Woman who don't like men with tons of muscles

I don't think I have a typical body type I find attractive. My two ultimate celeb crushes are Robert Pattinson and The Rock. Two complete opposite ends of the spectrum there!!! Rob is pretty thin with almost no muscle. But I love The Rock and all of his muscles! My husband is in the middle - works out a lot and has decent sized muscles.

It is my opinion that women who say they don't like 'muscley men' only say so because a 'muscley man' hasn't taken interest in them.

Nope. Sorry. Been there, dated that, done that. It is just not as attractive to me. There are a lot of them that are good looking, just not what I go for. I like a well defined back, lean, but not too lean, I am ok with a little belly even, strong arms, but not hulk style.

But, it is my opinion that men who say that women who dont like muscley men because they haven't been approached, only say so because they only go for Barbie dolls, and I don't wanna be that girl and would prefer that mindset to NOT take interest in me.

Plus, steroids really wreak havoc on the skin, personality and drive and equipment. No thanks. I will take a slightly doughy stallion rather than a pumped up pony.

this isn't manly.



this is what a man looks like:





I hope you ladies would want a guy that could actually do something if you were getting attacked.

Hear, hear! I want other guys to *kitten* themselves when they see my man coming, so yeah, muscles are where it's at.

It is my opinion that women who say they don't like 'muscley men' only say so because a 'muscley man' hasn't taken interest in them.

My Boyfreind is Muscly... I would prefer him to be less so..
Of course he wants to be bigger, i would find it a real turnoff if he was bigger than he is now.

If he wanted to get more cut and defined, tha'ts fine by me, but adding more size... no thanks.

I like guys chat have muscles just not a lot or maybe a little chubby. I really don't care that much If I think they're hot then I think they're hot.

I agree!!!

I may not find someone as attractive at first just because I judge by appearance (a little too much). I am the type of girl that, yes, I am physically attracted at first. But when I really fall is when I get to know someone and how they treat me. That's how I fell for my sweetheart. He treats me like a queen and that's why I care for him :-)

I find it interesting that so many people think body builders have some kind of personality defect or issues. Is this from personal experience or a common stereotype? Not trolling just curious. Personally I have found most tuff guy with attitude problems were the Strong/fat bouncer kind of guys. The few body builders that I have seen around seem to be pretty cool but I dont know any very well. Never had any experience with the roided out meat head kind of guys though so I have nothing to go on there.

yeah, really. boyfriend was a bodybuilder and he's the biggest sweetheart ever. he's not cocky or full of himself or anything. actually, he has self esteem issues that are at least as big as mine.
bodybuilders are people too, you guys. they just put in a lot more/stricter effort with their exercise and diets. and they spray tan and get rubbed down with oil every so often. that doesn't change their personalities. if they're a douche, it's because they're a douche, not because they're a bodybuilder.

I know it sounds lame, but I promise to redeem myself later; I don't actually care about looks. I have dated all types of men, tall short, thin, fat, ginger, blonde, etc.. and all I really want is intelligence and good conversation. That being said, if we're being shallow, I want a fricking Norse God.

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It is my opinion that women who say they don't like 'muscley men' only say so because a 'muscley man' hasn't taken interest in them.

Zing!

Well this isn't any where near true. I, personally can't stand really big muscles on men, and I get hit on my a lot of men like that. It's just something I'm not attracted too.

I have dated men with all different body types really. I will say though, 2 of my exes were really ripped/buff and one was HORRIBLE in bed and the other was mediocre at best. They were both pretty selfish in the bedroom honestly. No clue if it's like that with all muscular men, but it was with these 2. My current bf is tall and lean with some natural muscle tone and doesn't work out at all. I definitely prefer him over the muscle guys any day...

No, I work harder in the bedroom because it's harder for me to move my fat *kitten*... oh wait, that's not what you meant...

Christ, reading this thread was painful! Guys seem to be getting butthurt over nothing :huh:

this isn't manly.



this is what a man looks like:



I hope you ladies would want a guy that could actually do something if you were getting attacked.

I wonder how many women would even glance at the bottom dude if the top were anywhere nearby? I'm guessing not many. Brad Pitt wouldn't even make my top 10 best looking guy celebs, but seriously, no contest between those two.

I like all fit men. Anything other than that relating to body shape dosen't matter. ;o I actually don't mind super skinny either, I find it attractive, haha.

this isn't manly.



this is what a man looks like:



I hope you ladies would want a guy that could actually do something if you were getting attacked.

I wonder how many women would even glance at the bottom dude if the top were anywhere nearby? I'm guessing not many. Brad Pitt wouldn't even make my top 10 best looking guy celebs, but seriously, no contest between those two.

Ones who like strong guys. The bottom squats has squatted 1000 pounds.