Woman who don't like men with tons of muscles
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I don't think i could do one extreme or the other. Dating a guy with huge body-building muscles would probably intimidate me, and I would probably have to fight for mirror space. On the other hand scrawny and lean makes me feel like I would have to be the "man" in the relationship, a' la "Don't mess with me or my gf will kick your @$$" type of deal. I think I guy who is inherently strong and comfortable is his masculinity is a big turn on. A little pudge doesn't bother me, but I wouldn't turn away from a little definition either!
That's pretty much me too. I don't care for the body builder look - where their muscles are so big that their skin looks like it's stretched thin to cover it all. With that said, I don't care for super thin guys that could afford to add on 20-40 pounds. I like them in the middle I guess.0 -
right?? he used to hold a deadlifting record when he was in high school (which might still be standing), plus, he was a competitive bodybuilder for like 3 years, so......Lucky girl! He's got a nice back going there.0 -
right?? he used to hold a deadlifting record when he was in high school (which might still be standing), plus, he was a competitive bodybuilder for like 3 years, so......Lucky girl! He's got a nice back going there.
My husband looked like this when we got married, but he's significantly pudgier now. I still think he's sexy and love him anyway.
I do think he's intimidated now that I can pick him up though. heheh... 0 -
o.k. so I just wanted to hear from other woman who like me don't really find themselves attracted to overly muscly men,
what type are you attracted to, lean, pudgy, ect?
I like men that are tall and very lean with a sense of muscles but have a little bit of pudge over the muscles
yup... My significant other is tall, skinny and has the cutest little love handles!0 -
The ideal guy for me is very tall, and lean so I can see the musculature, but not like he works at it or anything. I also like long, dark hair and light eyes. A nice olive/tan/dark skin tone helps too.0
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It is my opinion that women who say they don't like 'muscley men' only say so because a 'muscley man' hasn't taken interest in them.
Let me prove you wrong. I get hit on by all types.. and I STILL don't like muscly (steroid looking) men. Muscles that big screams major baggage to me.0 -
I like guys with a defined natural muscles...not body builders and not sticks. Right in between. My husband has a lot of natural muscle without having to work out. I love it!!0
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I don't want to lay my head on a rock...i prefer a soft pillow....
My hubby is a tall, overweight type....typical middle age firefighter
......but if he lost it all I'd still love him because he makes me laugh, makes me angry, makes me love, makes me see things differently and makes me a happy woman. 0 -
I guess this would make me an equal opportunity dater (if I were not happily married). I like lean musle (Micheal Phelps), beefy types (Randy Couture), body builders and even slightly pudgier guys. Guess I just like men, period.0
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I like tall, lean, muscular men, not body builder types. To me swimmers have the perfect body. Strong shoulders, muscular arms, small hips. Just my preference. I married a swimmer.0
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I definitely don't like really muscular guyas, and I don't like skinny guys. I think the reason I don't like muscular guys is because it is a sign of vanity, which I can't stand in men. I like rugged dudes that take ten minutes to get ready, and don't care where they buy their clothes, as long as they look decent. I love my husband's body, and trust me, it's not perfect. He is 5'10" and about 210lbs, but it looks real good on him.0
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I hope that what you are trying to say is that it's more about the person on the inside, rather than the outside. I say I like my husband's body now, but if he lost weight, I'm sure I'd like it just as much if not more.It is my opinion that women who say they don't like 'muscley men' only say so because a 'muscley man' hasn't taken interest in them.0 -
I don't like body builders.....you know the ones with veins popping out everywhere, so big they go sideways through doors.
I prefer a someone of average build with muscle definition and a six pack is a bonus. I think that picture of Brad Pitt is pretty nice.
I do like taller guys too, like 6 foot is great......180-225lbs0 -
pretty much the opposite of tons of muscles. not pudgy, thin. tall lanky. longer shaggy hair- that is still well kept. vans or converse shoes. glasses. clean shaven. geeky. smart. likes to play video games with me. you know :]
sporty guys arnt my thing at all.0 -
lean and muscular but not not overly cut up...tall...too muscular can make men look stocky...0
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i prefer men like my husband broad shoulder nice masculine build but comfy to cuddle or like i say :padded muscle: lol. if he lost weight i i would still love him as long as he wasn't stick thin. if he decided to get more buff i would still love him as long as it didn't look like he was flexing 24/7 covered in veins EWWWW i just HATE veins they gross me out but that's just me, i would still love him no matter what i would just prefer he not take it to far. also even if he was fatter i wouldn't care so long as he was still healthy and not morbidly obese, then i would need him to get fit.0
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I've dated muscly guys, bodybuilders, skinny boys, athletic guys and husky men. They were all great. It's not about the appearance, it's how they treat you. I'm married to great guy. He's built, but not overly loaded with muscles. He's healthy. I'm happily respected, pampered, married and in love!0
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I like all kinds of men...but it's hypothetical since I'm married. I don't mind muscular guys, and I've dated some in the past. Just don't like the steroid look or the "I think I'm muscular but it's mostly fat" type.0
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We all have a preference, some women like men with big muscles some don't. A lot of women say they get hit on by these guys, and reject them. That's a good example.
