny and i don't overly like fat on a man, but if my boyfriend happened to go either way of course i'd still love him........ if he decided to become a gymrat and prioritise pumping right up i wouldn't stop loving him but would be more concerned than if he got thinner or fatter.

    (EDIT: in fact, my first boyfriend had to stop working out for a bit and got quite skinny, and my second boyfriend had to stop working out and got a layer of fat... i did not care at the time)

    it's not a lie to state a preference, you're just a good human if you don't let that preference dictate an entire relationship,

    (ugh, i'm slightly biased here though... my ex lost interest in me when i went from well fit to top end of healthy bmi WHILE INJURED FOR A YEAR. he certainly was lying when he said he 'preferred' fit girls - he could not stand anything less than a fit girl. ugh)
  • 99cherrypie99
    99cherrypie99 Posts: 205 Member
    I like a lean muscular body - like a swimmer or cyclist.
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