What do doctors know? (warning: rant)

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  • 2April
    2April Posts: 285 Member
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    My background is in law not medicine, but for us going to court should only be considered after all other means of resolving an issue have failed (even though going to court usually means more money for the lawyer).

    In medicine shouldn't it be the same? That is, a drug should usually only be prescribed after non-chemical means of resolving the complaint have been explored. I understand that physicians are pressed for time and are pressured for a quick fix (and get more money when they write prescriptions). However, that is why it might sometimes be safer on the message boards.

    **Also how can one determine "[p]rescribing that antidepressant (I'm assuming it was trazadone) ... a really well-informed and up to date move," without having any more info regarding the length or severity of the insomnia or any other particulars?
    I have a huge problem with modern medicine, specifically because quite simply it's a business. A business has a job to make money, and as such is biased. Aside from the conspiracy on the modern medicinal society which you can get enough bullroar about by using google, I would also have to point to the statistics of how many doctors make mistakes, and the fact that a nurse working a normal shift will make an error in 1/4 of her decisions.

    Also while your doctor is given tons and tons of classes, they don't do a bit of good if they don't know everything about YOUR body. Every time a doctor prescribes something to you it's based on best guess. Yes they take into account what you look like when you walk through the door, your description of the symptoms etc. However in the end it really is just a quick calculation of something that matches around those symptoms.

    Also, that physical your describing is actually a pretty thorough physical if he's doing finger-rub and whatnot. Those are physical exam skills that a lot of doctors brush over these days but are legitimately part of it. Like I said, don't brush off something that you don't fully understand - just ask!
    The only way to really be sure of anything is to research yourself, know your entire body, and really understand the concept of a drug and what it's made to accomplish. That or get a family doctor who should know pretty much everything about you after 5-10 years of seeing him on a regular basis including yearly physicals.

    That all being said, at least a doctors guess is an EDUCATED one. So unless you truly have taken the time to educate yourself on your body and health, and how it all functions, you should definitely take your doctors advice. You may not like the advice, but it is a thousand times better than your best guess, and DEFINITELY a million times better than some random person posting online who hasn't even SEEN you in order to understand what symptoms you have that you don't even know about. Doctors are trained to take everything into account about you from the second you walk in the door, they see subtle things that you likely don't have a clue about.

    As with anything, any advice someone gives you should be taken with a grain of salt. Something like your health you should definitely research and fully understand so that you can make an educated decision at any given time. Otherwise you leave yourself at the mercy of others, either your friend who thinks they're a know it all, a random man in a white coat (who you have no idea how well he did in med school), or the internet (good people and trolls a like.).

    Indeed.

    I was having issues sleeping and my GP prescribed me an anti depressant. I am the least depressed person I know! I never took it but now whenever I'm not feeling well I tell my husband I'm going to go to Dr. X to get an anti depressant.

    I am not a big fan of doctors. My "physical" takes all of about ten minutes and it consists of me touching my toes and my doctor whispering a number in one ear while he rustles his hand in the other to see if I'm deaf. The most I've gotten out of a physical is that I have high arches. Seriously. (And no I don't go to him all the time, just use him as the reference for the spot you're forced to fill out when asked who your GP is on forms. I pretty much go to my gyno for everything)

    Prescribing that antidepressant (I'm assuming it was trazadone) was actually a really well-informed and up to date move. It doesn't have the addictive properties of benzos or the weird side effects and morning grogginess of some other things like ambien, and most of all it works. It's used all the time - if you were weirded out by the drug class you should have just talked it out with your doctor instead of just dismissing it. That said, melatonin is a good alternative.
  • livinginwoods
    livinginwoods Posts: 562 Member
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    My Dr. told me to join my fitness pal. I go in every 6 weeks to log progress but I know she doesn't know anything about diet.

    On another note I had to go to a special OB last week. She said I should try only eating 1500 calories to lose weight faster. I just smiled at her because I knew better.
  • khethil
    khethil Posts: 7 Member
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    I think a lot of our misgivings about guidance from Doctors comes from some of the unrealistic expectations we place on them. It seems to me that most (if not all) of us tend to think in two dimensions; as if they're GOOD or BAD, always RIGHT or WRONG. This is really a horrible way to look at it.

