what makes someone sexy in your eyes???

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  • stephc0711
    stephc0711 Posts: 1,022 Member
    The eyes, hands and lips on a man... For women, it's a little more complicated, but definitely confidence and grace.
  • this is how i feel as well.

    Giving,
    Caring,
    Strong work ethinic,
    Sense of humor,
    Great teeth,
    Confident in himself (but not self absorbed),
    In shape,
    And he needs to think I am beautiful :smile:


    (sorry but I am picky :laugh: )
  • aquarianpixi
    aquarianpixi Posts: 131 Member
    a nice smile, eyes, and laugh. btw someone can have a beautiful smile without having perfect teeth. I don't care how fit someone is. People think it's weird that I don't look at a stranger and think they are hot. Sexiness becomes apparent after I get to know a person.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Looks fade, and if they are not classically handsome, they are more likely to be loyal....

    I've found there's only a small relation between appearance and a likelihood of cheating. Often...the lower level of self esteem can lead to seeking attention as reinforcement for their sense of self worth. It sucks...but unfortunately character is the only control for cheating...and that's something that's not directly related to appearance.
  • hennyben
    hennyben Posts: 313 Member
    Confidence. (the swagger like Ty said). Has to be able to make me laugh - proper laugh. Has to be able to do manly things like dig holes (big ones) and build things (not lego) and knock things down (not with a car)
  • Jennicia
    Jennicia Posts: 409 Member
    Looks fade, and if they are not classically handsome, they are more likely to be loyal....

    I've found there's only a small relation between appearance and a likelihood of cheating. Often...the lower level of self esteem can lead to seeking attention as reinforcement for their sense of self worth. It sucks...but unfortunately character is the only control for cheating...and that's something that's not directly related to appearance.

    ^^ so true
  • ScottyNoHotty
    ScottyNoHotty Posts: 1,957 Member
    The way her eyelids flutter when the chloroform kicks in.
  • kbmnurse
    kbmnurse Posts: 2,484 Member
    Their smile and self confidence.
  • allywalker23
    allywalker23 Posts: 9 Member
    What you don't have an *kitten*? :smile:
  • GOT2GETSLIM
    GOT2GETSLIM Posts: 8 Member
    Looks fade, and if they are not classically handsome, they are more likely to be loyal....

    I've found there's only a small relation between appearance and a likelihood of cheating. Often...the lower level of self esteem can lead to seeking attention as reinforcement for their sense of self worth. It sucks...but unfortunately character is the only control for cheating...and that's something that's not directly related to appearance.

    Totally Agree!
  • It's all in the Eyes!!!
  • The way her eyelids flutter when the chloroform kicks in.


    Hahaahahahahahahahaha! That is precious!!!
  • plushkitten
    plushkitten Posts: 547 Member
    It's kinda weird....

    But I find intelligence gained through ****ed up ways of thinking really, reaaaally hot.
    Think of Kurt Cobain...that kinda stuff :p
  • saralynn594
    saralynn594 Posts: 321
    Someone who is honest.
    Someone who can find out about my wild side and get the f over it.
    A man who can think for himself!
    A man who isn't afraid of letting me drive ;)
    A beard.
  • mybeach27
    mybeach27 Posts: 243
    TALL and muscular arms/shoulders, pref not very pale, and has to have a good sense .of humor and be able .to take jokes .and put up with a dirty mind because sometimes my mind wanders into some bad places :P
  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
    X-ray Glasses.
  • crazytreelady
    crazytreelady Posts: 752 Member
    males: The number one thing is intelligence, sense of humor, blue eyes, skinny fatness and men that are hairy

    women: natural red/ auburn hair, dark skin, freckles, birthmarks and looking like an amazonian warrior.
  • A really great smile and gorgeous eyes. Amazing hair is a plus, too.
  • Cait_Sidhe
    Cait_Sidhe Posts: 3,150 Member
    Intellect and sarcasm.
  • stayxtrue
    stayxtrue Posts: 1,186 Member
    simple - Someone who is themself...not trying to pose as anything else.. If someone is true to themselves and who they are then if the attraction is there, then they just become super awesome!

    I have met some of the hottest chicks... at first they seem freaking hot! then you get to know them and you look at them and become unattracted to them.. So just be real with your self :)
  • jaydubbayu
    jaydubbayu Posts: 456
    Everybody's "looks" are the first thing you see, but the confidence and personality are what you get to afterwards. That's the good stuff. Personally, I like a real smartass! Not a dumbass!
  • Firefighter_Jay
    Firefighter_Jay Posts: 426 Member
    If a woman can bench press me, I melt :)
  • DarkNebula84
    DarkNebula84 Posts: 445 Member
    males: The number one thing is intelligence, sense of humor, blue eyes, skinny fatness and men that are hairy

    women: natural red/ auburn hair, dark skin, freckles, birthmarks and looking like an amazonian warrior.


    She sounds HOT!!!! :tongue: :laugh:
  • Brinasacat
    Brinasacat Posts: 505 Member
    They're a good father, they help out around the house, and they're considerate. That is sexy to me!
  • A charming smile, a sense of humor, and the willingness to climb every mountain I can get my little hands on :)
  • HJSilva
    HJSilva Posts: 29
    The right amount of confidence is so much more attractive than any physical aspect.
  • Carnivorekat
    Carnivorekat Posts: 370 Member
    I think it is all about the eyes for me, don't care about weight or any thing like that but its what their eyes are like that defines sexy for me, I love a twinkling set of eyes - like a nice bum too xx lol
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    As far as how she looks,there is no set definition other then feminine,I don`t have a deal breaker body type or size.

    Personality is the most important and being able to have a thoughtful conversation,being decent and witty are keys as well as her treating me as if I was sexy to her.
    That is the real thing.
  • Carnivorekat
    Carnivorekat Posts: 370 Member
    thinking about it a bit deeper and the voice has to be right too - I think John Hurt is very sexy could listen to his voice forever
  • Allie_71
    Allie_71 Posts: 1,063 Member
    When it just seems effortless. Male or female....
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