Ummm ... This is a new issue at the gym

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rml_16
rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
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From the Dear Prudence column:

Q. Gym Romance: I'm a fit, attractive 30-something single woman who enjoys working out at my local gym. A few weeks ago I noticed a cute guy seemed to have a similar schedule as mine. We also seemed to have a similar workout routine—bike, weights, swim etc. I've tried smiling at him once or twice, to see if there was any interest, but neither of us has made the first move. Then yesterday, I returned to my stationary bike as I had forgotten to wipe it down, and I noticed that he was standing next to it, rubbing the damp seat with an odd look on his face. He then pretended to have dropped something, but I saw that he was actually sniffing the seat, before returning to the locker room. I don't think he realized that he had been spotted. How do I proceed? He is very attractive, and I guess he is into me as well. Do I say something about what I saw, or should I continue flirting with him knowing what I know?
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  • juicemoogan
    juicemoogan Posts: 999 Member
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    ***Weirdo alert****

    If you aren't totally grossed out by that... i really cant give you advice.. (or whoever the poster of the question was i mean as i assume it wasnt you..) right?
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
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    ***Weirdo alert****

    If you aren't totally grossed out by that... i really cant give you advice..

    No kidding! I mean, I don't care how good-looking a guy is, if he's sniffing a seat I was just sitting on, that's a deal-breaker.
  • morgansmom02
    morgansmom02 Posts: 1,139 Member
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    That is super nasty!
  • LittleMissNerdy
    LittleMissNerdy Posts: 792 Member
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    LOL I read this yesterday and thought about posting it.
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
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    That's kind of nasty, but if that's the only thing wrong with him, is it a deal breaker? Though it sucks that's one of the first things you found out.

    Hey, I'm realistic.
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
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    I fail to see the problem. That means he should have no qualms going down




    to clean your bike seat.
  • Ezwoldo
    Ezwoldo Posts: 369 Member
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    LOL Love it :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:



    I almost spat my afternoon tea out



    Now you can go one of 2 ways with this

    1) Ignore him from now on and live never really knowing what he did

    or

    2) Try and get to know him a bit before to tarnish him with the nutter brush and try get a date with him at least when on a date you can ask him in a humorous way with out him being offended.




    and anyway us Men do some strange things at time like you women do.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
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    That's kind of nasty, but if that's the only thing wrong with him, is it a deal breaker? Though it sucks that's one of the first things you found out.

    Hey, I'm realistic.

    Yes. That would be a deal-breaker for me. If it's not for you, then that's good news for him, that there are women who will overlook something like that. I'm just not one of them.
  • Cberg9
    Cberg9 Posts: 123
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    I fail to see the problem. That means he should have no qualms going down




    to clean your bike seat.

    Hell ya!! Love a good.....Bike seat cleaner.....
  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,522 Member
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    This is awesome
  • Krizzle4Rizzle
    Krizzle4Rizzle Posts: 2,704 Member
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    It shows he likes the poon. Jump on that!
  • xo_morgan
    xo_morgan Posts: 298
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    Who knows, after smelling it...he may not even want HER.:sick:
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
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    Weird.
    Just freaking weird.
  • SinIsIn
    SinIsIn Posts: 1,865 Member
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    I fail to see the problem. That means he should have no qualms going down




    to clean your bike seat.


    LMAO!!!!
  • ErinBeth7
    ErinBeth7 Posts: 1,625 Member
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    Who knows, after smelling it...he may not even want HER.:sick:

    HA!!
  • _HeathBar_
    _HeathBar_ Posts: 902 Member
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    He was just smelling your pheromones. According to the Discovery channel, this is totally normal for an adult male.
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,864 Member
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    It shows he likes the poon. Jump on that!

    This.
    Who knows, after smelling it...he may not even want HER. :sick:

    And this.

    And, c'mon, let he who hasn't sniffed a seat cast the first stone.
  • nammer79
    nammer79 Posts: 707 Member
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    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: OMG best read to start off my morning
  • fakeplastictree
    fakeplastictree Posts: 836 Member
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    He was just smelling your pheromones. According to the Discovery channel, this is totally normal for an adult male.

    ^^this.
  • shanlynt
    shanlynt Posts: 754 Member
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    NASTY

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