    Simply due to the fact that they're human means they're just as often mistaken (on any opinion or idea expressed) as we are. But because of their training and education we'd be woefully arrogant to categorically ignore their advice. Some of the thoughts I try to keep in mind when dealing with them are:

    - There's a good chance that any diagnosis/order is a "let's try this"-shot in the dark. Again, while this isn't ideal its a whole lot better than any shot I might take.

    - They're human; so be patient and respectful. But temper what they say with the knowledge that in all likelihood they're trying their best. Be grateful and receptive, but skeptical when your gut tells you

    - Don't blame the individuals holding the stethoscopes for the woes of the medical industry, capitalism or the last bad diagnosis you got. In all probability they're genuinely trying to help.

    So yea, drugs aren't 100% effective, people aren't perfect, costs are too high and mistakes are made. But don't throw the baby out with the bathwater. The current state of the industry and science are all we have at the moment. Make the best of it with a positive spin. The leeches and bloodletting of yesteryear were the 'newest thing' back then and future generations - who'll be just as much in the dark - will look upon our methods similarly.

    There's nothing wrong with barking at the moon, but know that doing so won't send it away
  • mwicklander87
    mwicklander87 Posts: 8 Member
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    The only doctor I have met that has truly been concerned about my nutrition and has advised me on it is my OBGYN...and I started seeing her when I was pregnant...so yea...(although I do have to admit she has continued to have solid advice after being pregnant as well). I've seen many doctors in my day (and I'm only 24...sports injuries...) and most of them are in the room for about a minute, diagnose me and then leave. While there are some good doctors out there, there are many bad doctors out there too. I had a doctor misdiagnose a back problem. He gave me some muscle relaxants, told me to lose some weight (no advice on how to do that) and stretch. Two months later when I could see a good doctor I was diagnosed with herniated disks (diagnosed through xray and MRI...not even suggested by other doctor). Always get a second opinion when you think something is awry.
  • mnkenned
    mnkenned Posts: 13 Member
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    I mean, I wasn't trying to diagnose or treat her on MFP. I'm not an idiot. I was simply saying that if her GP decided that her insomnia warranted medication, that certain anti-depressants are first-line drugs and that maybe she should have just asked her doctor instead of disregarding it as wrong. I wasn't making a statement on whether or not she needed medication in the first place.
  • manda1002
    manda1002 Posts: 178 Member
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    As an MD, I can tell you that doctors don't want to see their patients every 10-20 minutes and would love to sit and talk with you about weight loss and exercise plans if they had the chance. The problem is that insurance companies don't pay for education in most instances, and the reimbursement rates are so low that doctors have to stack patients in order to stay afloat. This is why 'concierge' practices are becoming so popular - without the insurance company, doctors can spend an hour plus with each person and be very thorough. They hammer the patient-first model into us in medical school, but when you get into the real world it's the insurance companies that determine how you practice.
    Also, doctors aren't magicians. If you come in with a set of symptoms, it could usually easily be about 10 different things. We usually start conservatively with an educated guess (I think someone mentioned this). This is why it's SO important to have a running dialogue with your physician... and to even have a primary care physician to begin with. You can talk about what's working and what's not and tailor therapy to the individual. If you keep hopping from one physician to the next, most are going to come up with the same differential and work it up in the same order, or end up with unnecessary expensive tests at the ER.
    As for the nutrition side, it's true that we don't get taught in-depth about different exercise regimens and whatnot, but we do learn nutrition and know healthy and unhealthy ways to lose weight and if you're lucky, you can refer to a dietitian for specific diet plans and help with lifestyle changes and things that require a lot more time than the doctor's visit has for it.


    This. This this this this this.

    If you walk into the doctors office with "yeah, it hurts, right here, its been like 4 days...no...6 days...no...i don't know....and its like....painful........not like i can't breath, it just hurts" then what else do you expect. They can only work with what you give them. And sometimes, what you give them CAN be at least 5 other things, each requiring a different medication.

    And doctor hopping? TALK to people. Ask your neighbors and friends who THEY like to go to. Check that doctor out. Find ONE doctor who can know your history! Going to 8 different doctors giving them the same vague symptoms, and NOT questioning them if you think they're wrong is just silly!

