Woman who don't like men with tons of muscles

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  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    If you can't count her ribs she needs to drop some weight bro.
  • Shock_Wave
    Shock_Wave Posts: 1,573 Member
    If you can't count her ribs she needs to drop some weight bro.

    That doesnt bother me I just have a big <3 <=====3 heart what can I say. :drinker:
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    why is this conversation in the fitness and exercise forum and not the chit chat forum?

    People need to know what they're supposed to be aiming for with their training. You should be taking notes as to what people on the interwebs find attractive.

    Some people in life just have low standards for what they like, it's important to raise your standards so you're happy.

    Happiness is found in acceptance from others. And nobody's going to accept you if you're not physically ideal.
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    why is this conversation in the fitness and exercise forum and not the chit chat forum?

    People need to know what they're supposed to be aiming for with their training. You should be taking notes as to what people on the interwebs find attractive.

    Some people in life just have low standards for what they like, it's important to raise your standards so you're happy.

    Happiness is found in acceptance from others. And nobody's going to accept you if you're not physically ideal.

    ideal has different meaning to different people.

    No. This thread shows what ideal is. All men must look like Brad Pitt and all women must look like Victoria's Secret models. Anything in between is clearly just settling for less.
  • tameko2
    tameko2 Posts: 31,634 Member
    I thought we don't like boys, isn't it cars and money?

    Now I'm confused.

    (PS I don't know what this conversation is about. Is it about what body type I most enjoy looking at? Or is it about what body type I would enjoy being in a sexual relationship with? Because I mean there's certainly some overlap there but in the later category body is such a small factor in choosing to have a relationship with someone that I really don't know if I could quantify it. And there's interpersonal chemistry like LorinaLynn said that isn't' even about looks or personality - its pheremones or something, seriously.)
  • Shock_Wave
    Shock_Wave Posts: 1,573 Member
    If you can't count her ribs she needs to drop some weight bro.

    That doesnt bother me I just have a big <3 <=====3 heart what can I say. :drinker:

    You seem to have good size, you can have any woman you want... pick one, i'll set it up

    LOL Nah thanks bro. Woman who don't like men with tons of muscles are a bit to shallow for me. I work out very hard to try to gain lean muscle and to be in the best healthy shape I can possibly be shooting for the stars.But what seperates me from these women here is that I look more into ones personality than ones physical shape because like money, fat, and muscle can always come and go but to find a great personality is a real treasured beauty reguardless of fat or muscles.
  • missxjuicy
    missxjuicy Posts: 205 Member
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  • love22step
    love22step Posts: 1,103 Member
    It is my opinion that women who say they don't like 'muscley men' only say so because a 'muscley man' hasn't taken interest in them.

    You would be wrong. :flowerforyou: A good physique is nice, but too much muscle is a turn-off for me. It's probably because I dated a nice enough guy who walked on his hands on the beach, lifted me, seemingly effortlessly, onto his shoulders, and wore size "small" knit shirts to show off his muscles. That was more than I could tolerate.
  • ssweet1020
    ssweet1020 Posts: 39 Member
    I personally am not a huge fan of bulging muscles, but it is not a turn off. That being said if my husband were to get all "beefed up" I would love him just the name and be happy that he was happy.
  • super_jade
    super_jade Posts: 72
    Ive dated thin guys, tall guys, chubby guys theyre all different i dont think its the size that matters its who they are that makes them sexy!
  • Shock_Wave
    Shock_Wave Posts: 1,573 Member
    If you can't count her ribs she needs to drop some weight bro.

    That doesnt bother me I just have a big <3 <=====3 heart what can I say. :drinker:

    You seem to have good size, you can have any woman you want... pick one, i'll set it up

    LOL Nah thanks bro. Woman who don't like men with tons of muscles are a bit to shallow for me. I work out very hard to try to gain lean muscle and to be in the best healthy shape I can possibly be shooting for the stars.But what seperates me from these women here is that I look more into ones personality than ones physical shape because like money, fat, and muscle can always come and go but to find a great personality is a real treasured beauty reguardless of fat or muscles.

