Serious bewb question, no pervs please
We have just opened up our pool / hot tub. (Spring has arrived in my neck of the woods -yay) On Friday we will have company for the weekend and the hot tub will be where we hang out for the evening. I don't have the time nor the inclination to go buy another bathing suit... but my two from last year are too big -gaping... and one I bought for the future fits better in the body but covers a wee (okay a LOT) bit less than I am used to.. I go for FULL bewb coverage, so will wearing something that is in no way porn-starish but still more revealing than usual make me look like I'm out of my mind / grasping / attention seeking / etc. ??????
This is a big change and I'm very nervous to present myself to our friends in a way that I have never done before. I'm considering skipping the hot tub and waiting for when it's just me and hubby...
This is a big change and I'm very nervous to present myself to our friends in a way that I have never done before. I'm considering skipping the hot tub and waiting for when it's just me and hubby...
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Wear what you are comfortable with, by all means.
And who knows, maybe your friends will appreciate the new, skimpier suits on you. :flowerforyou:0 -
You didn't ask a question, but my recommendation for this scenario would be to buy a new bathing suit that makes you feel more comfortable.
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If you are uncomfortable then don't do it, there's nothing worse than being self-conscious all night! Maybe wear a cover up or go ahead and buy a suit with a little more coverage for times like this.0
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You didn't ask a question, but my recommendation for this scenario would be to buy a new bathing suit that makes you feel more comfortable.
-wtk
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Why can't I post here!?!?!?!? So unfair!!!!!
To answer in my opinion though, I think you'll probably spend a lot more time worrying about it than other folks will. You said yourself it's not indecent, so it'll be fine. The real question is how it will affect you. If it'll ruin your night, then you may want to consider getting a new suit. If not, then have fun rocking the dental floss (kidding)0 -
No matter what your size, go out and get things that fit properly and look nice. You will always feel and look your very best if you do. And you will never have to worry about how you feel or what people think, of falling out or anything.0
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wear the new top, but wear a tank top over it- there is no reason to miss your own party fun- just cover the puppies up a bit- you will be more comfortable eventually!
Good for you for needing a smaller size!0 -
When in doubt or questioning your comfort level you might want to wait. But I am the wrong person to ask. I feel more self conscious in a swimming suit that nude. So I never wear one.
Shirley
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I make my wife wear a burka while swimming its what makes me the most comfortable0
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Do what feels most comfortable to you. If you don't feel comfortable being more uncovered than don't. I do agree with a poster above - you are probably more worried about it than your friends are. Good luck with your decision.0
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I'd take this more seriously if the word "bewb" wasn't used.0
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When I'm with family I go with a one piece suit and shorts over it. If you only have a 2 pc - just wear a t-shirt over it. That's a pretty common cover when nothing else is available.0
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Without a doubt, do what you are comfortable with. If you aren't comfortable in the suit it will be VERY obvious. Maybe try it on for hubby and ask his opinion - but if YOU think you need more coverage, just go pick up something new. You'll be able to enjoy your friends WAY more if you're comfortable!0
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Why can't I post here!?!?!?!? So unfair!!!!!
This is what I was thinking! This is discrimination! :laugh:0 -
I make my wife wear a burka while swimming its what makes me the most comfortable
Funny.. most guys would say no nekkid and turn those friends into "close" friends hahaha!0 -
I make my wife wear a burka while swimming its what makes me the most comfortable
Funny.. most guys would say no nekkid and turn those friends into "close" friends hahaha!
Lol, she said no pervs, so I improvised!0 -
It's your pool/hot tub. Why can't you wear whatever suit is comfortable with a t-shirt over top?0
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Why not wear a tank top or something over it?0
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NO, but it is YOUR hot tub!!! you can wear what you want! A sports bra, a pair of pastys, nothing at all...... I would wear the one that is revealing. It is probably not as bad as you see it in your mind anyway.0
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