    Most important. If YOU don't know YOUR body, how do you expect someone else to?
  • Azdak
    Azdak Posts: 8,281 Member
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    Most of the instances I've seen include the standard "eat 1200 calories a day and exercise to lose weight". In the meantime, your general practitioner is thinking, "Why is this person here asking me about nutrition? I hope they don't notice that I'm not even going to bother taking body fat measurements.. I hope they leave soon."

    I've never met a doctor with that attitude. I've never met one that hopes a person will leave soon or that a person doesn't notice they're not running the appropriate tests. Most primary care doctors that I've encountered do what they can with the knowledge that they have... and then they send you to a specialist if/when they think you need one.

    Doctors, like every other profession, come in different flavors of 'competent'. You do, occasionally, find a quack or moron. However, the majority are well-trained professionals and it boggles me that MFPers are so quick to discard the advice on an MD because they think that the IT tech knows more about diet than their doctor.

    +1

    Or some grifter they see on TV.
  • mousepaws22
    mousepaws22 Posts: 380 Member
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    Hmm agree and disagree here, but my family has had a lot of bad experiences with Dcoters (all types) so I am a little bit biased.

    In terms of my GP and my weight problems she's been nice, hasn't lectured me, told me to eat to the 80/20 rule but did say to me "You just have a really slow metabolism" and left it at that. Not particularly helpful when I was looking for some advice or guidance!
  • SHBoss1673
    SHBoss1673 Posts: 7,161 Member
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    This is an interesting and volatile topic.

    I'll begin with a quick background of my nutritional experience.

    1) I'm NOT a dietitian, no time, full time job plus a part time personal trainer (but if I had the time and money...).
    2) 6 years ago I was fat, for the first time in my life, because of life, metabolic changes, and stress I gained about 55 lbs
    3) I had no experience in weight loss, but I did have a college education in chemistry, and a brain that is very mathematical
    4) I did my own research, had no bias's walking into it, and learned about the human body before I began
    5) Because of the above, I was able to see through most of the scams and hype surrounding the weight loss world
    6) I lost the weight in a healthy manner, slowly, and successfully. And in the process gained a lot of nutritional knowledge.

    My research was based mostly on clinical trials, nutritional expert conclusions, and then, finally on personal adaptations.

    After a while I became "addicted" to nutrition and health, and continued studying even after I lost the weight I wanted to (in a healthy manner). So I kept studying, didn't have the money to go back for a masters in nutritional science, but did have the money to buy the masters level text books, and had the academic credentials to start reading them and understanding the complex human anatomical topics discussed.
    Learned a load of information over about a 3 year period (and am continuing).

    During the course of my study and research, I came across a study done on doctors in the early 2000's where there was a basic nutrition study sent out to a few thousand doctors in the US, about a thousand of them sent the study back. 70% failed this basic questionnaire receiving a 50% or lower. This is somewhat alarming but not surprising.

    What does this tell me? Trust your GP until they give you a reason not to. Yes, question their conclusions, but not out of contempt, but out of a real desire to understand your body. Ask them about their background in a particular field, not just nutrition, but anything. If your doctor gives them nutritional advice, politely ask them what their nutrition training is. Then if they answer satisfactorily, go back and do research into that advice before you implement.

    there's no reason to hate on a field, especially doctors in the US who are obviously overwhelmed with the volume of clients they are forced to deal with to meet premiums. But like any field, if they are overworked, they might make mistakes, and that's unacceptable and on YOU as much as them if you follow their advice without doing some basic research.

    Look, you can be trained as a GP, and you may know a lot about the body, but that doesn't mean you're an expert at any 1 field of the body. The human metabolism is very complex, and consists of not just digestion and energy usage, but also hormone release and balance, chemical homeostasis, oxygen usage, and thermogenesis. It takes more than a few undergraduate classes in nutrition to understand it fully, heck, I feel like I'm just scratching the surface after 6 years of study.

    My point is, GP doctors are doing their best, and some of them have the knowledge to help with nutrition, but many don't, but essentially all (in the US) dietitians have the knowledge, and many will give you a free initial consultation, so if you're looking for specific, customized advice about a dietary issue that every day research can't solve, go to a dietitian.