    I am honestly a picky guy, but sometimes i like girls who i don't think are attractive, it's their personality.

    haha for me they have to be at least cute with some personality but as far as body types its not that big of a deal to me.
  • Pebble321
    Pebble321 Posts: 6,423 Member
    Are we talking about "like to look at" or "like to be in a relationship with"?.... because that's two very different things.

    For me, it's nice to see a fit, muscly guy with a nice shape (broad shoulders), but I don't really find the bulging, super defined look very attractive. I also don't really like that "undies low on the hips, very defined V" look that guys seem to think is so important. When I see photos like that I just want to say "pull your pants up and stop posing!"

    To be in a relationship with - looks actually aren't that important. I've dated guys who are everywhere along the spectrum from small and slight to HUGE and muscular, with obese, overweight and healthy weight thrown in there too. My husband is a little shorter than me and has broad shoulders and nice firm muscles - and I think he looks lovely, but that's more because I love who he is> I don't love him any more or less because he's started working out lately. I'm pleased that he is being concious of getting fitter and healthier because that give us a better chance of having lots of years together.

    Like everything else, different people are attracted to different things..... which is pretty damn lucky really!
  • Lolli1986
    Lolli1986 Posts: 500 Member
    We all have a preference, some women like men with big muscles some don't. A lot of women say they get hit on by these guys, and reject them. That's a good example.

    Like for me, I don't any one who's at least 5'9" with a modeling contract, blonde hair, blue eyes, longer than shoulder length hair, clear complexion and athletic figure.

    less of a joke than you think....

    men talk about what they are attracted to in a woman ALL the time... why so much bashing when women do it.

    And hey, how about we remember that it's actually beneficial for men to hear that, 'hey, i don't need to try to compete with the guys on roids by taking roids too because girls don't actually desire muscle that much'.

    i'm one of the ones who has turned down muscle... for various reasons. one was an arrogant d*ck who thought i'd melt at the thought that someone so hot would want me.
  • love22step
    love22step Posts: 1,103 Member
    Ive dated thin guys, tall guys, chubby guys theyre all different i dont think its the size that matters its who they are that makes them sexy!

    You hit on something there! Don't tell my husband, but the sexiest guy I've ever known was also one of the least physically attractive men I've ever known. He had a hook nose, a large mouth, and his hips were disproportionately wide. That said, his wit, intelligence, manliness, take-charge demeanor, and caring attitude attracted lots of women. I actually became interested in my husband because he reminded me of that guy. My husband's physical characteristics are better, but it's the personality I fell in love with. I'm very happy with my choice.
  • Nopedotjpeg
    Nopedotjpeg Posts: 1,805 Member
    We all have a preference, some women like men with big muscles some don't. A lot of women say they get hit on by these guys, and reject them. That's a good example.

    Like for me, I don't any one who's at least 5'9" with a modeling contract, blonde hair, blue eyes, longer than shoulder length hair, clear complexion and athletic figure.

    less of a joke than you think....

    men talk about what they are attracted to in a woman ALL the time... why so much bashing when women do it.

    And hey, how about we remember that it's actually beneficial for men to hear that, hey, i don't need to try to compete with the guys on roids by taking roids too because girls don't actually desire muscle that much.

    i'm one of the ones who has turned down muscle... for various reasons. one was an arrogant d*ck who thought i'd melt at the thought that someone so hot would want me.

    Instead they want Brad Pitt and competing MMA fighters. LOL
  • fatcellsuck
    fatcellsuck Posts: 184
    What about me! What about! me!??????????????????????????
  • katythemommy
    katythemommy Posts: 437 Member
    I think I love men of all shapes, but extreme thinness is a put off, feel like I'm holding a child :| Gross lol

    So true, really scrawny guys are big turn off for me. If I can crush your frail body with mine, we got problems. I'd rather have a man with some extra meat on his bones.

    lmao same here. I find lots of guys attractive within a whole range of body types, except for extremely thin and no muscles!
  • jenj1313
    jenj1313 Posts: 898 Member
    Tall ( > 6 ft), lean to muscular... a little fat's ok, but not too much. MUST weigh more than I do!
  • jenj1313
    jenj1313 Posts: 898 Member
    What about me! What about! me!??????????????????????????
    too much facial hair.
  • katythemommy
    katythemommy Posts: 437 Member
    What about me! What about! me!??????????????????????????
    too much facial hair.