Like for me, I don't any one who's at least 5'9" with a modeling contract, blonde hair, blue eyes, longer than shoulder length hair, clear complexion and athletic figure.
Blue eyes? That's gross. I wouldn't even talk to a woman if she had blue eyes. blech.0 -
We all have a preference, some women like men with big muscles some don't. A lot of women say they get hit on by these guys, and reject them. That's a good example.
Like for me, I don't any one who's at least 5'9" with a modeling contract, blonde hair, blue eyes, longer than shoulder length hair, clear complexion and athletic figure.
Blue eyes? That's gross. I wouldn't even talk to a woman if she had blue eyes. blech.
If she's brunette with blue eyes, that's okay too.
No, blue eyes with any color hair is disgusting. Blue is the color of the ocean. Fish **** in the ocean. HOW DO YOU NOT SEE THE CONNECTION?!!?!?0 -
You may scoff, but oddly, I have never been attracted to a blue-eyed man.We all have a preference, some women like men with big muscles some don't. A lot of women say they get hit on by these guys, and reject them. That's a good example.
Like for me, I don't any one who's at least 5'9" with a modeling contract, blonde hair, blue eyes, longer than shoulder length hair, clear complexion and athletic figure.
Blue eyes? That's gross. I wouldn't even talk to a woman if she had blue eyes. blech.0 -
We all have a preference, some women like men with big muscles some don't. A lot of women say they get hit on by these guys, and reject them. That's a good example.
Like for me, I don't any one who's at least 5'9" with a modeling contract, blonde hair, blue eyes, longer than shoulder length hair, clear complexion and athletic figure.
Blue eyes? That's gross. I wouldn't even talk to a woman if she had blue eyes. blech.
If she's brunette with blue eyes, that's okay too.
No, blue eyes with any color hair is disgusting. Blue is the color of the ocean. Fish **** in the ocean. HOW DO YOU NOT SEE THE CONNECTION?!!?!?
Well it doesn't bother me too much, I can learn to deal with it. She just has to be a model with a modeling contract.
Runway or catalog?0 -
You may scoff, but oddly, I have never been attracted to a blue-eyed man.We all have a preference, some women like men with big muscles some don't. A lot of women say they get hit on by these guys, and reject them. That's a good example.
Like for me, I don't any one who's at least 5'9" with a modeling contract, blonde hair, blue eyes, longer than shoulder length hair, clear complexion and athletic figure.
Blue eyes? That's gross. I wouldn't even talk to a woman if she had blue eyes. blech.
That makes perfect sense. I will defer to my reason why in my other post.0 -
It is my opinion that women who say they don't like 'muscley men' only say so because a 'muscley man' hasn't taken interest in them.
False.0 -
I'll be sorta attention whorey and put myself out there for judgement, granted this pic is from November and I think I've made better progress since then.
:drinker: Go ahead...give your opinion if you want, I can take it.
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It is my opinion that women who say they don't like 'muscley men' only say so because a 'muscley man' hasn't taken interest in them.
Not. I used to be married to a "muscley man", and I've dated a few others, and also some "long and lanky" types. I don't pick my men just by looks or body type, thus the wide range. My preference, however, is (and always has been) the cuddly teddy bear type. That's what I think is the sexiest.0 -
We all have a preference, some women like men with big muscles some don't. A lot of women say they get hit on by these guys, and reject them. That's a good example.
Like for me, I don't any one who's at least 5'9" with a modeling contract, blonde hair, blue eyes, longer than shoulder length hair, clear complexion and athletic figure.
Blue eyes? That's gross. I wouldn't even talk to a woman if she had blue eyes. blech.
If she's brunette with blue eyes, that's okay too.
No, blue eyes with any color hair is disgusting. Blue is the color of the ocean. Fish **** in the ocean. HOW DO YOU NOT SEE THE CONNECTION?!!?!?
Well it doesn't bother me too much, I can learn to deal with it. She just has to be a model with a modeling contract.
Runway or catalog?
I like catalog better, I like girls like this, but I don't like her pouch. No one is perfect so it's okay.
Dude wtf? Her thighs are almost touching!0 -
why is this conversation in the fitness and exercise forum and not the chit chat forum?0
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why is this conversation in the fitness and exercise forum and not the chit chat forum?
People need to know what they're supposed to be aiming for with their training. You should be taking notes as to what people on the interwebs find attractive.0 -
We all have a preference, some women like men with big muscles some don't. A lot of women say they get hit on by these guys, and reject them. That's a good example.
Like for me, I don't any one who's at least 5'9" with a modeling contract, blonde hair, blue eyes, longer than shoulder length hair, clear complexion and athletic figure.
Blue eyes? That's gross. I wouldn't even talk to a woman if she had blue eyes. blech.
If she's brunette with blue eyes, that's okay too.
No, blue eyes with any color hair is disgusting. Blue is the color of the ocean. Fish **** in the ocean. HOW DO YOU NOT SEE THE CONNECTION?!!?!?
Well it doesn't bother me too much, I can learn to deal with it. She just has to be a model with a modeling contract.
Runway or catalog?
I like catalog better, I like girls like this, but I don't like her pouch. No one is perfect so it's okay.
Dude wtf? Her thighs are almost touching!
*waves hand in the air* Hey I would be happy to fix that for her... :bigsmile:0
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