    The one thing ill say about GP doctors is that they SHOULD know when to give advice and when not to. Any doctor not trained in nutritional sciences that gives out nutritional advice (of a specific nature) is suspect IMHO and should be spoken to about this, it leads me to question their motives. Why give out advice about something you aren't an expert in? What else are you telling people that may or may not be credible?
  • 2hungariangirls
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    I have a daughter with severe disabilities and I will say, there are good and bad doctors. YOU have to be the one to weed out the bad and stick with the good. It is a business and a process and you have to go with your gut. No, I am not a doctor. However, just because it wasn't my calling to become a doctor does not mean that I am not smart enough to be a doctor or not smart enough to comprehend what you are telling me.
  • Drunkadelic
    Drunkadelic Posts: 948 Member
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    Q: You know what they call a doctor that graduates the absolute worst in the class?




    A; A Doctor

    ding ding ding.

    I know quite a few people that just graduated medical school and I would not want ANY OF THEM to work on me or anyone I care about.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
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    Q: You know what they call a doctor that graduates the absolute worst in the class?




    A; A Doctor

    ding ding ding.

    I know quite a few people that just graduated medical school and I would not want ANY OF THEM to work on me or anyone I care about.

    I wonder how many of those are going to be pediatricians? That specialty tends to attract the worst of the bunch.

    The summer my daughter was 5, every day for a month she came down with a low-grade fever in the afternoon.. We had her at the doc's (recommended by my aunt whose friends were close friends of the docs at this particular practice) every week and they kept sending us home saying it was "a summer virus" (whatever that is). They were actually getting annoyed that I kept bringing her back in.

    They had done a quick urine culture that came back negative, but my other aunt (an RN for more years than she would want me to tell you all) thought they needed to do a 36-hour culture. She finally came with me to an appointment and told the doc what she thought. The doctor actually told my aunt that she didn't know what she was talking about and basically that as a nurse, she should know her place.

    Regardless, they did the 36-hour and it came back positive for a UTI. She'd had it a month already, which meant visits to a urologist and Children's Hospital to make sure her kidneys were OK. As soon as she was given the all-clear, I found a new pediatrician who was wonderful.

    So, yeah, doctors are not always right and sometimes it helps to ask others of their experiences with certain symptoms, especially when the docs aren't giving any results.
  • jcpmoore
    jcpmoore Posts: 796 Member
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    I have to agree with the OP. Don't completely discount your doctor's advice. Your health is also your responsibility. So here are the steps I advise anyone to take to make sure they they do not feel that their doctor is a clueless quack:

    1. Write down ALL your concerns before you go to the appointment. This way your are less likely to forget a point or blow it off b/c you're ready to leave.
    2. If you don't agree with what they tell you, voice that. "Sorry, I don't like what I'm hearing. Can you explain why that's a good idea?" Believe me, they will not mind telling you. That is their job. If they do mind, fire them.
    3. If you read something that contradicts their recommendation, tell them that. For example, if they recommend 1200 calories and you heard 1700, tell them that and ask why the 1200 is superior. DON'T HOLD BACK.
    4. You have a right to say NO. If your doctor recommends a therapy to which you object, say NO. Ask for an alternative. Most of the time there is one.
    5. If you want a referral to a dietician, ask.

    And as for insurance not covering the dietician, save your money and go on your own. It's worth it. We are so used to only going to a specialist that is covered. Call the recommended dietician and find out how much a consultation is. Then save the money and GO. Don't use the GP as a substitute b/c of coverage.

    HTH
  • snuggllepuff
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    When my doctor heard that I eat a lot of steak and eggs he flipped out and told me I was going to die and have a heart attack.

    Then he tested my blood work during my checkup and said I had the most impressive blood work he's seen in a while.

    psh.
  • Juliebean_1027
    Juliebean_1027 Posts: 713 Member
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    When I went to my doctor because I was concerned that I wasn't losing weight even though I was restricting my calories to 1600 per day and working out 5 days a week (an hour of cardio each day and 30 minutes of weight training), her advice was to "maybe starve yourself a little bit. When you eat something, weigh yourself. If you see the scale go up, that's it. No more food that day."