    I love the facial hair!!
  • Lolli1986
    Lolli1986 Posts: 500 Member
    We all have a preference, some women like men with big muscles some don't. A lot of women say they get hit on by these guys, and reject them. That's a good example.

    Like for me, I don't any one who's at least 5'9" with a modeling contract, blonde hair, blue eyes, longer than shoulder length hair, clear complexion and athletic figure.

    less of a joke than you think....

    men talk about what they are attracted to in a woman ALL the time... why so much bashing when women do it.

    And hey, how about we remember that it's actually beneficial for men to hear that, hey, i don't need to try to compete with the guys on roids by taking roids too because girls don't actually desire muscle that much.

    i'm one of the ones who has turned down muscle... for various reasons. one was an arrogant d*ck who thought i'd melt at the thought that someone so hot would want me.

    Instead they want Brad Pitt and competing MMA fighters. LOL

    i think that if you bothered to read what the women were saying you'd see quite a consensus of 'looks don't matter that much' even for those who prefer less muscle. seriously, that is a good thing to know. the vast majority of women are not holding men up to some impossible standard.

    i'm not seeing much of a reason to cry in the comments here.
  • Leiki
    Leiki Posts: 526 Member
    I don't like extremely large muscles or extremely obese. I prefer thin, cut, or chubby, but most importantly I like personality. A good personality makes men sexier.
  • klynn81
    klynn81 Posts: 178 Member
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    Yup...I see I'm not the only one who finds him sexy. :love:
  • msbanana
    msbanana Posts: 793 Member
    I have the big cuddly teddy bear type and I LOVE him but I'll be honest... If this gentleman were to walk by I would look twice or three times... Ok, I'd probably stare unabashedly and drool but DAMN. The dedication it takes to look like this man...

    http://www.simplyshredded.com/international-fitness-model-ulisses-williams-jr-talks-with-simplyshredded-com.html
  • katythemommy
    katythemommy Posts: 437 Member
    I have the big cuddly teddy bear type and I LOVE him but I'll be honest... If this gentleman were to walk by I would look twice or three times... Ok, I'd probably stare unabashedly and drool but DAMN. The dedication it takes to look like this man...

    international-fitness-model-ulisses-williams-jr-talks-with-simplyshredded-com.html

    I love the big cuddly teddy bear type! But really, any type is my type - personality plays a much bigger role in men who I find attractive.
  • JaenaM
    JaenaM Posts: 251 Member
    i prefer a man with extra fat than one who is skin and bones any day.
  • bexkee
    bexkee Posts: 20
    lol
  • Pebble321
    Pebble321 Posts: 6,423 Member
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    Yup...I see I'm not the only one who finds him sexy. :love:

    Now that's exactly the kind of picture that makes me want to say "pull up your pants and stop posing" (see my post above!)
  • mustgetmuscles1
    mustgetmuscles1 Posts: 3,346 Member
    I find it interesting that so many people think body builders have some kind of personality defect or issues. Is this from personal experience or a common stereotype? Not trolling just curious. Personally I have found most tuff guy with attitude problems were the Strong/fat bouncer kind of guys. The few body builders that I have seen around seem to be pretty cool but I dont know any very well. Never had any experience with the roided out meat head kind of guys though so I have nothing to go on there.
  • LaurenAOK
    LaurenAOK Posts: 2,475 Member
    I like tall, lean guys. Not flabby or overweight at all, just not "built." I guess the best word to describe my type would be "lanky." Me gusta lanky.
    It is my opinion that women who say they don't like 'muscley men' only say so because a 'muscley man' hasn't taken interest in them.

    Uh, yeah, no. The attraction just isn't there. I actually dated a bodybuilder. He wasn't as crazy ripped as the guys you see on TV, but certainly more muscled than any of the guys I usually take an interest in. I broke things off because I just couldn't make myself find him that attractive.

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