    ...

    I went to see if I had a thyroid problem, not be prescribed an eating disorder. Needless to say, that was the last time I saw that doctor.

    Doctor's, like people, come in all shapes and sizes. Some of them know what they're talking about. Others don't know squat.
  • delilah47
    delilah47 Posts: 1,658
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    Yeah, and my doctor thinks he's an expert in just about everything. He has downright lied to me about several things. Just making statements that "I know" are blatantly false. He was also the one who pooh poohed my diet and said I will never lose weight eating 1500 calories a day. He insists 1000 is the only way to lose weight. Also, I told him what I had for breakfast that morning and he's like.. "you can't eat potatoes when you want to lose weight". I told him I had lots of experience with this and he still tried to make me look like an idiot. Just because I need to lose weight doesn't mean I don't know how to do it.:wink: I hate him for trying to humiliate me and definitely need to find a new doctor.
  • SirZee
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    In my experience, most general practicioners (ie. the first doctor 99% of people see) don't know much about sports medicine or physiology, and any advice they give is heavily skewed towards protecting their rear. On a broader scale, I find it depressing on how large the number of people who barely cross the competency threshold in their PRIMARY field of specification, its scary how our lives are literally run and affected by people most of whom are nothing but "average" in their field. It is soooo hard to find true experts in their field. Its just that doctors tend to play prominent roles, as the things that they affect in your life are quite major. Do your research and then get multiple opinions on any major item, especially those where the initial advice doesn't mesh with your well executed research.

    This is why so many "non doctors" weigh in opposite of "my doctor said" posts.

    When you go to the doctor, ignore the aura of "I'm your superior human being, bow down and take my word as gospel". Unfortunately the medical profession cultivates this kind of environment (partly because people on average can be very dumb, and they just get into the habit of not bothering to explain). I remember testing my dentist' patience a bit with questions that he responded to "You are asking third year level medical student classes"--I got nothing to do with medicine/medical fields (am an aerospace engineer), and it made me think "wow, 3rd year medical students aren't as bright as I thought then."

    Remember, you ARE the paying customer, and demand value for your hard earned cash.
  • cramernh
    cramernh Posts: 3,335 Member
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    When my doctor heard that I eat a lot of steak and eggs he flipped out and told me I was going to die and have a heart attack.

    Then he tested my blood work during my checkup and said I had the most impressive blood work he's seen in a while.

    psh.

    Chicken, Turkey, Bacon, Seafood, Pork, Steak, eggs, cheese, hearty vegetables (no 'whites'), elimination of breads/pasta/rice/corn due to food allergies, had real butter, always use olive oil, only concentrated on berries - all contributed to my total cholesterol going from 252 down to 117. My A1c went from 11.2 down to 5.2

    I second the 'psh'
  • mikeyboy
    mikeyboy Posts: 1,057 Member
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    If you boil it down, all the way to the bottom, somewhere there is the worst Doctor in the world. And someone has an appointment with that Doctor today! :sad:

    My GP saved my life twice. Do your reserch and find one who cares and will admit when it is time to call in an expert.
  • snuggllepuff
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    When my doctor heard that I eat a lot of steak and eggs he flipped out and told me I was going to die and have a heart attack.

    Then he tested my blood work during my checkup and said I had the most impressive blood work he's seen in a while.

    psh.

    Chicken, Turkey, Bacon, Seafood, Pork, Steak, eggs, cheese, hearty vegetables (no 'whites'), elimination of breads/pasta/rice/corn due to food allergies, had real butter, always use olive oil, only concentrated on berries - all contributed to my total cholesterol going from 252 down to 117. My A1c went from 11.2 down to 5.2

    I second the 'psh'

    THIS. All my carbs come from green veggies, brown rice, and steel cut oats. The protein is get is from animal products that most would frown upon. A lot of people will go out on a limb to try and tell you to stay away from the meats and eat your "whole grains."

    But in reality, what most people think are "healthy whole grains" are crappy, sugary, things with 30 healthy claims on the box. Special K? psh. Nutrigrain bars? psh. 100 calorie packs? psh.

    Huge omelette that most people would consider a "heart attack on a plate??" awesome choice.